touchmybeard
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How to Get Her to Talk Dirty
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You have to hold back on some of what she likes until she vocalizes. Make it fun, make it a game. She has to ask for it. Ask her, "do you want me to ________________(fill in the blank with a graphic description of something she gets off on)" and make her mirror that back or no cookie. She cannot redpond with "yes" or "please." She has to use complete thoughts, vocalizing what is she wants to do.
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The best thing I've found for convincing a partner to open up verbally in bed is to make it a conversation. Talk to her and she's more likely to talk back. You can prompt her with questions - asking what she likes or where she wants you to touch her. You can make her beg, or plead for her pleasure... whatever works for you. Just lead her into it, and before long she'll relax and start taking the initiative for herself.
LostGirlTink
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Get her to read to you as part of foreplay. I find it awkward to talk dirty but I can read them outloud and afterwards the words seem less taboo and I'm more willing to use them.
There's some girls where it just comes naturally and they start off the dirty talk, but for other shyer girls it's a bit more difficult. If you're wanting dirty talk you have to either start it while you're getting into the groove, or just start doing it during sex.
The first time is always a bit awkward, but if you're both in the same place it becomes fairly natural and you start working it in even more.
I find watching Porn a turn on and a turn off at some times, especially real corny stuff where you can tell they're struggling on what to actually say or remember a line from a script. Make sure it's good stuff (just saying!)
The first time is always a bit awkward, but if you're both in the same place it becomes fairly natural and you start working it in even more.
I find watching Porn a turn on and a turn off at some times, especially real corny stuff where you can tell they're struggling on what to actually say or remember a line from a script. Make sure it's good stuff (just saying!)
