Strap-on experiences

FallenAngel3 said:

Yes, she did write that, along with the Sleeping Beauty series which I recommend highly.

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Okie Porn Lover said:

Heres a few

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FurryFury said:

For some women, I would think they might. *shrugs* I don't know. I tend to think if a woman could nearly come from just thinking about fucking a guy's ass then she would be a good candidate. I don't know how many women on average could or would get off on this. Perhaps I poll thread should be started?

For myself, I do this to bring him pleasure. If he is thinking, "I want her to come when she does it or it's not good enough for me or exciting enough for me," and I can't come from that, as much as I'd like to but will keep trying anyway, it's going to get frustrating as hell and feel futile to me.

If on the other hand he can say he really enjoys the anal pleasure and I don't have to come from strap on fucking him, I can really enjoy that, you see what I mean?

Fury

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eroticspank said:

I see what you mean and I think I understand what both of you are saying.

First let me say that my virginity was taken by a Domme who could regularly cum from fucking a man with a strapon and I just thought that that was the case for most women. I was wrong.

Second, I was first introduced to the idea with a girlfriend who REALLY got turned on by my ass. She loved to touch it, play with it, and eventually she would have me lay on the bed face down and she would rub herself off/hump me to bring herself to orgasm. I loved it and it was a great appetizer to our lovemaking! Again in this case it was about her interests and pleasure.

So now in my present situation if I am with a new partner I will not mention to her that I "have to have her orgasm while fucking me" . That would put too much pressure on her. But I would ask a the proper time, if she enjoyed or has she ever used a strapon on a man. If the answer is "Yes" then my question would be if she has cum while doing it? If not then would you like to try? etc

Finally I would say that is so nice that you are doing it for him! You are helping him realize a fantasy!!

But can I ask you to think a bit more selfishly and maybe ask yourself what YOU like about it? What turns you on that he does while you are doing it? What he says how he moves? What would make it your fantasy?


In my case I want my partner to enjoy it just as much as I do and as she gets into it more so do I! I want her to be an eager participant not a bystander for lack of a better term.

It is a major turn on to know that she is really enjoying herself perhaps even losing control and completely forgeting about me and just trying to get herself off!! It is a power thing !! And she has the power for a change!

A role reversal, like when a man is inside a woman making love to her....when things get really hot he has to hold himself back not to cum too soon but sometimes my girlfriend liked when that happened and wanted me to lose control and just fuck her furiously....sometimes I would cum without her but most of the time she was so turned on by my loss of control she would cum with me!!

Bottom line: Yes I agree you should not pressure your partner in cuming from using a strapon or even cuming while being strapon fucked. I think there is a way to express your interests without putting pressure on your partner.

And yes I do understand how HOT it is to have a woman cum while strapon fucking you too!

I hope this helps

ES

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PredatorSmile said:

I prefer by far the first Bend Over Boyfriend video. The lovemaking ( strap on included) was between loving couples and it was fun and romantic to watch. All that other " I'm the bitch who's gonna fuck your ass with a strap on" stuff is cheap and kinda silly, if you ask me.

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gingermango said:

Well, as they say, different strokes for different folks. I've had it both ways and both ways can be incredibly hot and emotionally fulfilling, depending on the participant's kinks and emotional connections (if any).

So whatever works is kind of our motto in all sexual play.

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PredatorSmile said:

You know, there's something I don't like about strap on videos. A lot of the women using dildos on the men in these vids are cursing at them and
treating them like slaves. I dont like that. I hate watching doms denigrating the opposite sex, I don't like seeing that, it reminds of my boyfriend's former porn hero, anal-obsessed Max Hardcore. Now there's a sadistic misogynist if there ever was one. I don't need to watch Maxine Hardcore with some guys, lol. I prefer by far the first Bend Over Boyfriend video. The lovemaking ( strap on included) was between loving couples and it was fun and romantic to watch. All that other " I'm the bitch who's gonna fuck your ass with a strap on" stuff is cheap and
kinda silly, if you ask me.

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Triggerfoot said:

Yeah, to each their own. We like strapon sex just because it's fun and feels great. If you wade through this thread though a lot of people are into the domination/degradation/humiliation/forced fem end of strapon play though. Putting on a dress on me and having my wife yell "take it all you worthless bitch" doesn't do it for us but if it works for you....yahoo.

