bi handjob buddies

never done that, but I'd love to sometime

lunchh hour

I met up with a guy once during his lunch hour. We got together in his office, door closed, with the other staff ten yards away. We spilled cum on his glass covered desk. He had a nice, thick cock and the most casual way of taking my dick in his hands, as if it were the same as shaking hands. Very hot.

I've never done it...i'm conflicted as well...never had any sexual contact with another male, though i've seen another male's penis in person but both our wives were present. the wife and i have pillow talks about sharing another male but i don't know if that's just pillow talk or if i can go through with it. i don't know if i should do it without the wife present or with her there. and i don't know who i could trust to do it with...friend or stranger who i may never see again. because of my career choice and where i'm currently located...i don't know anyone here that would or could do it with...would it be rude if i ask someone to jerk off via webcam but ask no names or show face? lol....guess what i need is someone to break the ice or make the move per say...LOL...sigh...arite...guess i'm gonna go rub one out...lol

consistent

Do what you are comfortable with and what is consistent with your priorities and values. Of course, sometimes a new experience can be scary, or put another way, exciting... It sounds like your wife is turned on by the fantasy, at least, of you pleasuring another man. You are very fortunate. As for where to find a guy, there are all kinds of personals online. You can take your time corresponding, meet without any pressure or intention of playing, and see if things are comfortable enough for you to proceed.

huge

What a battering ram you have, Luvemboth. Would love to get my fist around that.

Mmmmm

at least you're up in the cities where there are more guys to pick from. i'm in a small town and can't find a jack buddy

come

Must be tough in a small town. I wonder if there is a Craigslist or similar sort of thing in your area, taking in small towns and maybe a nearby city. Of course, there are only about a thousand guys here who would be willing to swap pics and fantasies via pm.

homunculus said:

What a battering ram you have, Luvemboth. Would love to get my fist around that.

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me too, looks the same shape as my mouth!

Anyone in SE Wisconsin/Northern Illinois?

exciting

Since I only do it myself, would be nice to find a friend who would do it also...chat friend would be nice about now!

Someday, might get the courage up. I think I would like to start anonymous like a glory hole or something like it.

iluvsex2 said:

I've never done it...i'm conflicted as well...never had any sexual contact with another male, though i've seen another male's penis in person but both our wives were present. the wife and i have pillow talks about sharing another male but i don't know if that's just pillow talk or if i can go through with it. i don't know if i should do it without the wife present or with her there. and i don't know who i could trust to do it with...friend or stranger who i may never see again. because of my career choice and where i'm currently located...i don't know anyone here that would or could do it with...would it be rude if i ask someone to jerk off via webcam but ask no names or show face? lol....guess what i need is someone to break the ice or make the move per say...LOL...sigh...arite...guess i'm gonna go rub one out...lol

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I'm in my late 50's and discovered the fun of sucking cock after my first divorce nearly 30 years ago and have learned much regarding women and their enjoyment of male/male contact.
First and most importantly, don't do anything behind your wife's back. Involve her in every aspect of what you do whether it just thinking about it or actually looking for someone. With that said, my first question is what was the situation when you saw the other guys penis and both your wives were there? What was their reaction? Was everyone naked, just the other guy, both of you men? Do you ever watch adult movies where there is male-male action? If so how does your wife react to it...does she enjoy watching it? If not suggest that you get some to see what it is like ahd pay attention to her reactions to the movies. If you and your wife have "pillow talk" regarding the subject she must enjoy the thought of seeing you with another man so don't hesitate to let her know that you would like to actually try it, with her watching.

Jerking off via webcam is a great way to get started just be sure that your wife is present...I sure she would enjoy what she sees. As for finding someone there are plenty of web sites just for that purpose. Finding a single guy will be easy for there are plenty of us horny bastards out here. If you're nervous about things for starters you could meet and simply jerk yourselves off and not each other. How fast you progress is up to you and your wife. My prefernce would be meeting another couple and only the men have contact. The ladies will enjoy this and it will gie them a chance to decide if they like the situation and if the would want to get involved, be it with jus tthe men or with each other. Just don't rush the ladies.

