Hello my fellow Kinksters!
As some of you may know, I have very recently discovered my place in the world of kink and like a child, cannot get enough. It has changed my whole life immensely (not just in a sexual context) and I can already see that it has made me a much more assertive, thus a much better and most importantly a happier person.
I have also been quite outspoken about this since a lot of people have seen a very abrupt change in my attitude and are questioning the reasons.
Currently, I separate people into two categories (Yes I realise this is in no way supposed to be exactly true, but it works for me):
There are "vanilla" people who (I imagine) generally only have sex in the missionary position, slow and sensual (not that there's anything wrong with that, just bores me personally) and then there are kinky fuckers like us. I certainly know which I prefer!
However, a great majority of "vanilla" people, mostly through ignorance, quickly come to the conclusion that we are all "perverts" since they either do not understand the different dynamics involved, or simply it's just not their thing.
Mostly, as soon as a vanilla person gets an inkling of what I now am, their usual response is: "Oh! So you like to beat your wife basically!" Then they feel the need to explain to me how they are in an "equal" relationship and that they show their wives the respect she deserves (I'd like to suggest that my wife gets more respect and love from me because of this than their gets from them.)
Most of the time, I have neither the patience, nor the desire to sit there and educate them about the different things that are involved in this, that not everyone beats or gets beaten and that it has to be based on mutual understanding and respect.
I do suspect that, secretly, at least some of these people are kinksters themselves but mainly due to social dogmas, they have to pretend to be "proper"only to go home and be tied to the bedpost and be caned themselves (or whatever kink they enjoy.)
What are your own experiences in this? Please comment freely as you desire, I am interested in the good, the bad and the ugly.
Happy Kinking
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As some of you may know, I have very recently discovered my place in the world of kink and like a child, cannot get enough. It has changed my whole life immensely (not just in a sexual context) and I can already see that it has made me a much more assertive, thus a much better and most importantly a happier person.
I have also been quite outspoken about this since a lot of people have seen a very abrupt change in my attitude and are questioning the reasons.
Currently, I separate people into two categories (Yes I realise this is in no way supposed to be exactly true, but it works for me):
There are "vanilla" people who (I imagine) generally only have sex in the missionary position, slow and sensual (not that there's anything wrong with that, just bores me personally) and then there are kinky fuckers like us. I certainly know which I prefer!
However, a great majority of "vanilla" people, mostly through ignorance, quickly come to the conclusion that we are all "perverts" since they either do not understand the different dynamics involved, or simply it's just not their thing.
Mostly, as soon as a vanilla person gets an inkling of what I now am, their usual response is: "Oh! So you like to beat your wife basically!" Then they feel the need to explain to me how they are in an "equal" relationship and that they show their wives the respect she deserves (I'd like to suggest that my wife gets more respect and love from me because of this than their gets from them.)
Most of the time, I have neither the patience, nor the desire to sit there and educate them about the different things that are involved in this, that not everyone beats or gets beaten and that it has to be based on mutual understanding and respect.
I do suspect that, secretly, at least some of these people are kinksters themselves but mainly due to social dogmas, they have to pretend to be "proper"only to go home and be tied to the bedpost and be caned themselves (or whatever kink they enjoy.)
What are your own experiences in this? Please comment freely as you desire, I am interested in the good, the bad and the ugly.
Happy Kinking
x
E