I also need a woman to take charge of me..
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I also need a woman to take charge of me..
I was married for 13 years to my high school sweetheart. I had always been curious about other women so when our marriage hit a rough patch, I started to explore a little. I met an incredible woman...a bisexual who happened to be married at the same. She was amazing - imagine a curvy yoga instructor who looks like Christina Hendricks from "Mad Men". We started as friends but quickly became lovers. She taught me *everything*. I learned more about my body from her than I learned in over 13 years with my husband. Sex with another woman was not like I had imagined it. It was better. It was fucking incredible.
But aside from the sex, she was just incredible: warm, loving, compassionate. We fell deeply in love and both left our spouses to be together. Besides the sex, sharing intimacy with another woman is a beautiful thing. The warmth and affection, the emotional connection...it's all so wonderful.
I would encourage any woman who is curious about sex with another woman to go for it. Life is too short to deny yourself such pleasure. But be aware that it could change your life dramatically. Not every woman will have the experience that I had. But it could happen and you should be aware of how it can upend your life. For me, it was well worth it.
I'm happy to see this thread still thriving. I stopped frequenting Lit when it was turned into a medium for political statements during the last presidential election. I usually only come back to pick up PMs from a wonderful woman I "met" on this site. Today I thought I'd look up the thread I started and see if it was still active.
Then I read through a number of the posts. They made me alternately glad and sad. People of any gender who live without sexual passion in their lives are missing one of life's greatest treasures.
I love my husband but I needed to embrace my need for girl/girl love. I don't know how to say it better than that. It's a very different experience than the passionate lovemaking with my husband. It's more an encounter of equals, of similar but different, of love with someone more intuitive and understanding of what I'm feeling. I've had sexual encounters with girls my age (late twenties), of girls younger than I (early twenties) and of girls much older (45-55). I guess I sound promiscuous but I live in New York City where alternatives are much more prevalent and available. On the campus where I teach and am finishing my dissertation, there is ample opportunity through the women's center, bookstores (browse the LGBT section), coffee shops, my martial arts classes, the gym... I have been the seducer and the seduced.
I would like to add one dimension to the discussion. It isn't meant as a rationalization since I long ago gave up any notion of guilt in victimless acts. Being with girls has sharpened my appreciation for being with my husband. They are different experiences for me. When I make love with a girl, I don't try to simulate love with a man. It is more about taste, and mutual response. She isn't taking me and I'm not taking her; it's more that we're creating something together.
I suppose this sounds like a load of crap to many people but I wonder if other girl/girl lovers recognize anything in what I've written.
My steadiest lover, an older professor, has taught me by example to articulate my feelings and that's what this post is. If you relate, please share. If you don't, sorry.
Amy
If your that much to handle....maybe you should "take charge"....I'd love to be at your command.
Hello Ladies... and onlooking Gents,
I am a 24yr old mom of two and wife to the typical "Wednesday night" hubby... and with that said...
I too, want a girl's head between my thighs at least once before I die!
Thanks for your time,
that's so nice...I am a married woman who happens to love being with another woman. I have my husbands permission to have a girlfriend. I just need to find one...lol
You should have that! Love to help you out!!
that'd have to be true, for sure.I truly think that men (specifically, me) can learn a lot about being better lovers by watching lesbian porn.
I am. Married BiBBW and would love to be a first for you girls...
That sounds so good
Need an experienced woman to help you along ?
Have you read my mind?
Have you read my mind?
Seducing th curious