Wife suggests Ladyboy, Mind blown !

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Same here wife first introduced anal play through anallingus and her fingers , little did I know what a can of worms it would open. Hands free orgasm , wow sounds intense and awesome...I think the strap on play will be a good place to start.

At least if the wife fucks me with that and gets me to suck her strapon it's still just a dildo. However can't help but think she kinda wants train me or ease me in as she has picked out strapons that a very realistic looking.....

Good point I know, who would ever know anything besides us but a hot TS with a big member is a big step for any guy to take....agree with policywank...the idea of being submissive for most of us men is so foreign for no other reason than its not considered masculine but maybe for women using their control to lead us out of that mindset is a massive turn on for them and we could experience new taboo pleasures... Dam you sexy TS
 
Your wife obviously knew what she was doing when she sent you a picture of Jane Marie! She is one of the hottest shemale pornstars and I would love to spend some quality time with her.

I didn't have the same dilemma - I've been attracted to men and women almost since my first erection. I saw a shemale movie at an adult bookstore when I was 20 and I have been attracted to them ever since. Had my first shemale experience when I was 23 with a very patient escort named Dusty and I've been with many, many more since then. My current girlfriend is a young Chinese female to male transgender and if the asshole politicians here in Australia get off their asses and vote for marriage equality we may even be getting married. I'm fortunate that she is very adventurous as well.

Don't worry about labels - worry about pleasure. Your wife's first and then your own.
 
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Jesus that's a big lady cock and a lot of cum haha, that would be a lot to handle haha!

Yes Jane Marie completely caught me off guard and even after seeing the big reveal you could not help but still be turned on! Surprised sure but still attractive.

If I were to cross this line also where in reality is the best place to find a beautiful TS escort who is well endowed???? I guess places like Vegas , Amsterdam, and Bangkok would be the options but please do share your advice and experiences
 
More opinions from women please! Do you find femdom a turn on?

Thanks for that will use link instead of upload moving forward.


Any why do the ladies out there also get turned on by dominating their men, with a strapon or who knows what else.

Also what's the turn on for you in encouraging your straight fella into situations which they would never have considered before you mentioned it? And if you achieve your goal does it turn you on to push his boundaries further?

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Shoutout to policywank

For me being dominant sexually has many facets. I take pleasure from taking control. But I mostly enjoy using that control to deliver pleasure to another. Even when I direct him to serve me it is often to do things that I know he enjoys doing for me or to lead him to something that I think he will enjoy.

For instance, I enjoy anal sex and I know that men have even more potential to enjoy it because they have a prostate. Meanwhile it is something that most are loath to even consider let alone admit. By leading him there on the premise of doing it for me I can help him explore a new pleasure.

Likewise sucking a cock is a unique experience - submissive and controlling and tasty all at the same time. I can't say whether my man will enjoy it the same as I do. But by helping him explore in an open and non-judgmental way I give license for him to open his mind to the possibility.

We make assumptions about we will or won't enjoy based upon what we are told we are supposed to want. Stripping that away to explore is difficult. I regard it as an act of benevolent leadership to lead my man to new horizons. I take pleasure in my control and in his obedience. But the point is to use his obedience to lead him to pleasure not just to entertain me.


Best response and explanation so far to my situation... Thanks for taking the time everyone, this forum is a gathering of great minds....helping educate my mind to wider spectrum of sexual experiences.
 
I've done MFF and MMF threesomes and have to say that for me, two guys, one gal were much better. Like said above, one guy is going to have to really work at it to satisfy two women. One woman can wear two guys out. Adding a bi-guy or a t-girl to the fun is best all the way around.
 
I've done MFF and MMF threesomes and have to say that for me, two guys, one gal were much better. Like said above, one guy is going to have to really work at it to satisfy two women. One woman can wear two guys out. Adding a bi-guy or a t-girl to the fun is best all the way around.

Thanks mqoi for the insight...why do you think the MFM works better is it purely just a stamina issue?

So you think TS is a good idea? Would you do it
 
She won't let up..determined woman

Latest ones from the wife yesterday....

She said it would be her biggest turn on to see this....
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She has no desire to see me penetrate a TS, she wants me to fuck her while I get fucked....and sent the below...
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She wants me submit to her and the ladyboy, she said I need to forget my inhibitions and concerns. She said "Doing this, doesn't make you gay it's makes you mine, just open your mind"

She is on a mission!
 
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Just do it

Just do it and enjoy the ride. You're being too hard on yourself. It's with you and your wife it's erotic open and fun!!!!
 
