hdman5557
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Oct 10, 2012
- Posts
- 115
I think the top/bottom thing gets confused with behavior as Dom or Sub. I never think of myself as submissive when I'm sucking a cock or being fucked. It's what gives me pleasure. Psychologically I am just as much of a user and a taker as the owner of the cock inside me, because my best orgasms are realized that way.
I agree with you. It's all about the pleasure one derives. If one reluctantly fucks or gets sucked, who then is the dom/sub? It's the one who derives the most pleasure and gets it.