Now if I can just figure out haw to get a good pix of me on top and her sucking my cock as I hold her head up......

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PredatorSmile said:

You know, there's something I don't like about strap on videos. A lot of the women using dildos on the men in these vids are cursing at them and
treating them like slaves. I dont like that. I hate watching doms denigrating the opposite sex, I don't like seeing that, it reminds of my boyfriend's former porn hero, anal-obsessed Max Hardcore. Now there's a sadistic misogynist if there ever was one. I don't need to watch Maxine Hardcore with some guys, lol. I prefer by far the first Bend Over Boyfriend video. The lovemaking ( strap on included) was between loving couples and it was fun and romantic to watch. All that other " I'm the bitch who's gonna fuck your ass with a strap on" stuff is cheap and
kinda silly, if you ask me.

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Triggerfoot said:

In addition to guys thinking that strapon sex makes then 'gay', I think the domination/degradation/humiliation/forced fem end of strapon play scares em off. Just another problem for all you gals trying to fuck your guy.....

Tha "Babes Ballin Boys" DVD don't get into the domination/degradation/humiliation/forced fem end of strapon play and might be a good choice for introducing your man to the fun of getting fucked.

Just say the DVD was sent to the wrong address and you opened it anyway....so you might as well watch it with a bottle of wine...

Game Link has em all....

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PredatorSmile said:

Well, sounds like you and your wife are having fun. It makes me envious right now, lol. My guy is pissed at me for defending him from a psycho bitch at a club last week. Apparently, I shouldn't have done that, according to him and every man i know. well, sorry for being protective of someone I love !!!!!!!!! How is he punishing me ? We haven't had sex in almost a
week. It's killing me !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Triggerfoot said:

Yeah, to each their own. We like strapon sex just because it's fun and feels great. If you wade through this thread though a lot of people are into the domination/degradation/humiliation/forced fem end of strapon play though. Putting on a dress on me and having my wife yell "take it all you worthless bitch" doesn't do it for us but if it works for you....yahoo.

Now if I can just figure out haw to get a good pix of me on top and her sucking my cock as I hold her head up......

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iboomker said:

I would also agree with this. I don't want someone beating the shit out of my balls and fucking my ass till I bleed. I want more playfull stimulation. here is another post that i posted in another thread on this topic


Back in college i was lucky enough to be in a coed dorm. I had a couple friends with extras. On of my friends was alot more experience than me. I was in the anal phase of college. I wanted to fuck very girl that i was with in the ass. Back to this gal. One drunking night she started to give me a blow job. The blow job lead to her licking my ass and stroking my cock. I was in heaven. I never knew anything could feel so good. At the time I didn't realize that she was fucking me with her tongue. She tole me to get in the 69 position with me on top but she didn't want me to lick her pussy. She contuned to suck my dick. Man was she good at that. Then she slowly slid her finger into my ass. I was so into the blowjob that i didn't realize that she had stuck her finger into my ass. She must have reached my prostate. I just felt some pressure on my inside. At the time i didn't realize that she was finger fucking my prostate. I never felt the finger slip in i just felt the pressure on my prostate. Later I had a different girl that was into this and she told me what she was going to do before she did it. I wasn't sure but when she did it i realized that is what the other girl did to me. The original girl graduated and that was the last time i was with her. I never had a girl fuck me with a strapon but had some toys used. This will be for a later story

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PredatorSmile said:

Well, you certainly have some interesting adventures. My life is kinda mild
right now. Anal stimulation can feel good when done right. I was an anal virgin until I met my guy. Oh, I'd done stuff with both women and men, but never THAT. I LONG for the day when he will let me play with HIS.

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iboomker said:

I guess the ottem line of this Fantasy if the prostate pleasure. This seems to be a hard topic to bring up. It's a battle. Don't want to be too extreme, and i assume it's not easy for a lady to jump into it in the fear for scaring off the guy. I guess this is why we have drunkin night to have a reason to cross the line and take the next step.


So Here is another story that I'll share. Once again it's not a strapon story but......

