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Old 05-30-2018, 11:37 AM   #1
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Women need to say 'cunt' more when they fuck :-)

As per the title...i love women who talk absolute filth when they fuck...as that way i dont feel too bad when i talk utter filth

I like pussy occasionally but much prefer hard nasty sex talk when in the act. Telling a woman how wet her sexy cunt is..how much of a slut she is as she tells me to ram her cunt and cum all over her

Maybe i am just a dirty bastard lol
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Old 05-30-2018, 12:12 PM   #2
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maybe, after you've been call a "cunt" as a way to put you down the word won't be so sexy. What if I start using asshole while fucking, would that be sexy for you?

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Old 05-30-2018, 12:19 PM   #3
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maybe, after you've been call a "cunt" as a way to put you down the word won't be so sexy. What if I start using asshole while fucking, would that be sexy for you?

Just asking...
It's only words...and i have no prob with a woman calling me an asshole as she fucked me
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Old 05-30-2018, 12:28 PM   #4
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Cunt just doesnít roll of the tongue or feel that sexy. I swear like a sailor when Iím working and itís one word I just canít bring myself to use.
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Old 05-30-2018, 12:40 PM   #5
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Cunt doesn't really roll off the tongue..it is kind of shot out at 50 miles per hour.

Pussy rolls off the tongue...only thing is Pussy doesn't really sound dirty enough to me...although i take some of that back as i once fucked a girl from Leeds and she made pussy sound filth

"oohh thats it loov...fook that fookin pooseh, fook it good...ram that fookin cock of yours reet oop mah fookin wet pooseh you twat" (Americans wont understand a word of that...neither will some brits come to think of it)

She was lovely
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Old 05-30-2018, 07:39 PM   #6
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I consider that word, along with a lot of other women to be degrading, humiliating and disrespectful. During sex I personally do not like to be called or treated like a whore or a piece of trash Etc. I don't know why you men get off on, think it's cute, cool or Macho to degrade us women. Most of us women are not those kind of women in that fantasy world of porn that what the female actress says is scripted by a man. How would you feel if a man spoke to your mother, your daughter or sister like that and treated her as such.
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Old 05-30-2018, 07:54 PM   #7
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Dirty talk is great for setting the mood. Telling a guy to "fuck me like a whore" is just a concise way of saying, "Please skip all that soft, romantic nonsense. Pull my hair, slap my ass, and call me dirty names while you fuck me hard from behind."

My boyfriend loves it when I tell him a slutty story from my past (sometimes true, sometimes made up), while I give him a handjob/blowjob. And I love it when he fantasizes about all the nasty and perverted things he'd like to see me do while he fingers my cunt (that one's for you spunkmeister).

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maybe, after you've been call a "cunt" as a way to put you down the word won't be so sexy.
So should we not use the word "dick" during sex since this word is also used to put people down?

You know why "cunt" can be such a biting insult? Because it is taboo. It is something men aren't supposed to call a woman. So when they do, it can feel like a violation. If you are of the mindset that a man should never say that to woman, it might feel like you are the victim of a hate crime.

But why is out of bounds for a man to call a woman a cunt or a bitch, but acceptable for a woman to call a man a dick or a bastard? I think it is rooted in chivalry. Because women are delicate creatures that can't handle being called mean names. But this chivalrous double standard does us no favors. It sustains the perception that women are weak, while simultaneously making these insults more hurtful than they would be if they weren't forbidden.
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Old 05-30-2018, 08:17 PM   #8
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Everybody's different but personally I hate that word. Like someone said above, it doesn't roll off the tongue. It's also used way too often by women to put other women down. I hear women using it way more than men (I mean out of the bedroom), not that it matters, but I think it just has this nastiness that doesn't appeal to me. And I love dirty talk. I suppose the only analog I can think of is "prick," which is a useful putdown on occasion but not a word I would use for a cock.
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Old 05-30-2018, 08:43 PM   #9
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There are few words I despise and will not use. That's one of them. I do not want to hear it ever and I won't say it. I have issues with Ricky Gervais. Even though I like him, he's very fond of that word. Maybe it has different connotations where he's from but here it is disgusting, IMO.
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Dirty talk is great for setting the mood. Telling a guy to "fuck me like a whore" is just a concise way of saying, "Please skip all that soft, romantic nonsense. Pull my hair, slap my ass, and call me dirty names while you fuck me hard from behind."

