My girlfriend and I are fairly regular swingers in the FFM category, and we often bring light elements of D/S into those scenarios, but not to the extent we do when we are in private together, where my girlfriend is sub.
Our FFMs have involved spanking, hair pulling, verbal humiliation (bitch, whore, slut, etc, not personal insults) so not anything too heavy, as you would expect from first encounters. (Actually, the story of our first ever FFM meet is here: http://www.literotica.com/s/swingers-first-ffm-threesome It gives a much fuller picture of how these meets generally go).
We have a meet arranged with a prospective new lover who has expressed that she is very submissive also, and in her own words wants to be used as our 'sex toy cum slut' for the evening, and wants to be firmly commanded by my girlfriend as well as me.
Now in the FFMs we have had, I have naturally taken charge of the situation, and it's gone very happily for all concerned. But this scenario should be a bit more intense I feel, and there should be a clear 'chain of command' as it were - I dom my girlfriend, and she doms our new lover.
Now the way I have pictured this is that I will be giving the gf instructions on how to treat our guest. I don't know if I am over thinking this, but I feel that I should have a clear picture in my mind of what games we should play, so that we maintain the d/s element and things don't become wooly. By which I mean a big fuckfest, which of course would be fantastic, but wouldn't really fulfil our guest's desires exactly as she has asked us to.
I'm very confident that we will have some serious fun whatever happens, but any advice on how I might handle this from people who have been in or imagined this sort of scenario would be much appreciated.
Our FFMs have involved spanking, hair pulling, verbal humiliation (bitch, whore, slut, etc, not personal insults) so not anything too heavy, as you would expect from first encounters. (Actually, the story of our first ever FFM meet is here: http://www.literotica.com/s/swingers-first-ffm-threesome It gives a much fuller picture of how these meets generally go).
We have a meet arranged with a prospective new lover who has expressed that she is very submissive also, and in her own words wants to be used as our 'sex toy cum slut' for the evening, and wants to be firmly commanded by my girlfriend as well as me.
Now in the FFMs we have had, I have naturally taken charge of the situation, and it's gone very happily for all concerned. But this scenario should be a bit more intense I feel, and there should be a clear 'chain of command' as it were - I dom my girlfriend, and she doms our new lover.
Now the way I have pictured this is that I will be giving the gf instructions on how to treat our guest. I don't know if I am over thinking this, but I feel that I should have a clear picture in my mind of what games we should play, so that we maintain the d/s element and things don't become wooly. By which I mean a big fuckfest, which of course would be fantastic, but wouldn't really fulfil our guest's desires exactly as she has asked us to.
I'm very confident that we will have some serious fun whatever happens, but any advice on how I might handle this from people who have been in or imagined this sort of scenario would be much appreciated.