I like the first scenario. None of the men in our neighbourhood my sexy hotwife would give the time of day to. So I'm sure she'd more than welcome a handsome, charming man into the area. A house warming party would definitely be in order. And I would make sure my wife and I were the last guests. Of course the sexual attraction between him and wife is there. He pours on the charm. Soon enough he's taking my wife up to his bedroom where he fucks her!