I am not allowed to wear either at home. I wear a tank top and pretty short shorts only. If I wear either I get stripped and spanked. He is free to grab and do whatever whenever he wants. Sometimes he stops me when I am walking and will put his hand on my lower back. When he does that i know to bend over at the waist so he can fuck or finger me. Also must have hair in a ponytail. He likes the look and likes to be able to grab it to pull my hair. Would love to hear if anyone else does similar.