My boyfriend loves it when I tell him a slutty story from my past (sometimes true, sometimes made up), while I give him a handjob/blowjob. And I love it when he fantasizes about all the nasty and perverted things he'd like to see me do while he fingers my cunt (that one's for you spunkmeister).



So should we not use the word "dick" during sex since this word is also used to put people down?

You know why "cunt" can be such a biting insult? Because it is taboo. It is something men aren't supposed to call a woman. So when they do, it can feel like a violation. If you are of the mindset that a man should never say that to woman, it might feel like you are the victim of a hate crime.

But why is out of bounds for a man to call a woman a cunt or a bitch, but acceptable for a woman to call a man a dick or a bastard? I think it is rooted in chivalry. Because women are delicate creatures that can't handle being called mean names. But this chivalrous double standard does us no favors. It sustains the perception that women are weak, while simultaneously making these insults more hurtful than they would be if they weren't forbidden.
I try not to call anyone names. I will call someone out on their poor behavior but I will try to address what it was that they did and not call them names. My ex used to call me "fuck face". I don't mind either word but put them together and them's fightin' words. Especially when they come from a man who hates sex like he does.
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Old 05-30-2018, 09:10 PM   #11
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Please note that the suggestion is that woman use "cunt" not the man. KnottyNymphette loves it, while VampirTARA hates it. What it is all about is communication first and foremost with your partner. If it works for both of you then great. If the word is loaded with negatives for then don't. I think spunkmeister's point is that using the word is effective, and women should consider it as a potent spice they should feel free to use.

I used it last night during phone sex as an escalation from pussy, and it worked nicely (of course the lady in question is beyond white hot).
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Old 05-30-2018, 10:16 PM   #12
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So should we not use the word "dick" during sex since this word is also used to put people down?

You know why "cunt" can be such a biting insult? Because it is taboo. It is something men aren't supposed to call a woman. So when they do, it can feel like a violation. If you are of the mindset that a man should never say that to woman, it might feel like you are the victim of a hate crime.

But why is out of bounds for a man to call a woman a cunt or a bitch, but acceptable for a woman to call a man a dick or a bastard? I think it is rooted in chivalry. Because women are delicate creatures that can't handle being called mean names. But this chivalrous double standard does us no favors. It sustains the perception that women are weak, while simultaneously making these insults more hurtful than they would be if they weren't forbidden.

I get it...words hurt because of how they're used, by a man or a woman. Nobody likes it and nobody should be that spiteful. If you can find a girl that likes being called a cunt, power to you both. For me...it's not a fetish. Apparently, I'm in the wrong thread.
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Old 05-30-2018, 10:35 PM   #13
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maybe, after you've been call a "cunt" as a way to put you down the word won't be so sexy. What if I start using asshole while fucking, would that be sexy for you?

Just asking...
Actually yes. I was calling myself that last night. It was on the phone and both of us like it really dirty.

I actually won't call a woman a cunt for the reason you mention, but I will use it instead of pussy when things get intense.
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Old 05-31-2018, 01:35 AM   #14
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Using words with negative cultural connotations in a positive way can be fun and empowering (e.g., queer, slut). Clearly words can be negative triggers for folks and one needs to be mindful of that.
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I consider that word, along with a lot of other women to be degrading, humiliating and disrespectful. During sex I personally do not like to be called or treated like a whore or a piece of trash Etc. I don't know why you men get off on, think it's cute, cool or Macho to degrade us women. Most of us women are not those kind of women in that fantasy world of porn that what the female actress says is scripted by a man. How would you feel if a man spoke to your mother, your daughter or sister like that and treated her as such.
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Old 05-31-2018, 08:11 AM   #16
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Obviously everyoneís different but I wouldnít mind in the scenario described. The OP isnít calling the lady a cunt heís just using it as a replacement for pussy which is a VERY American term IMO. There are big cultural differences between language in the UK and US and although itís still a strong word in the UK itís maybe not so offensive as in the US. ( now the word ď pantiesĒ I have issues with.... makes me absolutely cringe) Presumably if youíve got as far as having sex with someone they would know your likes and dislikes and would avoid as necessary. Context is also important so a word word used like slut by your partner in the throws of sex is different from someone calling you that in the street obviously.
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Old 05-31-2018, 09:06 AM   #17
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I use 'cunt' for my cunt as much or more than I use 'pussy'. And being called 'cunt' during sexual activity is a huge turn on for me. It took hubby a long time to be comfortable with it, though. And it has nearly left his vocabulary since I've been pregnant. But, I'm hoping that's not permanent.


