OK, so here is my story.
I have had some messed up short-time relationships in my high-school years. However, now I find myself in a long-term relationship. I met my current girlfriend in college and we have been in a relationship for 7 years now! She says she is a virgin. I am a virgin.
I will declare here my penis size, since I consider it a major contributor to who I am and the life I live: 4.5in (~11cm). We have moved in together and we have tried to have vaginal sex many times throughout the years, but we have never managed to. I assume it's because of my small penis size. However, I think she has never allowed me full access (she has made it very difficult for my penis size to enter her, by moving away, closing her legs etc.). Besides this, we have oral sex 2-3 times per week and I really love it. More often than not, she makes me cum by oral sex so that I don't try to have vaginal sex with her later.
On the psychological side: I am attracted to the "cuckold fantasy". I feel I am not adequate for my girlfriend and she needs a big dick to please her. I am aroused by the idea of finding someone (male) who could occasionally fuck her brains out while I watch in humiliation, probably with my dick locked in a chastity device. I am aware that I deserve no better. This fantasy became predominant in my life when I consistently failed to enter her (few years ago).
Regarding her: she has given me hints that she fantasies about big dicks. I think there is no reason for a woman not to like big dicks. I myself have respect for big dicks.
Other than this: we are both very successful people, we love each other and we are regarded as a good couple from the people surrounding us.
Important information: as far as I know my gf, I can't open up to her about this fantasy. Even if I do, what's gonna come next? Will I be a forever virgin cuckold?
I consider myself not addicted to porn (I do watch some cuckold porn though), I think all this is because of my penis size.
1) what do you think of my situation?
2) what do you suggest me to do?
Please consider the fact that this is a 7 year relationship when you suggest me to make her her feel secure and comfortable.
I have had some messed up short-time relationships in my high-school years. However, now I find myself in a long-term relationship. I met my current girlfriend in college and we have been in a relationship for 7 years now! She says she is a virgin. I am a virgin.
I will declare here my penis size, since I consider it a major contributor to who I am and the life I live: 4.5in (~11cm). We have moved in together and we have tried to have vaginal sex many times throughout the years, but we have never managed to. I assume it's because of my small penis size. However, I think she has never allowed me full access (she has made it very difficult for my penis size to enter her, by moving away, closing her legs etc.). Besides this, we have oral sex 2-3 times per week and I really love it. More often than not, she makes me cum by oral sex so that I don't try to have vaginal sex with her later.
On the psychological side: I am attracted to the "cuckold fantasy". I feel I am not adequate for my girlfriend and she needs a big dick to please her. I am aroused by the idea of finding someone (male) who could occasionally fuck her brains out while I watch in humiliation, probably with my dick locked in a chastity device. I am aware that I deserve no better. This fantasy became predominant in my life when I consistently failed to enter her (few years ago).
Regarding her: she has given me hints that she fantasies about big dicks. I think there is no reason for a woman not to like big dicks. I myself have respect for big dicks.
Other than this: we are both very successful people, we love each other and we are regarded as a good couple from the people surrounding us.
Important information: as far as I know my gf, I can't open up to her about this fantasy. Even if I do, what's gonna come next? Will I be a forever virgin cuckold?
I consider myself not addicted to porn (I do watch some cuckold porn though), I think all this is because of my penis size.
1) what do you think of my situation?
2) what do you suggest me to do?
Please consider the fact that this is a 7 year relationship when you suggest me to make her her feel secure and comfortable.