IMO, this is not as strange as it may be to some.
Before I met my wife, my previous gf and I had a threesome with a ladyboy and she was very exotic looking to me from the get-go.
There was also a certain wrongfulness to it, as the ladyboy was cheating on her girlfriend to be with us for the afternoon. Still, the three of us couldn't help ourselves as we really wanted the experience.
I think the "Mind blown!" view of this makes sense, that a guy could be mind blown over what his wife or girlfriend would want to experiment with sexually, but I also believe there are a lot of women out there who would want to participate in something like this.
 
Latest ones from the wife yesterday....

She said it would be her biggest turn on to see this....
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She has no desire to see me penetrate a TS, she wants me to fuck her while I get fucked....and sent the below...
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She wants me submit to her and the ladyboy, she said I need to forget my inhibitions and concerns. She said "Doing this, doesn't make you gay it's makes you mine, just open your mind"

She is on a mission!

I know your wife has a specific goal in mind, but if you do not mind an opinion, do not discount the intimacy of the gathering of the three of you, and undressing and making out and foreplay. It's really intense and exciting. Exploring during these moments is a WAY turn on.
 
Very knowledgeable policywank and thank you for explaining and providing detail in all your responses.
May I ask have you done all these things yourself in reality or are these scenarios just fantasy.

If you could briefly describe a situation where you have achieved this level of sexual influence over someone in each of those topics and describe how this excited you that would be very interesting.

Also have you seen a situation where these things have happen where specifically a TS was involved as opposed to a male? I want to stress the point because you mentioned it above its the fact of wife potentially wanting me to these things that is the turn. Sharing new experiences and all that. My mind has been opened after reviving a prostrate massage that men can have extremely intense orgasms through penetration but I'm even more on the fence about her wanting me to suck a TS and swallow cum, that was the bigger shock to the mind.

Keep the feedback rolling !!!! Everyone , this forum is excellent


I am not quite sure how to elaborate. Seeing another person have pleasure is inherently joyful. Pegging my husband or another lover and watching them go from trepidation to acceptance to moaning to hard cock dribbling cum is rewarding. Knowing they would never have gotten to that point without my authority demanding it of them and seeing that direct connection and experiencing their thanks for pushing them gives me a sense of accomplishment. Having them ask me to do it again solidifies their acceptance and desire. I feel as though I have helped teach something joyful.

But the immediate, visceral and undeniable intensity of their pleasure is addictive. So often in relationships we pretend to like things more than we do or say things to make others feel better that it dilutes the value of that feedback. It dilutes the satisfaction we get from giving. This is the opposite.

Having my husband suck a cock is a different act where his pleasure is more mental and emotional than physical but still carries many of the same dynamics. Coaxing him through it, telling him what to try and seeing his rock hard cock tells me how he feels about it.

Just like seeing the anxious and hopeful look on his face when I come home from a date, hoping for a taste of freshly fucked or even cum filled pussy. It is my direction that led him to this experience by opening his mind and breaking down his barriers.

Over time it is my authority that is interwoven into all of these experiences and he has come to recognize the pleasure that comes with that authority in a sort of Pavlovian way.

My husband and I did have one experience with a TS. I would say that it was positive but the individual wasn't a particular good fit with us - nothing to do with gender and there was no friction just not somebody that we had anything in common with outside the immediate sex act.

Personally I approach it on the basis that you want to be careful about your own acceptance level. If you are worrying about whether sucking a cock is gay or not or whether it is more or less gay with a TS your mind may not be open enough yet. You can't control how you will feel and you have to be ready to accept without self recrimination or animosity towards others, whatever it is that you do feel. There is a very high likelihood that the experience won't be what you expect - maybe better, maybe worse, maybe just different but you can't completely rationalize your way through what it would be like to suck a cock. You can't be completely open to the experience if your perspective on it is contingent upon how the act is defined or classified by society.

I think it is also important to understand where your wife is coming from. There is no right answer just an imperative to understand. For some people me pegging my husband or directing him to suck a cock would be an act of humiliation or degradation - I wouldn't do it if I felt that way and he wouldn't accept it if I did either. Some couples are into that too - that is fine but it isn't for us. Women can be just as closed minded as men about anything non-heterosexual.
 
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I am not quite sure how to elaborate. Seeing another person have pleasure is inherently joyful. Pegging my husband or another lover and watching them go from trepidation to acceptance to moaning to hard cock dribbling cum is rewarding. Knowing they would never have gotten to that point without my authority demanding it of them and seeing that direct connection and experiencing their thanks for pushing them gives me a sense of accomplishment. Having them ask me to do it again solidifies their acceptance and desire. I feel as though I have helped teach something joyful.

