What is a turnoff for you in porn?

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AmbroseBierce

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For me the illusion of perfection is unexciting: magnificent bodies, spectacular tits, extravagant cocks, professional lighting etc etc. Those things are like a bucket of cold water to me. I'm attracted to real people: people whose bodies, like mine, are less than perfect. People whose sexual performance, like mine, is fallible. I know that porn is supposed to be an illusion and for some people, obviously, the illusion of perfection is exciting. Not for me though. I don't want to fuck an image; I want to fuck a person. Anybody else feel this way?
 
I don't like seeing a lot of tattoos or piercings. Some are okay. Don't like fake anything be it plastic surgery or orgasms. Don't like a lot of makeup on women. Don't like a lot of setup. Such as watching a guy tie up a woman for a half an hour then giving her a few smacks on the bottom while she carries on something fierce! And then there may be no sex. Or if there is its over in a minute or two.

Don't like seeing filthy disgusting dungeons, sex on a mattress with no sheets or a woman playing with herself on a bare chair or couch. How fake is that? Totally dry pussy and clean furniture. I get sloppy wet and can squirt. I need to put a towel down. Put a towel down and at least make us think you are getting some sort of satisfaction,

Don't like never ending pud pulling sessions during gang bangs. Dear Lord! Those guys stand around jacking themselves off like mad and never seem to cum. Or the guy who nails her ass like a robot but never cums. They always say stuff like, "Yeah baby! Yeah baby" or, 'Look at her taking that cock!" What did you expect? For it not to fit in?

Don't like seeing super ugly people. I realize that's a matter of taste. But I saw one the other night with four people in it. The woman being used wasn't really ugly but she was very thin and wearing weird, tacky platform shoes. One guy was very fat. He didn't do much but kept for whatever reason, touching his dirty white shoe to her pussy. Other guy was scrawny to the point of looking emaciated. He had a sloppy hairdo and a sloppier mustache. The other woman was kind of plain and dumpy looking. Older woman. Wearing a see through black body stocking.

Saw another one that I had to quit watching because the woman's shoes were so weird and distracting. They were strange looking black sandals that had low heels and didn't fit her feet properly. I kept thinking she would trip in the damned things. Then I realized that I wasn't even watching the video. Just her shoes!

Bad blow jobs. I hate it when the guy has a huge looking cock and the woman just barely takes the very tip in her mouth, sometimes taking it sideways so it pokes into her cheek. She acts like this is all she can do. Does not use her hands on his head, shaft, balls, body or anything. Just looks up at him with big cow eyes and appears to struggle. Worse still is when she vomits from giving head. I do NOT want to see that! I've never vomited while giving head. Why is she?

Background noises. Some seem to be filmed in bad motels or something. You can hear trains and cars in the background or worse, sounds from other sets. I hate it when the sound track doesn't match the mouths moving. I hate it when there is no sound. Foreign languages frustrate me. I have no clue what they're saying.

I don't like it when they wear head coverings. I want to see the pain. See the pleasure!
 
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hey...

I don't like seeing a lot of tattoos or piercings. Some are okay. Don't like fake anything be it plastic surgery or orgasms. Don't like a lot of makeup on women. Don't like a lot of setup. Such as watching a guy tie up a woman for a half an hour then giving her a few smacks on the bottom while she carries on something fierce! And then there may be no sex. Or if there is its over in a minute or two.

Don't like seeing filthy disgusting dungeons, sex on a mattress with no sheets or a woman playing with herself on a bare chair or couch. How fake is that? Totally dry pussy and clean furniture. I get sloppy wet and can squirt. I need to put a towel down. Put a towel down and at least make us think you are getting some sort of satisfaction,

Don't like never ending pud pulling sessions during gang bangs. Dear Lord! Those guys stand around jacking themselves off like mad and never seem to cum. Or the guy who nails her ass like a robot but never cums. They always say stuff like, "Yeah baby! Yeah baby" or, 'Look at her taking that cock!" What did you expect? For it not to fit in?

Don't like seeing super ugly people. I realize that's a matter of taste. But I saw one the other night with four people in it. The woman being used wasn't really ugly but she was very thin and wearing weird, tacky platform shoes. One guy was very fat. He didn't do much but kept for whatever reason, touching his dirty white shoe to her pussy. Other guy was scrawny to the point of looking emaciated. He had a sloppy hairdo and a sloppier mustache. The other woman was kind of plain and dumpy looking. Older woman. Wearing a see through black body stocking.

Saw another one that I had to quit watching because the woman's shoes were so weird and distracting. They were strange looking black sandals that had low heels and didn't fit her feet properly. I kept thinking she would trip in the damned things. Then I realized that I wasn't even watching the video. Just her shoes!

