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I am a Luddite, I'd live in a house with no electric lights by preference, I cannot work my MP3 what's it... but messages are a tool I am grateful for.
Mine was not a perception of mean, nor is it bluntness I am referring to more nitpicky of every word or phrase used. And it was not noticed just in one group, but five or six that I clicked around in. I know there is a plethora to choose from, but when you move from one to the next and notice the same pattern, you begin to believe that the pattern forms a design for the site.
I'll use what I wrote as an example. The topic was directed to subs on small and unique ideas they have used to please their D. Within it, I said "I know 'everyone is different', but we are many a lot alike in this life...just looking for those special things you have cleverly come up with for your Dom/me to let them know they are the center of your world and their needs come first?"
The hen came in to pick apart this phrase: " to let them know they are the center of your world and their needs come first?"
She wanted to point out that life still had to go on and she had to hold down a job, pay bills, etc and so forth.
Now, I did not really feel, that within my OP, I needed to mention all the caveats of life that obviously would make it impossible to always put our Dom/me as the very center or our world and that their needs would come before anything and everything else. That was clearly my mistake. And when I mentioned that to the hen, the mod told me I was being mean (I wasn't...I was antagonizing) and locked the post.
And the hen's great advice to ways to make your dom/me feel extra special? This, "Sending an occasional message to let them know they are in my thoughts works for me." It made me feel a little sorry for her Dom....but I didn't go that far in my antagonizing...
I recently joined, only to find out about local coffees and munches.
Your post made the assumption that everyone has the same perspective. I don't make my dom the center of my anything. My submission comes from a pretty selfish place. It gets my needs met. Service makes me twitch, in a bad way.
Mine was not a perception of mean, nor is it bluntness I am referring to more nitpicky of every word or phrase used. And it was not noticed just in one group, but five or six that I clicked around in. I know there is a plethora to choose from, but when you move from one to the next and notice the same pattern, you begin to believe that the pattern forms a design for the site.
I'll use what I wrote as an example. The topic was directed to subs on small and unique ideas they have used to please their D. Within it, I said "I know 'everyone is different', but we are many a lot alike in this life...just looking for those special things you have cleverly come up with for your Dom/me to let them know they are the center of your world and their needs come first?"
The hen came in to pick apart this phrase: " to let them know they are the center of your world and their needs come first?"
She wanted to point out that life still had to go on and she had to hold down a job, pay bills, etc and so forth.
Now, I did not really feel, that within my OP, I needed to mention all the caveats of life that obviously would make it impossible to always put our Dom/me as the very center or our world and that their needs would come before anything and everything else. That was clearly my mistake. And when I mentioned that to the hen, the mod told me I was being mean (I wasn't...I was antagonizing) and locked the post.
And the hen's great advice to ways to make your dom/me feel extra special? This, "Sending an occasional message to let them know they are in my thoughts works for me." It made me feel a little sorry for her Dom....but I didn't go that far in my antagonizing...
It is different. Made a while new acct cause I couldn't get into my old one,with my friends on it. I'm finding it rather boring this time around. I joined to learn more and meet like minded people for lunches and events. Those aren't easy to find either
I have no problems with Fetlife at all. I find local Munches easily, have added friends, some from Lit and some from my local community, and for my purposes it's worked really well.
I'm sorry everyone is having some issues over there. I don't think you need an invite anymore to join, that was only for a brief period of time.
Could be they aren't the Canadian government's thing, either. Who knows. Lit has restrictions on pics and stories. Why would Canada be any different?Does anyone know why Fetlife has just banned public sexual pics and videos where blood is visible?
Not really my thing, but concerned about new restrictions and would love to know why they have done this.
Does anyone know why Fetlife has just banned public sexual pics and videos where blood is visible?
Not really my thing, but concerned about new restrictions and would love to know why they have done this.
US government just shut down Backpage.com for good the other day. Too much sex trafficking or something, was their excuse. Not the same thing, but one of my very rare and very rewarding D/s encounters was through a legitimate provider who advertised on there... Its like, the government is really sticking it to the internet sex scene lately.
US government just shut down Backpage.com for good the other day. Too much sex trafficking or something, was their excuse. Not the same thing, but one of my very rare and very rewarding D/s encounters was through a legitimate provider who advertised on there... Its like, the government is really sticking it to the internet sex scene lately.
US government just shut down Backpage.com for good the other day. Too much sex trafficking or something, was their excuse. Not the same thing, but one of my very rare and very rewarding D/s encounters was through a legitimate provider who advertised on there... Its like, the government is really sticking it to the internet sex scene lately.
De lurking.
Do a search for murders associated to Back page.
Just this past December a sixteen year old was murdered, throat slashed from backpage hook up.October2016, Texas woman accused of pimping 16-year-old on backpage
And it's not just sex trafficking but trafficking of minors.Over forty seven states DA's wanted that site shut. It has been in the news from 2011.
A man killed four women he met or hired through backpage.
So sorry,not just something but a reality.