But the immediate, visceral and undeniable intensity of their pleasure is addictive. So often in relationships we pretend to like things more than we do or say things to make others feel better that it dilutes the value of that feedback. It dilutes the satisfaction we get from giving. This is the opposite.

Having my husband suck a cock is a different act where his pleasure is more mental and emotional than physical but still carries many of the same dynamics. Coaxing him through it, telling him what to try and seeing his rock hard cock tells me how he feels about it.

Just like seeing the anxious and hopeful look on his face when I come home from a date, hoping for a taste of freshly fucked or even cum filled pussy. It is my direction that led him to this experience by opening his mind and breaking down his barriers.

Over time it is my authority that is interwoven into all of these experiences and he has come to recognize the pleasure that comes with that authority in a sort of Pavlovian way.

My husband and I did have one experience with a TS. I would say that it was positive but the individual wasn't a particular good fit with us - nothing to do with gender and there was no friction just not somebody that we had anything in common with outside the immediate sex act.

Personally I approach it on the basis that you want to be careful about your own acceptance level. If you are worrying about whether sucking a cock is gay or not or whether it is more or less gay with a TS your mind may not be open enough yet. You can't control how you will feel and you have to be ready to accept without self recrimination or animosity towards others, whatever it is that you do feel. There is a very high likelihood that the experience won't be what you expect - maybe better, maybe worse, maybe just different but you can't completely rationalize your way through what it would be like to suck a cock. You can't be completely open to the experience if your perspective on it is contingent upon how the act is defined or classified by society.

I think it is also important to understand where your wife is coming from. There is no right answer just an imperative to understand. For some people me pegging my husband or directing him to suck a cock would be an act of humiliation or degradation - I wouldn't do it if I felt that way and he wouldn't accept it if I did either. Some couples are into that too - that is fine but it isn't for us. Women can be just as closed minded as men about anything non-heterosexual.


It's sounds like you are on a completely higher level the detail of your experiences is most welcome thank you.

A lot of this makes sense there is the mental sexual turn on as well as the physical. She is not suggesting these things for degradation purposes I don't think, its just a turn on for her to see me open my mind to new experiences and be vulnerable for her, under her command and influence.

For me I think I'm open minded enough to possibly of sucking a cock if it's attached to an attractive female form but just not a guy. I have nothing against homosexuality I just don't find men attractive in any way shape or form but I can see why women are drawn toward big cocks.


I mean I guess the mental turn on is really apparent in pegging as the woman doesn't receive any physical pleasure from wearing a strapon and fucking a guy but my wife always says hearing me moan gets her so wet. I think if she makes me suck a strapon its just a turn on for her to see that I will do that for her.

Wow your husband really eats others men's loads from your pussy? That's its very hardcore kinky.

Why do you think women enjoy seeing men eat or swallow cum, their own or another's?

Also if we do experiment where is the best place to find a beautiful TS with a large cock?
 
First step, we did it

Well partially thanks to this forum, I had my first strapon experience with my wife.

All I can say is wow, talk about an intense mindfuck, roleswitch and mind blowing orgasm.

When I came and felt my ass contracting around her strapon I thought I was going to pass out with pleasure. Incredible experience....although I think my wife enjoyed it even more than me. She said at the end, now imagine a real one and how much better that would be...

Foreplay was bit strange at first but sure enough she talked me in to sucking her 7 inch cyber skin dildo.
I will admit I now have a new found respect for women as deepthroating is not bloody easy, I couldnt even get close no matter how much my wife tried to shove it down my throat.

Crazy experience, being the submissive for once was a massive turn on and wow, I feel exhausted and used but in a great way

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She said "Doing this doesn't make you gay, it's makes you mine"
That's all the reason you need right there.

I have spent the last 20+ years (thankfully coming to an end) married to a non-adventurous, sexually repressed, inhibited, frigid, woman. I would have given my left nut for her to suggest something your wife has.
I would do it without hesitation. Because she wants me to.
 
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That's all the reason you need right there.

I have spent the last 20+ years (thankfully coming to an end) married to a non-adventurous, sexually repressed, inhibited, frigid, woman. I would have given my left nut for her to suggest something your wife has.
I would do it without hesitation. Because she wants me to.

Sorry to hear that man! But hope things are better now...

You are right I would hate to be in a relationship with a close minded person. Don't get me wrong I love my wife's kinky side, it's just all new to me so I'm bit caught in the headlights haha.

Real thing very different to woman wearing strapon though
 
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