Reaching Out

So I send something like this just about every year, if it finds the right person - wonderful...

I doubt there are few who can completely understand this and many who see the contradiction, but I love my wife, my kids and my life. I do not want to loose any of that, yet I am here.

But to be honest I lack real intimacy in my life. To be more direct, I am not talking about just sex. I am talking about the desire to challenge and be challenged, to share, to get that feeling of excitement when you deeply kiss someone.

So I guess, I am looking for a woman who really gets and connected to the above paragraph, the contradictions and all.

Someone who will not judge.

I did meet a great person on here once...but she just lived way to far.

Please be only a couple of hours away from NYC.

I do not want to change anything about my current life, rather simply create a value add, an escape...

Having a deep connection is important to me.

Someone who I can communicate with, someone literate, who understands the power of words in connecting with someone.

I work a great deal. I am attractive. I am professionally successful.

If you are...

Direct

Drama-free

Uninhibitted

Passionate

Sarcastic

Confident

Curious

Easy going

A Good Kisser

Someone who wants to be safely reckless

Someone who knows her body

Someone who wants to push herself to find and communicate her needs

Someone who likes the occasional scotch or good glass of wine, or bottle...

Someone who is flexible - both physically and emotionally

Someone who can easily provide a strong opinion about a book and film....but also deeply yearns for a great physical, uninhibited relationship...

I hope you would consider messaging me and investing the time to get to know each other.

Thanks.

Mr. Weiner, I presume?

Ha!

Great reply...though in thinking about it, I think half the folks on Lit - male and female - are a little bit Weiner-esque....

I hope you find someone. I felt the same as you did and without even searching for it, not one but two wonderful women, besides my wife, share that intimacy I craved with me. I am fat, ugly and I am not wealthy. It is possible, my friend.

I think I am most of the things you are looking for