Hey all trying a new post. I was talking with some friends and was wondering if others kind of think this way also. Everyone had their fantasies and sometimes maybe our fantasies overtake our mind leaving that basic one on one traditional sex with our partner has become boring leaving us with a bad sex life. Basically I think I have become more into fantasies and taboo that if I have sex with a guy that doesn't really know my wants and likes, that I find it more boring. Anyone know what I'm getting at? Have you become more into your fantasies that sex with your spouse/partner just doesn't do it for you. You could have all the sex in the world at home but you just don't want to?