Bad blow jobs. I hate it when the guy has a huge looking cock and the woman just barely takes the very tip in her mouth, sometimes taking it sideways so it pokes into her cheek. She acts like this is all she can do. Does not use her hands on his head, shaft, balls, body or anything. Just looks up at him with big cow eyes and appears to struggle. Worse still is when she vomits from giving head. I do NOT want to see that! I've never vomited while giving head. Why is she?

Background noises. Some seem to be filmed in bad motels or something. You can hear trains and cars in the background or worse, sounds from other sets. I hate it when the sound track doesn't match the mouths moving. I hate it when there is no sound. Foreign languages frustrate me. I have no clue what they're saying.

I don't like it when they wear head coverings. I want to see the pain. See the pleasure!

I've never said this to a woman before (or anyone who professes to be a woman)
BUT-, I know exactly what you are talking about and I have the same set of complaints. I mean what the fuck if you want to be a freaking actress learn your craft and never mind the fucking. Leave that to people who really enjoy it.
 
No sound or people who don’t like to make a single noise. I want to hear them enjoying themselves as well as seeing them, I’m not talking about the usual forced porn star scripted stuff. I prefer amateur porn where you can tell the participants are having a genuine good time. The downside to that is the background noise of tv, radio etc, when it’s too loud it irritates me and makes me switch off. One of my other turn offs is fake breasts, gotta be all naturals, can’t stand the ones that look like Barbie dolls, the plastic surgeons wet dreams.
 
Sex in places where people don't normally have sex. Like laying spread eagle on the kitchen table or bent over the countertops, in an impossible position on the stairs or in gay porn while bent over the car while working in the garage.

Come on, I'm sure it probably happens but not ALL the time as portrayed in porn.
 
To keep it simple; Can I just say...all of the above (with sincere emphasis !!!!!!) Truth is, I very rarely even watch it. I refuse to pay for it, so maybe better stuff can be found...but I have a pretty fertile imagination and it's free :rolleyes:
 
Men wearing socks while fucking
Fake nails
Gaping holes
Too many jump cuts
Bad lighting (also includes overly saturated photoshoot lighting)
Any music. Any.
The typical fake porn noises
Constant position switching
Blowjobs that are clearly just for show
etc
 
I dislike anything with misogyny, humiliation, extreme degradation or abuse. I don’t find it remotely arousing. I can understand a dom/sub relationship and that there are some who legitimately enjoy consensual name calling, slapping, etc. To each their own and no judgment. But in those circumstances, the participants desire it and agree to it. When it happens in porn, it feels more like someone’s unilateral subjugation fantasy with an intent to do nothing more than selfishly victimize another human being for sexual satisfaction. That may or may not be the intent,
but that is what it feels like.
 
For me the illusion of perfection is unexciting: magnificent bodies, spectacular tits, extravagant cocks, professional lighting etc etc. Those things are like a bucket of cold water to me. I'm attracted to real people: people whose bodies, like mine, are less than perfect. People whose sexual performance, like mine, is fallible. I know that porn is supposed to be an illusion and for some people, obviously, the illusion of perfection is exciting. Not for me though. I don't want to fuck an image; I want to fuck a person. Anybody else feel this way?
Piercings, violence and fat
 
I don't like seeing a lot of tattoos or piercings. Some are okay. Don't like fake anything be it plastic surgery or orgasms. Don't like a lot of makeup on women. Don't like a lot of setup. Such as watching a guy tie up a woman for a half an hour then giving her a few smacks on the bottom while she carries on something fierce! And then there may be no sex. Or if there is its over in a minute or two.

Don't like seeing filthy disgusting dungeons, sex on a mattress with no sheets or a woman playing with herself on a bare chair or couch. How fake is that? Totally dry pussy and clean furniture. I get sloppy wet and can squirt. I need to put a towel down. Put a towel down and at least make us think you are getting some sort of satisfaction,

Don't like never ending pud pulling sessions during gang bangs. Dear Lord! Those guys stand around jacking themselves off like mad and never seem to cum. Or the guy who nails her ass like a robot but never cums. They always say stuff like, "Yeah baby! Yeah baby" or, 'Look at her taking that cock!" What did you expect? For it not to fit in?

Don't like seeing super ugly people. I realize that's a matter of taste. But I saw one the other night with four people in it. The woman being used wasn't really ugly but she was very thin and wearing weird, tacky platform shoes. One guy was very fat. He didn't do much but kept for whatever reason, touching his dirty white shoe to her pussy. Other guy was scrawny to the point of looking emaciated. He had a sloppy hairdo and a sloppier mustache. The other woman was kind of plain and dumpy looking. Older woman. Wearing a see through black body stocking.

