So, my partner and I interchange Dom/Sub roles, but the majority of the time I'm the Domme. I've always leaned more towards Sensual Domme, but he "really" gets off on humiliation and being degraded. I've refrained from a verbal onslaught partly because I'm worried he might not actually like it once I get going, and partly because I worry that once I finally allow myself to say the kind of things be wants to hear that I won't want to go back to being affectionate in my control over him.
The reason for my post is to ask for feedback on what you've used in the past. What works well? What pushed the limits too far?
I want to make him feel like a cheap whore and let him know that he's mine to do with as I please, but in the same breath I want him to remember after our fun is over that I love him and have the utmost respect for him.
Thanks in advance for your responses
*edited to add what we've agreed is off limits:
-excessive pain (welts, blood)
-bodily waste
-discussion about other lovers
Aside from that he's pretty open to whatever my depraved mind can think up.
The reason for my post is to ask for feedback on what you've used in the past. What works well? What pushed the limits too far?
I want to make him feel like a cheap whore and let him know that he's mine to do with as I please, but in the same breath I want him to remember after our fun is over that I love him and have the utmost respect for him.
Thanks in advance for your responses
*edited to add what we've agreed is off limits:
-excessive pain (welts, blood)
-bodily waste
-discussion about other lovers
Aside from that he's pretty open to whatever my depraved mind can think up.
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