Harold_Hill
Really Really Experienced
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- Nov 9, 2014
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Harold, your assertion that Amy is not a victim is an out and out falsehood. If being the unwilling object of someone else’s voyeurism were merely a matter of offended sensibilities, there would be no laws against it. But as far as I’m aware, just about every jurisdiction in the US has statutes against Peeping Toms. So you are patently off base and how you even have the guts to suggest otherwise is, quite frankly, mindboggling. As is the contention that an attack need be physical to be categorized as such. But that is a subject for a different thread.
Perhaps you are right, perhaps Amy is a victim. We have all seen the recent public service announcements regarding domestic violence, and since Amy is either unable or unwilling to protect herself, (she posted: "I'm not sure how to approach this. Should I bring it up or should I ignore it. I think I'm leaning towards ignore because it's not harming anyone"), perhaps you should take the responsibility to see that she is protected. We don't know this young man, and for all we know, his next step may be to rape his mother. It has happened before.
You can contact the authorities in your area and give them all the details about Amy's post/situation, (copy of the post, date, etc). The authorities in your area can then contact Lit and get Amy's Internet Service Provider's location. Then they can forward the details of this sex crime, (as you pointed out, videoing someone naked without their permission is a sex crime), to the proper authorities in Amy's area. The authorities in Amy's area can then, (with a court order/search warrant), confiscate the young man's computer, and if there is a video of his mother in the shower, arrest him and charge him with a sex crime.
If the young man is victimizing his mother, perhaps he should be dealt with harshly. Rapists rarely start out with big crimes; rather, they start with small crimes, then when they get away with it, escalate to bigger crimes. Sex crimes against women today are so common because people ignore the perpetrator when his/her crimes are small by saying, "it's none of my business", then when the crimes are out of control, those same people want to point their finger and cry, "somebody should do something about it." If you believe Amy is a victim of a sex crime, (which apparently she is because that is the point of her original post), then it is your responsibility to file a report with the authorities.
Quote: "I think I'm leaning towards ignore because it's not harming anyone." Not harming anyone? Videoing someone, (anyone), masturbating in the shower without their permission is a crime, and crime harms people.