PS_Alexandria
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- Jan 25, 2015
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I sometimes feel like being a woman who writes erotica and romance is a vulnerable position to be in, especially because I write a lot of dubcon scenarios. Effectively, I am putting my fantasies of control out there for everyone to see. I worry that people won't be accepting, in two different ways:
1. If something bad happens to me, I worry that people will say something like "She wrote a force fantasy, of course she wanted to be assaulted/abused"
2. I worry that people won't take me seriously. I'll be viewed as a writer of "silly love stories" at best, and a "rape apologist" at worst.
Do any other women who write erotica and erotic romance have these fears? If so, how do you deal with them?
1. If something bad happens to me, I worry that people will say something like "She wrote a force fantasy, of course she wanted to be assaulted/abused"
2. I worry that people won't take me seriously. I'll be viewed as a writer of "silly love stories" at best, and a "rape apologist" at worst.
Do any other women who write erotica and erotic romance have these fears? If so, how do you deal with them?