Married, Bi-curious, and...

Bbwadmirer said:

After almost twenty years of being bi-curious I finally have the chance to explore my fantasies. I met an older married man that lives 5 minutes from me who has experimented a little with bi-play and recently moved to my area. He responded to my ad looking for a FWB to explore with. I checked him out and he is legit.

It's always just been a fantasy for me. I crave the idea of being with a man, of sucking his cock, and letting him fuck me. Now I actually have a date set where im supposed to meet him and go through with it. Excited, but also unsure that I can actually go through with it. But then maybe ill be passing up a once in a lifetime opportunity to safely explore these constant urges.

Thoughts? Preferably from those of you who have been in a similar situation.

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Go for it. To update Voltaire, "Once a scientist, next time collecting personal data." Let's know how it goes.

loverofintersex1 said:

Go for it. To update Voltaire, "Once a scientist, next time collecting personal data." Let's know how it goes.

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I agree...go for it and let us know what happens. I can't wait!

Sort-of similar situation here. 50something, happily married, but curious.

I shouldn't really be that curious because back when I was 18, I spent a night with an older male neighbour. But that was before I knew what I was doing sexually. Now I'm more confident and want to go to bed with another guy on a more equal basis, with more time for exploring and trying things out.

Ultimate fantasy is a MMM threesome. One step at a time though!

1point8 said:

Sort-of similar situation here. 50something, happily married, but curious.

I shouldn't really be that curious because back when I was 18, I spent a night with an older male neighbour. But that was before I knew what I was doing sexually. Now I'm more confident and want to go to bed with another guy on a more equal basis, with more time for exploring and trying things out.

Ultimate fantasy is a MMM threesome. One step at a time though!

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Mmmmm just the same, really...and Central England too, and online now.. which makes it actually possible. I have gone hard with the excitement of that thought.

Yasssssss.

loverofintersex1 said:

Go for it. To update Voltaire, "Once a scientist, next time collecting personal data." Let's know how it goes.

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Go for the cock

Bbwadmirer said:

After almost twenty years of being bi-curious I finally have the chance to explore my fantasies. I met an older married man that lives 5 minutes from me who has experimented a little with bi-play and recently moved to my area. He responded to my ad looking for a FWB to explore with. I checked him out and he is legit.

It's always just been a fantasy for me. I crave the idea of being with a man, of sucking his cock, and letting him fuck me. Now I actually have a date set where im supposed to meet him and go through with it. Excited, but also unsure that I can actually go through with it. But then maybe ill be passing up a once in a lifetime opportunity to safely explore these constant urges.

Thoughts? Preferably from those of you who have been in a similar situation.

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I'm in agreement with those that say if you're not going to damage your cirrrnt relationship and this is something you want, then do it. From what you've said he's safe, discreet, and has the same situation going in so he should also not be posting about all this on social media.

As far as the conversation with your wife, maybe approach it as wanting to know about a MMF threesome with her and make it more about pleasing her or exploring and expanding her boundaries. Maybe you could rent a few movies under the guise of trying something new and one of them be a bi flick to see how she responds?

If she agrees then ask what turns her on and what she'd like to do and see. You may be suprised that she has some fantasies of her own. You'd never know looking at my wife she gets completely wet thinking about playing with two cocks and watching me suck a cock for her. She also cums like a river with two cocks inside her pussy and she said it's because they're touching each other and she finds that hot. For her, the turn on for MMF is seeing me being fucked or sucking cock for her, and that fulfills my needs as well as meeting hers.

Just a couple thoughts because there's always more than one way to skin a cat, or I this case suck a cock. Good luck whichever way things go.

txfuncouple said:

I'm in agreement with those that say if you're not going to damage your cirrrnt relationship and this is something you want, then do it. From what you've said he's safe, discreet, and has the same situation going in so he should also not be posting about all this on social media.

