seela
Quark Thief
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- May 14, 2010
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Way too much cat poop scooping and not enough whipping and fucking.
I don't think I've ever reached subspace, but I've had some fucking awesome orgasms.
I think I have reached subspace. Not the spacy, flyaway kind, but rather one where I'm very intensely present. It's been nice, but not something I particularly need or aim towards. I don't know if people would call that subspace or not, but I do.
The spaced out mode would, indeed, be very problematic for day to day life. Although it would be nice to be able to blame some of my procrastination on subspace.
I honestly think I'm too boring and too practical to attach any great drama and theater to BDSM. To me it's just a way to handle the relationship and it makes both of us happy. And it's just sex. And a way to relieve stress and frustration sometimes, but mostly it's just sex and a relationship dynamic that happens to work for us.