erotica_n_s
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There’s more than one question here:
Some of my stories are about female protagonists who face temptation, e.g., the sweet-natured and guileless virgin who meets a handsome stranger, or the married woman who is tempted to cheat on her husband.
In such stories, I try to include a scene where the male protagonist deliberately sends out little signals to get the woman aroused, and the woman slowly starting to feel aroused, and the tension building for a while before they actually start having sex – writing this “prelude” is often harder than writing the sex scenes themselves.
I guess I'd have to explain why the female character is hesitating in the first place, before then depicting how she overcomes/over-rides/ignores her hesitation/inhibition/reservations.
Right now, I’m working on a story about a woman who has an affair with her husband’s friend (well, they have sex 7 or 8 times over the course of three days – I don’t know if you’d call that an “affair”).
So, on day 1, she’s hosting this guy (as in, he’s visiting their place, and she’s being a polite platonic host) while her husband is away. He was a groomsman at their wedding. She’s been married to her husband for four years. She’s on polite and respectful terms with her husband’s friend.
She notices he’s a good-looking man. She thinks “he’s cute”, then “his physique isn’t too bad”, and then gradually becomes aware that she’s actually becoming sexually aroused. She then continues in a state of silent sexual arousal for the next few hours. He’s going to be staying for three days.
But I’m not entirely sure how to depict this woman giving in to temptation - i.e., I'm not sure how to make it reasonably believable. I considered starting with a scene where the guy takes the lead – places his hand on her bare waist, she reacts with shock, then he kisses her forcibly, she resists, but only half-heartedly and very weakly, and as she hesitates/vacillates, he partially undresses her and performs cunnilingus on her, bringing her to orgasm. Then she walks away, too embarrassed to talk to him, and a few hours later, she serves him the evening meal, and starts talking to him again, as if pretending nothing happened between them. Then a few hours later, the next sex scene. And so on.
I don’t know.
I’d be grateful for your thoughts.
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There’s more than one question here:
- How do I depict a female character in a state of helpless sexual arousal?
- What kinds of cues might cause a woman to become sexually aroused?
[*]What physiological changes occur in a woman who is sexually aroused?
- Vaginal moistening, labial swelling, clitoral engorgement, nipple erection? Anything else?
[*]What thought processes would a woman go through before, or while, giving in to “temptation”? How might a woman over-ride feelings of inhibition, guilt, etc.? Would she need to make excuses to herself? - What kinds of cues might cause a woman to become sexually aroused?
Some of my stories are about female protagonists who face temptation, e.g., the sweet-natured and guileless virgin who meets a handsome stranger, or the married woman who is tempted to cheat on her husband.
In such stories, I try to include a scene where the male protagonist deliberately sends out little signals to get the woman aroused, and the woman slowly starting to feel aroused, and the tension building for a while before they actually start having sex – writing this “prelude” is often harder than writing the sex scenes themselves.
I guess I'd have to explain why the female character is hesitating in the first place, before then depicting how she overcomes/over-rides/ignores her hesitation/inhibition/reservations.
Right now, I’m working on a story about a woman who has an affair with her husband’s friend (well, they have sex 7 or 8 times over the course of three days – I don’t know if you’d call that an “affair”).
So, on day 1, she’s hosting this guy (as in, he’s visiting their place, and she’s being a polite platonic host) while her husband is away. He was a groomsman at their wedding. She’s been married to her husband for four years. She’s on polite and respectful terms with her husband’s friend.
She notices he’s a good-looking man. She thinks “he’s cute”, then “his physique isn’t too bad”, and then gradually becomes aware that she’s actually becoming sexually aroused. She then continues in a state of silent sexual arousal for the next few hours. He’s going to be staying for three days.
But I’m not entirely sure how to depict this woman giving in to temptation - i.e., I'm not sure how to make it reasonably believable. I considered starting with a scene where the guy takes the lead – places his hand on her bare waist, she reacts with shock, then he kisses her forcibly, she resists, but only half-heartedly and very weakly, and as she hesitates/vacillates, he partially undresses her and performs cunnilingus on her, bringing her to orgasm. Then she walks away, too embarrassed to talk to him, and a few hours later, she serves him the evening meal, and starts talking to him again, as if pretending nothing happened between them. Then a few hours later, the next sex scene. And so on.
I don’t know.
I’d be grateful for your thoughts.
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