As far as the conversation with your wife, maybe approach it as wanting to know about a MMF threesome with her and make it more about pleasing her or exploring and expanding her boundaries. Maybe you could rent a few movies under the guise of trying something new and one of them be a bi flick to see how she responds?

If she agrees then ask what turns her on and what she'd like to do and see. You may be suprised that she has some fantasies of her own. You'd never know looking at my wife she gets completely wet thinking about playing with two cocks and watching me suck a cock for her. She also cums like a river with two cocks inside her pussy and she said it's because they're touching each other and she finds that hot. For her, the turn on for MMF is seeing me being fucked or sucking cock for her, and that fulfills my needs as well as meeting hers.

Just a couple thoughts because there's always more than one way to skin a cat, or I this case suck a cock. Good luck whichever way things go.

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You are so lucky to have a wife like that.

Damn right.

I brought the subject up with my wife and I'm lucky we're still together. Berserk probably sums up her reaction.

sounds about right

PleasePeesMe said:

I brought the subject up with my wife and I'm lucky we're still together. Berserk probably sums up her reaction.

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My poor wife died suddenly, not fair. But, we had been married 15 years, and no real sex for the last 5. So many of them get like that. Most of my married pals live for beer and sports. So, it didnt take me long to figger how dangerous women are, and now I date the CD's, and love it.

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Bbwadmirer said:

After almost twenty years of being bi-curious I finally have the chance to explore my fantasies. I met an older married man that lives 5 minutes from me who has experimented a little with bi-play and recently moved to my area. He responded to my ad looking for a FWB to explore with. I checked him out and he is legit.

It's always just been a fantasy for me. I crave the idea of being with a man, of sucking his cock, and letting him fuck me. Now I actually have a date set where im supposed to meet him and go through with it. Excited, but also unsure that I can actually go through with it. But then maybe ill be passing up a once in a lifetime opportunity to safely explore these constant urges.

Thoughts? Preferably from those of you who have been in a similar situation.

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I have considered myself straight all my life. It was only a few years ago that I stumbled across images and video of shemales. I should be utterly horrified. But seeing them shocked me that I was incredibly turned on, especially when I saw guys being topped.

That led me to chatting one night in a gay men's room on the old MSN website. I was astonished at the welcome I received when I explained who I was, and not a little turned on. I have never felt romantic desires for men, and never will. But I find myself aroused when I see gay porn, especially shots of guys swallowing a load. Not the shots where they stick their tongue out, but where the cock is directly injecting a torrent of hot sperm down their throat, or it's squirting back out of their lips as the guy keeps pulsing his cock deep into their mouth and throat.

And I find too, that bareback sex totally arouses me. I have never had the chance to bottom, but I fantasize about it a lot. When I see a guy take a load in his ass, and the top keeps relentlessly fucking him, I go crazy.

Yes, I know. It's completely irresponsible. Bareback sex is dangerous. Yet, I dream of having a cock inside me, especially after reading stories others have posted about the experience. I fear the pain of getting started, the bleeding, and all the complications. Yet, I can only imagine the rolling orgasms that men must feel.

I guess this all makes sense in a weird way, given that I am a people-pleaser. I have been with guys a couple of times, giving head and loving it. Those last few seconds before a guy cums in my mouth are indescribable. It was better than I imagined it would be, and I want more.

Yet, I try to suppress my feelings. Often, they go away for weeks at a time. Then, suddenly, they come roaring back to the point where it's an overwhelming, illogical desire. I cannot explain why. But it's an unstoppable feeling.

Does any of this make sense? I would love to hear your perspective and experience.

GregInOC

Hey - welcome to Lit Greg.

FYI - many of us read most of the posts so you don't necessarily need to copy and paste the same reply to four threads

Again, welcome!

Just thought I'd update this thread. Finally got the courage and time to do something - had a brief and short hook-up last week, but totally underwhelmed. He was interested in my cock, which was OK, but he didn't want me to pay his cock any attention at all.

So much for 'randoms' off craigslist.