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Old 04-04-2018, 03:59 PM   #826
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I expected far higher numbers! Especially from visitors on THIS site. LOL

I'm over 60, and have had sex with probably twice that number. And i'm not that great looking , either. Go figure.
One of the factors to "go figure", mate, is that some people are so imaginative with their sex that it can be stunningly good with the same person over and over for decades. That's what some of us choose, not because we're ugly and can't pull, but because we have a fab partner with shedloads of willingness to play.
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Old 04-06-2018, 03:20 PM   #827
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One of the factors to "go figure", mate, is that some people are so imaginative with their sex that it can be stunningly good with the same person over and over for decades. That's what some of us choose, not because we're ugly and can't pull, but because we have a fab partner with shedloads of willingness to play.
And the opposite side of that same coin is couples getting married young and staying in a sexless marriage and don't cheat.

I have several friends in the military that married the first girl they met out in town and staying with them forever with no sex.
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Old 04-06-2018, 08:09 PM   #828
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Old 04-06-2018, 08:17 PM   #829
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Old 04-07-2018, 05:34 AM   #830
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One of the factors to "go figure", mate, is that some people are so imaginative with their sex that it can be stunningly good with the same person over and over for decades. That's what some of us choose, not because we're ugly and can't pull, but because we have a fab partner with shedloads of willingness to play.
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of the high score boasters, how many had unsatisfied partners who moved on?

'cos if it really worked...
and congratulations suckonsimon - to both you and your partner!
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Old 04-10-2018, 11:01 PM   #831
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So. I am 51, and have had vaginal sex with 3 women. I have given oral to three more (one last week on a business trip!), and received oral from one of those three. I am hoping +1 a lot of these stats next week...
+1 fuck as of last week for a total of 4 women fucked, and three more Iíve given oral to (although only one of those three reciprocated).
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Old 04-11-2018, 12:14 AM   #832
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I took an approximate count for another thread somewhere and it was over 80. Then I remembered a few more. Somehow, it seems like it should be more.
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Old 04-11-2018, 12:17 AM   #833
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Old 04-11-2018, 05:58 AM   #834
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My wife and I enjoy recreational sex, that is to say, if we meet a couple who are like-minded and there is sexual chemistry then sex is a likely outcome. We don't believe we MUST be in a romantic relationship for the experience to be fulfilling and enjoyable. Simply taking advantage of a point in time to sexually please another person and accept their gift of pleasure in return is an enjoyable experience in itself.

The 70s and 80s were very fruitful as I was in my youth and enjoyed myself, followed by a settled period but since we have become empty nesters the numbers are starting to rise again but precisely how many I really canít say.

However, it is enough how to please who I'm with and to know what I like. But not enough to have tried everything. I have regrets about not taking opportunities and some that may never happen again.
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Old 07-15-2018, 11:05 AM   #835
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Just had to think about this

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Total of 11

Messed around with a couple others when young but did not fuck them
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Old 07-15-2018, 11:08 AM   #836
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My husband was the first, and since then three others.
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Old 07-16-2018, 02:13 AM   #837
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I'm 49, and I have had sex with four women. I had three lengthy relationships during high school/college/early to mid 20, then married for 19 years without an affair. I should have a couple more, but shit happens to all of us. I've made out with others, but only had oral sex with the four women I slept with.

I made a mistake when I asked my then-new girlfriend and eventual wife and ex-wife how many men she had been with. It was in the mid-1990s, and health officials advised couples to talk about their sex histories in an effort to slow the spread of AIDS. My girlfriend avoided specifics and wanted me to guess her total. Not being very worldly on such matters in those days, I picked a number in the single digits, and she got upset. Then, I thought I would get smart and put numbers in sports terms to ease her anxiety. I guessed she had sex with the number of players in a baseball team (9). Too low. Add some pitchers? Too low. A football team (11)? Still too low. I stopped guessing after adding kicking specialists and returners. She never told me the total. That number didn't matter, she said, because the total number of times I had sex was more than hers. I had long-term relationships in which I was sexually active, and she mostly slept with friends once or twice, she said. So, I was more of a whore. Interesting logic.

I hope to add to my number before it's too late.
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Old 07-17-2018, 09:56 AM   #838
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none for now :P
and im 20 years old
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Old 07-18-2018, 12:45 PM   #839
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Old 07-19-2018, 05:14 PM   #840
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One. Gave and received oral a few times before I met my ex wife. But sheís the only one Iíve actually fucked.
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Old 07-28-2018, 02:13 PM   #841
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6 before I was 18, then married at 19 for ten years and when sex with DH #1 became non-existent, then 3 other guys, 1 of them long term.

Then off to marriage #2, for nine years - no cheating on him although he cheated on me - divorce #2.

On to single life for two years, probably 6 during that time (too long ago to remember)., then met DH #3, my soul mate - no cheating on him for 29 years (he died).

Since then (9 years) 5 so I think the low 20s would be the correct answer.
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Old 07-28-2018, 02:18 PM   #842
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I'm 27 years old and so far, I've had sex with 5 people - 1 men and 4 ladies! I have no idea what else to say here ~ I guess, I never expected the number to be this big...
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Old 08-15-2018, 09:14 PM   #843
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Less than one hundred I think...
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Old 08-15-2018, 09:29 PM   #844
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Im stunned that people can come up with an actual number.

I have had more than a few one night stands or even one hour stands (), particularly in my 20's. IT has slowed down greatly in the past 25 years, but I have had a few dalliances. that is the best I can do.
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Old 08-15-2018, 09:39 PM   #845
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Lucky 13. Although that bumps up to 15 I guess if you include oral-only.
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Old 08-21-2018, 03:21 PM   #846
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15 is my best guess. With at least 1 girl too
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Old 08-21-2018, 06:17 PM   #847
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Looking at everyone's numbers I am too embarrassed to say.
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Old 08-21-2018, 07:52 PM   #848
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Old 08-22-2018, 06:52 AM   #849
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