Karhukissa
Really Experienced
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- Sep 4, 2015
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Our relationship is a bit different. It is a long-distance relationship since 3 months, after a friendship of over two decades turned into a romantic relationship. Kissa lives in the US, while I (Karhu) live in Europe. When we started to talk about sex, we concluded that any sex at all would be a great improvement. I have been single for some years, and she is (soon was) in a loveless marriage with no sex at all for over seven years. Anyway, we agreed that neither of us like anal, but that both love oral. Then she confided that she have had bondage/submissive fantasies since she was 15 (we are both 50 now). She had never felt enough trust in any of the men she has been with to actually try it, while I had mostly vanilla sex with my now ex (if we had any at all - vanilla, fat-free sex way too seldom...).
After a couple of weeks came the night when we went naked on FaceTime and "made love" to each other, she with the assistance of a newly purchased clit vibrator. I guess it is hardly vanilla sex to watch each other masturbate. Then it escalated. Kissa bought a couple more vibrators and some bondage restraints. I visited her for a few days, and we had pretty amazing sex from the get go, including bondage. I discovered her G spot in no time, something no one (including herself) hadn't before, with predictable and enjoyable results. Our first night, she came more times than in the previous ten years. We had the best sex of our lives, and that was just vanilla with some topping, whipped cream (literally) and extra wafers.
After returning home, we wanted to simulate the sensations. She bought a Vibease remote-controlled vibrator, and I a pack of Miss Softie "funbags" (think inexpensive, single-use Fleshlight). She also ordered more restraints, and nipple + clit clamps, while I made a hogtie accessory and a couple of spreader bars. Our next time together will be interesting...
Still, I don't think we'll venture all that far into kinkyland, and that we will find our comfort level soon, but we have surprised each other (and ourselves). Neither of us expected this, and now we have online sex almost every night, we sext each other almost every day, and we've written several erotic short stories, some of which we hope to share here.
After a couple of weeks came the night when we went naked on FaceTime and "made love" to each other, she with the assistance of a newly purchased clit vibrator. I guess it is hardly vanilla sex to watch each other masturbate. Then it escalated. Kissa bought a couple more vibrators and some bondage restraints. I visited her for a few days, and we had pretty amazing sex from the get go, including bondage. I discovered her G spot in no time, something no one (including herself) hadn't before, with predictable and enjoyable results. Our first night, she came more times than in the previous ten years. We had the best sex of our lives, and that was just vanilla with some topping, whipped cream (literally) and extra wafers.
After returning home, we wanted to simulate the sensations. She bought a Vibease remote-controlled vibrator, and I a pack of Miss Softie "funbags" (think inexpensive, single-use Fleshlight). She also ordered more restraints, and nipple + clit clamps, while I made a hogtie accessory and a couple of spreader bars. Our next time together will be interesting...
Still, I don't think we'll venture all that far into kinkyland, and that we will find our comfort level soon, but we have surprised each other (and ourselves). Neither of us expected this, and now we have online sex almost every night, we sext each other almost every day, and we've written several erotic short stories, some of which we hope to share here.