Stella_Omega
No Gentleman
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Well, at least for this discussion in this thread. But the dom/sub default is mighty pervasive in the main BDSM communities... Which is where I came inIs that any better? Would it be enough for someone not knowing anything about the dynamics to at least be a starting point for more "appropriate" terminology that would be more widely accepted within the community at least for use in discussion?
But yeah, if I may, I'd like to copy-paste your lines there for the next time this question comes up. Much easier all around!
Top/bottom - What you do in action; Top acts upon, bottom is acted upon.
Dom/sub - Who you are by nature; Dominance seeks control, submission seeks surrender.