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Angedesoleil
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Yeahhhh. I just saw the deletion. ? Honey? It was a good share not a bad share....
Hugs.
Hugs.
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If crying means giving up to you then I can understand why you do not wish too. If all else fails distraction can help. I have been doing house chores to keep distracted.
Crying isn’t giving up for me it’s a release of all the bubbling emotions, like depressurising. It then allows me to think more clearly.
Big hugs sent
Yeah... distraction is good. I've been cooking and mopping. Both useful.
You both can come clean my place, organize my office, get my emails up to date, and make dinner if you really need distractions!
I like rules. I like boundaries, knowing what is acceptable or not acceptable. I feel safer knowing things.
I like honesty. Don't tell me one thing and then do another. My trust quickly becomes doubtful of you, and it hurts to be lied to - I won't forget because I can't.
I don't think I'm much different than anyone else in that respect.
(This came out of conversation with friends, and I thought I would share)
Blurts are good.
Hugs are good too...
I dunno if you are a hugger but I am.
As far as rules and boundaries:
It holds true for me. Though I also tend to push on occasion to be sure he'll push back.
As far as "never forget"
This does not hold true for me. I have the opposite problem. Oh have a hard time getting mad and expressing mad. I have a hard time believing I have a genuine cause to be mad. I tend to blame me. Then I gave a hard time holding on to the useful righteous anger. I am too forgiving. It can be a problem because in an effort to give people the benefit of the doubt I tend to repetitively set myself up for disappointment.
( this makes current issue so ironic. I'm actually trying to learn to be reasonably NO about something and because no one knows that issue of mine they are saying nahhhhhhg just a person moment nahhhhhh you're being too hard... :/ the people who know me ate saying omg seriously you finally understand get mad so now just ... walk.....away.... it is ok to walk .... away....)