D/s Porn "With Lots of Talking"?

SlowNRough

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But not really just naming calling or humiliation? Anybody know of any?

Without sounding haughty, I would like to find some D/s film that is more cerebral/psychological - lots of giving orders and repetition - in short, lots of talking. It seems most examples I find online are just men slapping a woman a few times, calling her a name and then straight to intercourse. I want some teasing. Drawn out. You get the idea.

Thanks
 
But not really just naming calling or humiliation? Anybody know of any?

Without sounding haughty, I would like to find some D/s film that is more cerebral/psychological - lots of giving orders and repetition - in short, lots of talking. It seems most examples I find online are just men slapping a woman a few times, calling her a name and then straight to intercourse. I want some teasing. Drawn out. You get the idea.

Thanks
Have you seen the movie "The Secretary" It is more of psychological BDSM than physical though physical aspects do come in. It is not technically a porn movie. It lends itself to lots of your own imagination as it doesn't show stuff openly!
 
Thanks. I have seen that movie.

I am looking for something more "porny" 😀 Like a couple playing out a scene with the Dom giving lots of instructions and praise or discipline as needed. I can't believe I'm the only person who would be interested in this. My inability to find anything is making me wonder 🤔
 
Thanks. I have seen that movie.

I am looking for something more "porny" 😀 Like a couple playing out a scene with the Dom giving lots of instructions and praise or discipline as needed. I can't believe I'm the only person who would be interested in this. My inability to find anything is making me wonder 🤔

I would enjoy that, but I've never sought it out. When I look for porn, for reasons, I typically want to see the action. I hope you find what you're searching for.
 
But not really just naming calling or humiliation? Anybody know of any?

Without sounding haughty, I would like to find some D/s film that is more cerebral/psychological - lots of giving orders and repetition - in short, lots of talking. It seems most examples I find online are just men slapping a woman a few times, calling her a name and then straight to intercourse. I want some teasing. Drawn out. You get the idea.

Thanks

That's the kind I'm interested in as well.
 
I'd absolutely be into this kind of porn. That would blow my skirt up all kinds of ways!
 
But not really just naming calling or humiliation? Anybody know of any?

Without sounding haughty, I would like to find some D/s film that is more cerebral/psychological - lots of giving orders and repetition - in short, lots of talking. It seems most examples I find online are just men slapping a woman a few times, calling her a name and then straight to intercourse. I want some teasing. Drawn out. You get the idea.

Thanks

In stories I read I like that with lots of talking, the most with lots of dirty dialog .....it lends itself to the excitement and seems to make it more sexual....at least for me. I have written a few stories in that style but have not put anything on here...don't feel it good enough yet.
 
With you there!
Best I have found so far is some of the Training of O videos as there is more talking there, but it's not perfect.
That's why I stick to books!

Love to know if you come across anything 😉
 
Nodding

Putting my hand up too!
I'd love to find something like that...
So much porn is aimed at men - I feel like there is a whole corner of the market they're missing here :)
 
You are totally onto something here. All of the porn I find is either virtually silent or too fake. I also don't like verbal humiliation so that knocks out a lot of it. I am a guy but even I have standards.

I approached a video production company about making a scene based on one of my stories but we didn't get past the idea phase. My scenes tend to be longer on dialog without sounding too contrived, I hope.

I'm a switch with lots of fetishes so my stories obviously reflect my interests. I have also thought about writing a script and hiring someone to star in it with me. Strictly for private use though.
 
I certainly understand that desire. To me being a Dom is to be a loving, authority figure who above all protects and cherishes. That being said, when punishment or discipline is necessary it is applied with a fine tuned psychological flair and very imaginative punishments. Sometimes just getting someone to engage in a conversation, revealing true feelings and descriptions of what they do that they've never told anyone else is very erotic. It's the mental that draws a Dom and Sub together.
 
*Raises hand*
I thought maybe I was crazy for wanting more than just the sex part if bdsm in a porn. It's hard for me to get turned on by the physical side if there are no mental aspects of it. Just random tie up and torture doesn't do it for me :/
 
So much porn is aimed at men - I feel like there is a whole corner of the market they're missing here :)

If so, then it's not aimed at me and I'm a man. :)

I feel the same as those who have posted on this thread. For me the eroticism resides in the context, characterisation, and dialogue. Not the the physical "sex scene" which is only, so to speak, the climax following everything that went before. It's the psychological aspects of the interaction/power-exchange that provides the eroticism and without that the physical "sex scene" on its own is hard-pressed to be even interesting let alone erotic. Most porn is boring precisely because it misses out all the stuff that might make it arousing, especially the context and dialogue.
 
Though it probably won't satisfy the "lots of talking" desire, I suggest a film titled "The Image," from the 1970s. It explores the psychological aspects of a BDSM triangle formed by a young female submissive, her middle-aged Mistress, and a male friend of the Mistress. Some intense SM activities are shown, though the presentation is mild by today's standards.

Like "Story of O", it is based on a French novel (by Jean de Berg). The film was directed by Radley Metzger.

Given that the relationship between the submissive, Anne, and her Mistress, Claire, pushes the boundary of safe, sane, and consensual, the film may not appeal to some.
 
Old thread, but found something like I mentioned in the OP. Search out Veronica Avluv on Kink.com. Lots of talking and not "fear based"'as she calls it. There are at least 2 hours worth of clips I believe.
 
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