Back in college I had a year long one night stand. She was great. Just the type of girl i like. She was about 5'6 and weight about 115 with small 32b breast. I love itty bitty titties. That's another story. I remeber the first time we crossed te line. It was a light night of bar hopping. We ended up comig back to my house. We ripped each others clothes off. Quickly im going down on her while she placed on leg on the bed and the other on the floor. She massaging my head as i lick and suck her. She cums very easy via oral. She ends up falling on to the bed and I follow. She rolls on top of me and kisses me deep while she starts stroking my cock. She flips aroud ad starts sucking my cock Making it really wet. When ever she gave me a blow job she would make it very wet were her saliva would run down to my balls and in to my crack. As her saliva was running down my balls she started to stroke my cock with on hand and massaging my balls with er other hand while she looked up and watched my reasction It felt great. She then got a couple pillow and told me to roll over on top of the pillow. i had no clue what she was doing and was to horny to ask. Once i position y self she crawled under me and started to suck my dick again. She took both hands and grabbed my ass and pushed me into her mouth. While she is doing this she is spreading my ass cheeks in and out while slowly inching her hands closer to my asshole. Once bother of her hand start to touch sheused her a finger to tickle my asshole.. I was on fire. I must have spit into her hand because out if no where she slammed a finger in to my ass. It sent shocks thru out my body.she let her finger stay inside my asshole and flicked it back and forth while pushing my ass with her other hand to start fucking her mouth. She kept pushing deeper in to my ass. Then she slowly started to stoky my asshole. I was panting and started to take deeper stroke so that her finger would go deep inside me. Once my asshole loosed up I could't feel her fnger anymore except when she hit my prostate. She must have known because she with drawn her fiinger from my ass and used two and slowly entered my ass. i wanted it badly. She was a lot slow with two fingers but made it all the may in. she stopped sucking me and slide down some and flip on to her knees. She started to suck on my balls and spit on my asshole while she stroked my ass. She started to stroke my cock while she fingered me . I wanted more and told her so.. She said she doesn't want to hurt me. I told her to fucking do it use three finger. She pulled her hand out and the next thing i feel is my ass being filled. It was and explosing. It was tight but she was able to go as deep as she could. She sarted to fuck my ass wih her three finger. Each instroke she was rubbing my prostate. It didn't take long for to me to cum.

enjoy,

Aim - boomker
Yahoo- iboomker

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gingermango said:

The Sleeping Beauty series was introduced to me about 13 years ago by a girlfriend - she was the first truly sexually-dominant woman I'd ever met. We would read parts together and see what turned each other on. The single scene that stands out in my mind even today was one where a male charcter (Trystan maybe?) is forced to endure an exceedingly humiliating time (hours or perhaps days) tied to the lap of an anatomically correct statue - the statue's huge stone cock is lubed with oil and Trystan is forced down upon it. Then Trystan's head is pulled backwards submissively and a giant dildo of some sort is placed in the upraised hand of the statue and thus down Trystan's throat at the same time. Hot hot hot!

Not "strap-on" play per se, but still very erotic.

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Filling_KK said:

I posted this in another Lit. forum, but thought I might post it here. I know it's a bit off topic, but maybe someone hear has tried somthing similar. Thanks!!!!!!



strap-on that a guy can wear.......another way of DP'ing her??????

My wife loves anal sex, especially when she is on her back and I am pushing her legs back into her chest, it gives her explosive orgasms. We've tried doing a DP a few times, usually with me in her ass and a toy in her pussy, but it always seems just a bit awkward. Ineede some way to attach another "cock"to me so I can be in both at the same time.

I know some have expiremented with the feeldoe for DP, but it just isn't that comfotable for me and it would really work better if I could get the second "cock" above me. This would allow me to be in her ass with the toy in her pussy when she is in her favorite position. So I'm thinking a strap-on might be just the ticket.

Has anyone ever tried this? Are there any strap-on's designed to be worn by the man? I'm thinking no, other than extenders and those that are used as a substiture for the penis when there are erectile difficulties. I figure someone out there has to have tried something similar to this, any advice? Is there a good strap-on that might work for this purpose?

Any thoughts/advice/recommendations on this would be most appreciated!!

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