Scrivener_
Really Really Experienced
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- Nov 12, 2013
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Good for you. Now please take your comments elsewhere, thanks.
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Yo I ain't trolling! I really would love to get raped along with my mom! I once allowed myself to be groped by an old man in the public bus!
This is related to my having a hard time actually SAYING no - rape culture teaches women that saying an outright no will get them hurt, demeaned, or worse, and also that it's just an opening for bargaining on the other person's part (as happened here).
You clearly haven't read the thread and your comments are wildly inappropriate.
Hey the topic is rape right! And I apologize if my comments sounded racist or something coz that's clearly not what I intended..in reality there's nothing more I would like than having a big black cock inside of me
I'm the OP and I'm asking you politely to leave. The topic is not rape, the topic is what's wrong with rape. Please take your comments elsewhere.
The ignore feature on this site can be very helpful.
another point of note, when someone has been clearly identified as a troll, don't ever quote them. It drip's their poison past everyone else's ignore filters.
The way in which we say no is often problematic. We feel like "no" without an explanation is mean and wrong, when it's just normal behavior.
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Work on your no, but don't blame yourself if it doesn't work out. I know it's a hard balancing act. But improving my no has immensely lowered my rate of being persuaded into things I don't like. Which I think is a universal female experience, if there is any.
Once more, do NOT blame yourself if you're not inherently good at this skill. You have accumulated a lifetime of messaging that if you use this skill you are a bitch and a horrible person.
Good for you. Now please take your comments elsewhere, thanks.
The ignore feature on this site can be very helpful.
Speaking as someone who learned social niceties late in life, and who tends to be focused on making you feel good-- If I hear "phone calls make me nervous" and I want the phone call? Yeah, I might misinterpret that, and say "aw, don't be nervous!" I DO know about social anxieties, PTSD, but it might not occur to me in that moment that you were dealing with them.