winepleasures
Literotica Guru
- Joined
- Apr 18, 2002
- Posts
- 841
I'm sorry for your friend.
and you're right, he probably will just go on to the next one....
and you're right, he probably will just go on to the next one....
Follow along with the video below to see how to install our site as a web app on your home screen.
Note: This feature may not be available in some browsers.
Morning!
I am in a killing mood this morning.
So another woman... who I will not say, is falling victim to a male bully. Of course she is telling him no,and to stop. and now he's on ignore. The problem is, then he just moves on tho the next woman, who may not be strong enough.
Makes my blood boil. really it does. when it happened to me, if i didn't have such other wonderful friends to fall back on I think I would have been devastated.
Grrr
Good morning everyone.
Scent, I know that there are women and men that can't stand up to a bully, but I don't know how to stop them either. Sadly the whole "free speech" has opened up to "free beat on people online too" - They place a person on ignore, and the guy/woman picks a new victim and they place them on ignore... there is no way to stop them. New Identities pop up all the time.
Everyone gangs up on the one person that is bullying another. Really how does that help? They disappear and come back in a day or two later with some of the other thirty or so newbies. Some alias folk are dumb, they immediately flock to who they bullied and begin again, but some are smart too - but all of them, every last one of them are living off the pain they give others and the anger that we (the flock of protectors) give them when we jump down throats and make threats.
As far as what we can do as a group. We offer the victim support and encouragement and we ALL ignore the garbage that walks along next to us. Garbage can be kicked to the curb, but it will always find away to roll back in when it is virtual garbage. We just have to keep kickin' it back when it appears.
*** Snipped for space***
You are right Red. I tried to be the protector and all it got me was warnings from the Mods. The asshat still is on line harassing...
I feel that taking the high road seems to be todays advice. Be kind and gentle and publicly post the PM's for all too see, once. (you may have to alter the name a tad to keep the mods happy) After all free speech right? Just dont get into a pissing match with them, don't stoop to their level They only want the attention which is why only post once to let others know then all can ignore them.
Thank you Red for giving us a safe haven in here and keeping that Tiger in the corner for our protection. (morning Scent)
lol!
You guys are awesome!
Yeah I vented my frustration on writing a long email I was going to post. Then I deleted it. But it felt good to pour my anger out. I'm better now.
still want to say Grr.
Like I said the ass hat is still up to his old ways.
Very well said Lance.
I remember back in the old day s(Pre Internet as it is known today) We had chat boards that anyone could ban someone until the mod could look back at the posts and decide if it was warranted and then if found innocent, reinstate them. If you were banned you had to ask for reinstatement. It kept things nice and tidy until that also started getting abused.
I guess we just all need to go to bed, pull the covers up over us and only let in the soft warm bodies.
Like I said the ass hat is still up to his old ways.
Very well said Lance.
I remember back in the old day s(Pre Internet as it is known today) We had chat boards that anyone could ban someone until the mod could look back at the posts and decide if it was warranted and then if found innocent, reinstate them. If you were banned you had to ask for reinstatement. It kept things nice and tidy until that also started getting abused.
I guess we just all need to go to bed, pull the covers up over us and only let in the soft warm bodies.
I was a gold hammer in a very popular MSN chatroom back in the day. I watched conversations going on all the time, but it was the private ones that we given my attention from people. They would send me the post and if I felt it was warranted, they were barred for life, never to come back. I could ban for a couple of hours, to a day, to a month. It was hard to be a Mod, but it was worth it to see everyone happy and getting along.
I think I would get banned for telling to many people to fuck off in a nice way.
Anyway Tricia has Lance, the other two I am trying to let them know that they have options. Hopefully they will make their way here.
whatever happen to the chatroom anyway?
I think I would get banned for telling to many people to fuck off in a nice way.
Anyway Tricia has Lance, the other two I am trying to let them know that they have options. Hopefully they will make their way here.
whatever happen to the chatroom anyway?
I just don't get it....
Why would someone need to get attention in a negative sense? Like a woman is going to fall for a guy that is a jerk or worse.
Isn't is better to be surrounded by friends? Teasing, caring for each other, learning the person behind the typed words.
Knowing how you feel when someone has hurt you why would anyone want to present that hurt in written words for all to see or become personal with the hurtful stabs in PM.
Words said here are the same as if they are said face to face. in a way they are. (My face just has a "G" on it) If you cannot stand by your words, actions, deeds, then just move on.
Back to the bed idea..... I cannot figure out if a small bed to we have to be that much closer and stacked is better or a large bed for more room to romp? decisions........
I was a gold hammer in a very popular MSN chatroom back in the day. I watched conversations going on all the time, but it was the private ones that we given my attention from people. They would send me the post and if I felt it was warranted, they were barred for life, never to come back. I could ban for a couple of hours, to a day, to a month. It was hard to be a Mod, but it was worth it to see everyone happy and getting along.
I think a lot of bullies online are the ones that were too weak in school to protect themselves, so they find that power here online because it is safe for them and they are working through their demons by hurting others and feeling better with themselves for it. There are also though those same bullies from school that have not ever realized their actions are wrong or they don't care.
About beds. Large beds please.
About beds. Large beds please.
I used to be on Yahoo chat (too much) MSN a little bit but also Lit has taken over....
In a shameless plug, kudos to Laurel and Manu for starting this. Cheers to the Mods who work tirelessly to keep this place on the straight and narrow.
(maybe i can stay for another day )
I agree bullies are very weak, mentally most definitely. lolBullies are weaker than you. If you can know that, you can conquer them.
Agreed, king size bed with headboard and foot board that can accommodate rope, handcuffs, sheets, belts ...
I don't remember the plural thing.... I am thinking one only... more fun that way.
I do like this place a lot. I do think there are ways to improve the harassment, but again I know it cannot be easy on a site this large.
I agree bullies are very weak, mentally most definitely. lol
Oh yes ---
I just meant beds in general. Are we on a bed?
I do like this place a lot. I do think there are ways to improve the harassment, but again I know it cannot be easy on a site this large.
It's your thread, we can be anywhere you want to be....