You've already taken the first by fantasizing about it with your wife. It sounds as though she'll be very receptive to the idea of it actually taking place.

I began doing this after my first divorce and continued to do so into my late 40's when I met my second wife. She is very sexually openminded and upon first meeting she revealed that she enjoyed porn and liked seeing two men together as well as being with another woman. And the rest is history, as they say. Contact me if you have any questions.

fortunate

You are fortunate indeed to have such an open-minded and adventurous wife. Most of us don't-- our spouses would be horrified to hear such fantasies or goings-on and would come to some pretty difficult conclusions. I wouldn't rush to divulge certain ideas. Your idea of using porn as a way to get discussion going, though, seems a good one.

Mine could use a good strokin

Let me share my experience that I had a couple of weeks ago. I met up with an old friend, who I had once had a threesome with he and his wife last summer. After a baseball game on TV, and after his wife had went to bed upstairs, he turned on some porn. He asked me if I wanted to play around. In our threesome, we had stroked each other per his wife's wishes and we both expressed the need for more via yahoo messenger over time in conversations.

I told him that I would love to and took off my clothes as fast as he had his off. We sat next to each other on their leather sofa next to each other and slowly stroked our cocks separately as we watched some soft porn on his flat panel tv. After a while, I know I was watching him stroke his cock more than the screen and I am certain it was just as much the other way around. S reached over, moved my hand out of the way and began stroking my cock for me causing me to moan. I in-turn did the same to his cock as well as
put my head near his and asked him to make out with me. He pulled me close with his other arm and stuck his tongue in my mouth, pulling me closer as he then ground his body and hard cock against my similarly hard cock and body. We continued to dry hum each other until he reached down stroked his cock and came on my chest and neck.

I came a few minutes afterwards when he licked his cum off of my chest and neck while stroking my cock. I thoroughly enjoyed this first-time experience and had a follow-up visit in their shower a few days later while his wife watched.

I am in inland empire, and am 54 yrs old, bisexual, and I love to suck cock, and am up for anything you are. I can travel to get to your area. Do you have any friends that like to be sucked. pls give me a chance to show you my skillsm

I love long stroking sessions with another guy while watching porn. You never know where that will lead.

seveninch said:

I love long stroking sessions with another guy while watching porn. You never know where that will lead.

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Now that is hot. One o fmy favorite activities too.

seveninch said:

I love long stroking sessions with another guy while watching porn. You never know where that will lead.

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Now that is hot. One of my favorite activities too.

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I love it when the wife watches!

HornyBlkGuy said:

Let me share my experience that I had a couple of weeks ago. I met up with an old friend, who I had once had a threesome with he and his wife last summer. After a baseball game on TV, and after his wife had went to bed upstairs, he turned on some porn. He asked me if I wanted to play around. In our threesome, we had stroked each other per his wife's wishes and we both expressed the need for more via yahoo messenger over time in conversations.

I told him that I would love to and took off my clothes as fast as he had his off. We sat next to each other on their leather sofa next to each other and slowly stroked our cocks separately as we watched some soft porn on his flat panel tv. After a while, I know I was watching him stroke his cock more than the screen and I am certain it was just as much the other way around. S reached over, moved my hand out of the way and began stroking my cock for me causing me to moan. I in-turn did the same to his cock as well as
put my head near his and asked him to make out with me. He pulled me close with his other arm and stuck his tongue in my mouth, pulling me closer as he then ground his body and hard cock against my similarly hard cock and body. We continued to dry hum each other until he reached down stroked his cock and came on my chest and neck.

I came a few minutes afterwards when he licked his cum off of my chest and neck while stroking my cock. I thoroughly enjoyed this first-time experience and had a follow-up visit in their shower a few days later while his wife watched.

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Do tell.

Yes, please tell!!!!

homunculus said:

So, if this many lit voyeurs have masturbated with another man in the past, why not do so now? I once put out an ad in a local site for sexual tutor, male, and got many responses, but none of my correspondents actually did anything. I mean, what is it about the idea of masturbating to hetero porn with another man, or making him come? Maybe, as life goes by, we just want confirmation from our male peers that it is ok to jerk off and come to whatever gets us off.

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I'm your huckleberry.