Until someone convinces me otherwise...
...I'll continue to equate wetness with erectness.
Seems to me it's always worked that way, and personally, I find it difficult to respond when I don't feel that response in my lover.
If she's dry, I assume either I'm not doing something she wants or needs - or there's just a lack of interest.
I have a lover now who, though long past meno, gets quickly, incredibly, deliciously wet - which in turn brings out the wood like it should.
When you consider all the benefits that come with it, I just don't see a downside - unless you're an uptight fool with some unfortunate issues.
But that's just me. Your mileage may vary.
...I'll continue to equate wetness with erectness.
Seems to me it's always worked that way, and personally, I find it difficult to respond when I don't feel that response in my lover.
If she's dry, I assume either I'm not doing something she wants or needs - or there's just a lack of interest.
I have a lover now who, though long past meno, gets quickly, incredibly, deliciously wet - which in turn brings out the wood like it should.
When you consider all the benefits that come with it, I just don't see a downside - unless you're an uptight fool with some unfortunate issues.
But that's just me. Your mileage may vary.