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SassySheDevil

SassySheDevil

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When I started this thread, it was in the personals. I was just looking for new people to chat with. The messages got so overwhelming that I couldn't keep up. I have since shut off my PMs and tried to take this thread into the direction of just people that like chatting in the rooms. It is easier to keep up with when everyone likes talking out in the open, and it tends to be more like the conversation I was seeking and not "cyber" type conversation that often is why many like to PM.

I am not looking for cyber, exchanging pics etc. I just like to talk. Again. My PMs are off and if you'd like to talk with those here in the thread, please feel free to jump in and talk with us. :)
 
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Yep, there are still some of us around :) Don't tend to do unsolicited PM's though, but I always answer any I get, if you ever feel inclined. Otherwise, good luck with your search!

SV :rose:
 
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StrangeView said:
Yep, there are still some of us around :) Don't tend to do unsolicited PM's though, but I always answer any I get, if you ever feel inclined. Otherwise, good lick with your search!

SV :rose:
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He's a nice guy and there are more like him who do chat
 
Sassy, I agree with you about the silly generic (and clearly mass) PM that are sent by some. However, I am with Bunny about the fact that there are many here who are genuinely funny and friendly and with whom I have had such wonderful exchanges in the short time I have been here. I am sure there are very many more and I am really glad to have met the people I now call friends. :rose:
 
I would ask if there any women left who actually like conversation. I am finding it less likely to spend any length of time actually communicating in any meaningful way these days.
 
Getting to know a person is the best thing in the world. That is what a I love most.
 
SassySheDevil said:
I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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I am very happy to have conversations. I always respond to pm's but don't send them out to people without first having had so interaction via a thread or whatever
 
Conversation...

Don't know if I can make a woman laugh and use her brain, but I am always up for a good conversation , especially with ladies. Been told by some that I am a great talker (need to improve listening skills though) and should BE a woman even though I am a male...😁
 
SassySheDevil said:
I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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I see your point, but I'd like to point out that it is not just men who are lacking in the art of a good conversation. It seems that lately I keep coming across women who just want me to tell them "what I would do to them" in detail as the respond with "oohh.. Ahh... Really?!... What next?!?". Or when the conversation isn't a simple transactional exchange of semi erotic (albeit one sided) role play, it's monosyllabic responses to what I would deem as quite insightful questions, and so I'm left thinking to myself - "why bother?"

I don't know. Maybe we are a dying breed. I'm really here to meet and build robust friendships with good and intelligent people.. But it seems harder and harder..
 
SassySheDevil said:
I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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Sorry to hear you have such experiences, there are folk out there who like to chat and challenge in conversation, erotic or otherwise. Am an environmentalist, a cyclist, a walker and an occasional kinky man - take your pick!

Another thread on here is a discussion about lurking or posting, and interestingly many women noted they generally use invisible mode here to avoid the type of PM you hint at getting. Am sorry it has to be that way, drop me a note if you want to chat, but no offence taken if you don't, have fun!
 
Sure Sassy .. do you think you could chat while my cock is in your mouth.
Just joking. Hope you find a lovely funny gentleman.
 
As a mature (in age) guy... I enjoy chatting. Feel free. As a person raised in the south I tend to be a bit reserved, but i enjoy chatting, Nice or naughty. I enjoy getting to meet (online) and know people. Have a sensual day! Jay
 
Sassy, there are all types here, as I know you know. The main issue with those of us that are here almost entirely for conversation is the same issue you see in the real world when it comes to personalities: the extreme ones tend to be the most vocal, and demand the most attention. The normal, everyday, laid-back folks just blend into the background and get lost in the white noise. =/
 
mancsman said:
I would ask if there any women left who actually like conversation. I am finding it less likely to spend any length of time actually communicating in any meaningful way these days.
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I concur.

As a man, I have found it difficult to find a good female conversationalist here, myself.
 
SassySheDevil said:
I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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Unfortunately, a lot of men have their razor-sharp wits honed by watching the Three Stooges...which may explain some of those "stupid PMs."

I'd suggest looking among Marx Brothers or Monty Python fans, but you might end up with Zeppo (or, given our current Zeitgeist, someone who insists on dressing up as Mrs. Zambesi.)
 
SassySheDevil said:
I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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*raises hand*
 
SassySheDevil said:
I love to talk. Have amazing conversations, but it is so hard to find guys who like to actually talk. Most are looking to get off, and I truly don't come to lit for that. I miss fun banter, conversations that make you think. I like meeting new people.

I see the same ads in here with men begging for sexual attention. That's such a turn off for me.

Talk to a woman, make her laugh, challenge her brain and don't bombard her with stupid PMs
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Perhaps pointing out the obvious, but (IMHO) I have yet to see many posts like yours Sassy where the 'intent' is to have a conversation that does not revolve around sexual attention.

I would say your comments are 'true', but then perhaps that is (disappointingly?) expected given the forum subject matter...

Judging by the responses you have received, there are enough guys that would like to 'just talk'. You can include me in that number too.

Good for you for posting and hope you have some success!

Steve
 
First, I have to apologize. I am one that likes to respond to each message and I will try and do so. There was a car accident outside my house last night so after I finally got to sleep, I did my usual sleep like shit because I Have insomnia. So I have been up and down a lot. I am awake now though and will slowly try and answer some of these before I have to leave.

This applies to the PMs also. Be patient as I got many. :rose:
 
StrangeView said:
Yep, there are still some of us around :) Don't tend to do unsolicited PM's though, but I always answer any I get, if you ever feel inclined. Otherwise, good luck with your search!

SV :rose:
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I don't mind the unsolicited PMs if they are nice and polite and ask questions or try and make conversation. The one I got the other day where he asked if I was available to fuck, are the ones that make me wonder how people can make it through life like that.
hot_hunny_bunny said:
He's a nice guy and there are more like him who do chat
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I have found very few who can, I know they are out there, which is why I asked. But I can bet half the guys who responded to this, can't go more then 10 minutes without asking some sexual question. I could say something like "I had a cucumber salad" and some would say "Oh what did you do with that cucumber" :rolleyes:
cliteatingman said:
I do...
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and if one views even your last 10 posts, it's all sexual. I don't think I've ever seen you say something non sexual. I might pass out. ;)
LizzieEr said:
Sassy, I agree with you about the silly generic (and clearly mass) PM that are sent by some. However, I am with Bunny about the fact that there are many here who are genuinely funny and friendly and with whom I have had such wonderful exchanges in the short time I have been here. I am sure there are very many more and I am really glad to have met the people I now call friends. :rose:
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I am thankful for all those I have made and lost also. It just gets so old to hear "It's a porn site, what do you expect"
 
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