SalvDali
Really Really Experienced
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- Aug 19, 2016
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So about a year ago I got it in my head I wanted my wife to tie me up so we could see what it was like on the other side. I had never fantasized about that side of the dynamic but I was very curious to see what it was like. So we discussed it and she wasn’t enthusiastic about it but she was willing to try it.
I got out the cuffs and bed anchors and laid them out on the bed and noticed she was just spacing out stairing at them. I asked her if she was ok and boom. She just starts full on balling like a child and says “I can’t do this. Please don’t ask me to do this”. I pushed the stuff to the floor and we cuddled and I assured her she didn’t have to do anything.
We discussed it more the next day when she was less distraught but even then she couldn’t really explain her reaction. Only that when she got to the moment that she realized it was not in her to do it and it scared her to even think about it.
Anyone had a similar experience?
I got out the cuffs and bed anchors and laid them out on the bed and noticed she was just spacing out stairing at them. I asked her if she was ok and boom. She just starts full on balling like a child and says “I can’t do this. Please don’t ask me to do this”. I pushed the stuff to the floor and we cuddled and I assured her she didn’t have to do anything.
We discussed it more the next day when she was less distraught but even then she couldn’t really explain her reaction. Only that when she got to the moment that she realized it was not in her to do it and it scared her to even think about it.
Anyone had a similar experience?