I have been called a cunt in other contexts, by men and women both, and I didn't like it because of whatever negative shit was going down. But it's not more reductive to me than 'bitch' is. I don't want to be called either in a negative way, but it's the hurtful, negative intent of the person using the words, not the words themselves, that is the bad part.
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I thought it might be worth adding that the connotations are different in America and Europe. I'm American, but I looked into this a few years ago after noticing this difference in my European friends.

So now, of course, I check Wikipedia for "cunt", where they had an interesting comparison between two dictionaries: 'Reflecting different national usages, cunt is described as "an unpleasant or stupid person" in the Compact Oxford English Dictionary, whereas Merriam-Webster states that it is a "usually disparaging and obscene" term for a woman or an "offensive way to refer to a woman" in the United States.'

The only American woman I've ever known who used it readily was a middle ages scholar who talked a lot about how the term was used in the Canterbury Tales (also mentioned in Wikipedia entry). Of course, she knew the meaning of words changed over time, but enjoyed the interesting turns of meaning the word has taken.
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As a woman, I donít find ďcuntĒ degrading at all. Itís actually one of my favourite curse words.

If a lover chose to call me a cunt while we were fucking, if it suited the mood then I would love to hear it roll awkwardly off his tongue.

(Edited to add... Iím not American, so perhaps this is partly why I donít find it offensive.)
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As a woman, I donít find ďcuntĒ degrading at all. Itís actually one of my favourite curse words.

If a lover chooses to call me a cunt while we are fucking, if it suits the mood then I would love to hear it roll awkwardly off his tongue.

(Edited to add... Iím not American, so perhaps this is partly why I donít find it offensive.)
I'm American, but as indicated above, I don't have a problem with 'cunt' in general. But I think there may be a generational issue at work. In high school and college, my friends and I used it fairly often. My cousin and her friends, who will be starting college in the fall, use it all the time with each other. Hell, I've heard them refer to guys as 'cunts', which fits with the British usage, but they are all Americans.
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I prefer Pussy and cock over Cunt and dick. A cunt is a woman who I despise. If a woman says "fuck my pussy with your hard cock" I'm good with that.
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Timing is everything.

I quite like the word, in the right moments. It is vulgar, and it has a wonderfully sharp, biting sound. Hearing or saying it can be a sudden rush that takes you somewhere else entirely.

People who throw it around casually to sound nasty and extreme are just tedious and dull.
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Thereís a great British comedian ( IMO) called Micky Flanagan who has a routine about the word cunt which explains how itís used quite casually in the UK. It definitely is not a term of abuse directed only at women.
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There are few words I despise and will not use. That's one of them. I do not want to hear it ever and I won't say it.
What word or words do you prefer when you're having sex? How about when, in an informal but non-sexual context (like when you're talking to a girlfriend), you're referring to your vulva?

It seems that the word "pussy" has gotten a new context in view of what the President said that likes to do with them. For some people, it has made the word more out in the open and therefore more acceptable, but for others it seems to be more derogatory than it was before.
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Can I just make something clear. Am not talking about calling the woman a cunt..am talking about her using it to refer to her genital area. Worst one I had was a woman asked me to lick her 'tender wetness' ..no shit that's the truth...I spent five minutes trying not to crease!
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