Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
When writing about extra-marital fornication is there even such a thing as loving gentle sex, ie making love, or is it always fucking?
When writing about extra-marital fornication is there even such a thing as loving gentle sex, ie making love, or is it always fucking?
When I write "fucking" is what you do for yourself, "making love" is what you do for a partner you care about. In marriage or extra marital is not really the determining factor. Not just in writing, but in life also.
I don't agree with this at all, husband and wife can fuck each other senseless in a caring role. My question is that when writing these stories where we mostly have one or other spouse cheating, is is possible for this wanton sex to be anything other than fucking? Stories about long-term loving relationships are a different thing. I should have put an 'almost' in front of the always in my OP.
When writing about extra-marital fornication is there even such a thing as loving gentle sex, ie making love, or is it always fucking?
Questions: Would you want you wife to have a loving relationship with another man? Would you want her to be in love with another man? or woman for that matter? Or would you want it to be just about the pleasures of sex?
If you can think of something, then there's probably somebody out there doing that something. There are polyamorous people who claim to have loving relationships with more than one person. It's hard for me to imagine that working, but I'm not them.
I was asking a generic question Zeb, not a personal one... In answer to your direct question, I'm
not married so I cannot respond with experience.
I think it should all be sensual and loving until God smites the cheating fornicators with lightning...
I think it should all be sensual and loving until God smites the cheating fornicators with lightning...
When writing about extra-marital fornication is there even such a thing as loving gentle sex, ie making love, or is it always fucking?
c'est moi. I've been with my partner ~ 20 years, we still love one another, and for much of that time we've also been dating other people. (Sometimes both dating the same person, sometimes different.)
It's not for everybody and it has its challenges, but it certainly does happen.
Bramblethorn, would you describe your feelings for those you date outside your main relationship as love or something less? Or are the extra-relationship relathhionships just about fucking or something like That? To clarify my comment above, the latter doesn't seem strange to me; it's the former that's hard for me to imagine sustaining.