Saw another one that I had to quit watching because the woman's shoes were so weird and distracting. They were strange looking black sandals that had low heels and didn't fit her feet properly. I kept thinking she would trip in the damned things. Then I realized that I wasn't even watching the video. Just her shoes!

Bad blow jobs. I hate it when the guy has a huge looking cock and the woman just barely takes the very tip in her mouth, sometimes taking it sideways so it pokes into her cheek. She acts like this is all she can do. Does not use her hands on his head, shaft, balls, body or anything. Just looks up at him with big cow eyes and appears to struggle. Worse still is when she vomits from giving head. I do NOT want to see that! I've never vomited while giving head. Why is she?

Background noises. Some seem to be filmed in bad motels or something. You can hear trains and cars in the background or worse, sounds from other sets. I hate it when the sound track doesn't match the mouths moving. I hate it when there is no sound. Foreign languages frustrate me. I have no clue what they're saying.

I don't like it when they wear head coverings. I want to see the pain. See the pleasure!


What she said! And what just about everybody else said, too.
 
I dislike anything with misogyny, humiliation, extreme degradation or abuse. I don’t find it remotely arousing. I can understand a dom/sub relationship and that there are some who legitimately enjoy consensual name calling, slapping, etc. To each their own and no judgment. But in those circumstances, the participants desire it and agree to it. When it happens in porn, it feels more like someone’s unilateral subjugation fantasy with an intent to do nothing more than selfishly victimize another human being for sexual satisfaction. That may or may not be the intent,
but that is what it feels like.

^^pretty much this
also the goldfish mouth - it just looks stupid, as do high heels on a mattress
 
Spitting is so gross. Why is everyone spitting all the time in porn now?

Also the fake through the teeth inhale nose women do when they're trying to sound like they're enjoying themselves but actually sound like they're getting alcohol poured on paper cuts over and over. I know what a woman sounds like when she cums and it isn't a hissing noise.
 
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Sometimes at the beginning woman are wearing beautiful dresses , underwear but as soon as they enter the bedroom the dress and panties are in the corner of the room and straight into sex . Never getting to see the clothes removed.

Back in the 80s the demand was “blonde hair, big tits”, now it’s more “ girl next door, gapping holes and gangbangs. Which doesn’t impress me personally.
My point is just slow things down a bit sometimes.
 
Anal Sex

Anal (or even pussy) sex where the penis is withdrawn and splats over the butt. Who in their right mind pulls out at he last second to waste the cum on a butt. C'mon.

Professional porn. All scripted and contrived, read false stuff. And shit like that.
 
I don't like piercings, tattoos or shaved pussies. I like shaved balls, but I prefer some hair above the cock. Not into super-muscular guys, either.

I also don't like humiliating talk and put-downs, insults, physical or verbal degradation. Even when it's consensual, it's a boner-killer for me. I like nice people who really want to enjoy each other's bodies.

And I don't like it when guys give blowjobs and then purse their lips together and grimace when the guy cums on their face. I mean, come on--I'm not even primarily gay, and I'd love that cum. They're doing gay porn and they don't even like it?!
 
Oh, and another thing I hate---when the pants and underwear are being pulled down, and the camera cuts away just before the cock or pussy is revealed, and then goes back after it's already out.

I (and I think most people watching porn) want to see the reveal!
 
I don't like piercings, tattoos or shaved pussies. I like shaved balls, but I prefer some hair above the cock. Not into super-muscular guys, either.

I also don't like humiliating talk and put-downs, insults, physical or verbal degradation. Even when it's consensual, it's a boner-killer for me. I like nice people who really want to enjoy each other's bodies.

And I don't like it when guys give blowjobs and then purse their lips together and grimace when the guy cums on their face. I mean, come on--I'm not even primarily gay, and I'd love that cum. They're doing gay porn and they don't even like it?!
I prefer hairy balls to shaved ones but otherwise we're on the same wavelength.
 
Oh, and another thing I hate---when the pants and underwear are being pulled down, and the camera cuts away just before the cock or pussy is revealed, and then goes back after it's already out.

I (and I think most people watching porn) want to see the reveal!

Agree with you there.
 
overacting and too much makeup. I am more of fun of amateur and amateur-like
 
Men wearing socks while fucking
Fake nails
Gaping holes
Too many jump cuts
Bad lighting (also includes overly saturated photoshoot lighting)
Any music. Any.
The typical fake porn noises
Constant position switching
Blowjobs that are clearly just for show
etc

Yes, what is it with socks? Just get fucking naked
 
Spitting is so gross. Why is everyone spitting all the time in porn now?

Also the fake through the teeth inhale nose women do when they're trying to sound like they're enjoying themselves but actually sound like they're getting alcohol poured on paper cuts over and over. I know what a woman sounds like when she cums and it isn't a hissing noise.

LUBE to make things slick
 
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