Upstate NY Sub seeking FLR

Attractive, tall, average build, SWM in mid-30's looking for a dominant female (between ages 26-46) within an hour's drive (reasonable distance which cld include parts of MA, CT, PA, & VT). I don't mind traveling or commuting. I would, ideally, like to slowly build a strong, long term relationship, but you cant always get what ya' want as the song goes. Not looking for a Pro Domme, more like an aspiring lifestyle Domme or a "vanilla" woman who's just curious and wants to expand her horizons. For the most part, I know what I want (but i'd consider myself inexperienced), therefore experience on her part might not be all that necessary. Just desire. I know, shot in the dark. Only serious inquires need apply (via PM). Thanks