Married Women Who Fantasize About Girls

I was married for 13 years to my high school sweetheart. I had always been curious about other women so when our marriage hit a rough patch, I started to explore a little. I met an incredible woman...a bisexual who happened to be married at the same. She was amazing - imagine a curvy yoga instructor who looks like Christina Hendricks from "Mad Men". We started as friends but quickly became lovers. She taught me *everything*. I learned more about my body from her than I learned in over 13 years with my husband. Sex with another woman was not like I had imagined it. It was better. It was fucking incredible.

But aside from the sex, she was just incredible: warm, loving, compassionate. We fell deeply in love and both left our spouses to be together. Besides the sex, sharing intimacy with another woman is a beautiful thing. The warmth and affection, the emotional connection...it's all so wonderful.

I would encourage any woman who is curious about sex with another woman to go for it. Life is too short to deny yourself such pleasure. But be aware that it could change your life dramatically. Not every woman will have the experience that I had. But it could happen and you should be aware of how it can upend your life. For me, it was well worth it.

Very nice story:rose:
 
I can relate

I'm happy to see this thread still thriving. I stopped frequenting Lit when it was turned into a medium for political statements during the last presidential election. I usually only come back to pick up PMs from a wonderful woman I "met" on this site. Today I thought I'd look up the thread I started and see if it was still active.

Then I read through a number of the posts. They made me alternately glad and sad. People of any gender who live without sexual passion in their lives are missing one of life's greatest treasures.

I love my husband but I needed to embrace my need for girl/girl love. I don't know how to say it better than that. It's a very different experience than the passionate lovemaking with my husband. It's more an encounter of equals, of similar but different, of love with someone more intuitive and understanding of what I'm feeling. I've had sexual encounters with girls my age (late twenties), of girls younger than I (early twenties) and of girls much older (45-55). I guess I sound promiscuous but I live in New York City where alternatives are much more prevalent and available. On the campus where I teach and am finishing my dissertation, there is ample opportunity through the women's center, bookstores (browse the LGBT section), coffee shops, my martial arts classes, the gym... I have been the seducer and the seduced.

I would like to add one dimension to the discussion. It isn't meant as a rationalization since I long ago gave up any notion of guilt in victimless acts. Being with girls has sharpened my appreciation for being with my husband. They are different experiences for me. When I make love with a girl, I don't try to simulate love with a man. It is more about taste, and mutual response. She isn't taking me and I'm not taking her; it's more that we're creating something together.

I suppose this sounds like a load of crap to many people but I wonder if other girl/girl lovers recognize anything in what I've written.

My steadiest lover, an older professor, has taught me by example to articulate my feelings and that's what this post is. If you relate, please share. If you don't, sorry.
Amy
 
I'm happy to see this thread still thriving. I stopped frequenting Lit when it was turned into a medium for political statements during the last presidential election. I usually only come back to pick up PMs from a wonderful woman I "met" on this site. Today I thought I'd look up the thread I started and see if it was still active.

Then I read through a number of the posts. They made me alternately glad and sad. People of any gender who live without sexual passion in their lives are missing one of life's greatest treasures.

I love my husband but I needed to embrace my need for girl/girl love. I don't know how to say it better than that. It's a very different experience than the passionate lovemaking with my husband. It's more an encounter of equals, of similar but different, of love with someone more intuitive and understanding of what I'm feeling. I've had sexual encounters with girls my age (late twenties), of girls younger than I (early twenties) and of girls much older (45-55). I guess I sound promiscuous but I live in New York City where alternatives are much more prevalent and available. On the campus where I teach and am finishing my dissertation, there is ample opportunity through the women's center, bookstores (browse the LGBT section), coffee shops, my martial arts classes, the gym... I have been the seducer and the seduced.

I would like to add one dimension to the discussion. It isn't meant as a rationalization since I long ago gave up any notion of guilt in victimless acts. Being with girls has sharpened my appreciation for being with my husband. They are different experiences for me. When I make love with a girl, I don't try to simulate love with a man. It is more about taste, and mutual response. She isn't taking me and I'm not taking her; it's more that we're creating something together.

I suppose this sounds like a load of crap to many people but I wonder if other girl/girl lovers recognize anything in what I've written.

My steadiest lover, an older professor, has taught me by example to articulate my feelings and that's what this post is. If you relate, please share. If you don't, sorry.
Amy

I can relate and experience the same feelings when I am with a woman. It is so different than being with a man. While my husband would never understand my desire to make love to women, I try not to feel terribly guilty. When I am happy, people around me are more happy. It makes me happy to be with a woman so I will even if it means I have to do it in secret. :rose:
 
Wow, I was just thinking about this topic. I was watching a scene of two women making love, and the dynamic was beautiful. There was a definite difference than in many heterosexual encounters. There was a loving tenderness, understanding and respect that I found very erotic. My point is that there is a "connection" between a lot of women. I think they are capable of a different type of love than men are. I think it is possible for women to express their affection for each other sexually, yet still desire men. I guess that's the definition of bisexuality.
 
I truly think that men (specifically, me) can learn a lot about being better lovers by watching lesbian porn.
 
Nothing against guys or nice dick but there is something to be said for knowing how to help a young lady learn how to find a women's pleasure.
 
Hello Ladies... and onlooking Gents,


I am a 24yr old mom of two and wife to the typical "Wednesday night" hubby... and with that said...

I too, want a girl's head between my thighs at least once before I die!:D



Thanks for your time, :heart:
 
Hello Ladies... and onlooking Gents,


I am a 24yr old mom of two and wife to the typical "Wednesday night" hubby... and with that said...

I too, want a girl's head between my thighs at least once before I die!:D



Thanks for your time, :heart:

You should have that! Love to help you out!!
 
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