bi handjob buddies

I often fantasize about stroking a guy. But, I've never done anything remotely close to it. never touched a guy sexually.

I've found that if you hang out in the steam room and sauna naked, you will eventually get hit on by a guy. For those of you that are looking for a new friend to be stroke buddies with, this would be a great way to find a new friend.

I like to be naked. I like to visit gyms that have steam rooms and saunas in the men's locker rooms. I am always nude while I use them. The only thing I use a towel for is to sit on. It never fails that a guy will sit close to me, with in 5 - 7 feet or so, and I'll get a chubby or full erection. I'll put my hands down to help hit it and look at the guy and apologize. You can usually tell the straight ones form the bi/gay/bi-curious ones. They are always looking at you. Most of the time, they will say its alright and then stare at your cock. I've had guys tell me that they are enjoying looking at my cock. It's easy to strike up a conversation after this happens.

For you guys looking for a new buddy to stroke, this would be a great way to find one.

Jeepguy, I'm sure you could find someone to play with and possibly suck if you tried this. You see upfront what each other has.

Try this and report back. I'm heading to the gym for a couple of hours of steam room and sauna time on Friday. The best thing about where I go is that they have a huge hot tub too. its nice to step down into the huge hot tub nude.

Try this and let me know how it turns out. One thing I need to say is that you can't be shy about talking to other guys. You kind of have to be a little assertive to get them to admit that they are curious, bi, or gay. It helps to check them out too and let them see you checking them out.
 
I often fantasize about stroking a guy. But, I've never done anything remotely close to it. never touched a guy sexually.

I've found that if you hang out in the steam room and sauna naked, you will eventually get hit on by a guy. For those of you that are looking for a new friend to be stroke buddies with, this would be a great way to find a new friend.

I like to be naked. I like to visit gyms that have steam rooms and saunas in the men's locker rooms. I am always nude while I use them. The only thing I use a towel for is to sit on. It never fails that a guy will sit close to me, with in 5 - 7 feet or so, and I'll get a chubby or full erection. I'll put my hands down to help hit it and look at the guy and apologize. You can usually tell the straight ones form the bi/gay/bi-curious ones. They are always looking at you. Most of the time, they will say its alright and then stare at your cock. I've had guys tell me that they are enjoying looking at my cock. It's easy to strike up a conversation after this happens.

For you guys looking for a new buddy to stroke, this would be a great way to find one.

Jeepguy, I'm sure you could find someone to play with and possibly suck if you tried this. You see upfront what each other has.

Try this and report back. I'm heading to the gym for a couple of hours of steam room and sauna time on Friday. The best thing about where I go is that they have a huge hot tub too. its nice to step down into the huge hot tub nude.

Try this and let me know how it turns out. One thing I need to say is that you can't be shy about talking to other guys. You kind of have to be a little assertive to get them to admit that they are curious, bi, or gay. It helps to check them out too and let them see you checking them out.


I've always liked this idea, but always seem to chicken out once another guy walks in. Just thinking about it now has me hard. Its been a long time since I played with another guy!
 
Just go for it

When the guy walks in just sit next to each other and then let your towel slip and watch his reaction. Dominant guys will stand out as soon as they walk in and eye you off like a lion stalking prey. That is the time you let your towel drop completely.
 
Take it as it cums

All depends on your social life and your relationship status. If you could possibly get out some evenings to places where like minded people go that might work. Perhaps it is a case of finding out what meeting places are available that give you some discreet exposure to opportunities, but at the same time the type of place in question doesn't expect you to turn up dressed as a torn pantyhose wearing cross dressing Goth stripper with a vampire fetish. Although that could possibly work.
 
All depends on your social life and your relationship status. If you could possibly get out some evenings to places where like minded people go that might work. Perhaps it is a case of finding out what meeting places are available that give you some discreet exposure to opportunities, but at the same time the type of place in question doesn't expect you to turn up dressed as a torn pantyhose wearing cross dressing Goth stripper with a vampire fetish. Although that could possibly work.

Thanks for the idea. And the chuckle.
 
This thread has gotten me so hot! NYC 30yo here....str8, but very curious about having a jo bud....message me on Yahoo at sixspeedm!
 
trouble

I think many guys are struggling with monogamy vs. extracurricular play. Playing with guys seems just plain sex rather than an emotional involvement so it seems taboo and yet emotionally safe at the same time. Don't know how to think about this. Maybe men are evolving toward some new way of dealing with their drives. As for where to find cock, it's easiest if you can get away for a time during the day.
 
The time thing is very true it will affect enjoyment for both guys if one has to rush constantly. I'm married and don't have a lot of time to give and some men prefer a long slow blowj or handjob over a quick cum and go
 
The time thing is very true it will affect enjoyment for both guys if one has to rush constantly. I'm married and don't have a lot of time to give and some men prefer a long slow blowj or handjob over a quick cum and go

Well said. Some enjoy the ride more than the destination.
 
I read about porn shops and Craigslist on all these stories but they aren't what I would consider safe. Silver daddies Google it and sign up I think squirt . Org or .com try those personals websites. The easiest way is to find a man you know is gay and talk your way into experimenting not all of them are open to married guys though.
 
At work

Anyone around wanna phone about handjobs while I'm at work. Sitting alone in my cruiser wishing I could fin a discreet
Cock to stroke.
 
Thanks for all the suggestions.

If anyone finds themselves in the Santa Barbara area and wants to help, PM me!
 
Sitting with another man just chatting while stroking one another for some
Reason is very hot. Real life is better than phone but both are fun.

Would love to sit down with a married man and have fun while his wife watches
All the while just taking about the weather or what have you.
I've talked with a married man on the phone and could hear the wife in the background.
Was a lot of fun.

Always up for a simple conversation on the phone while we both get off.
 
Whats up all! Sadly I have not had any luck finding a HJ buddy...but the thought has not left my mind. In fact, I wish I had one at work right now haha. I made the mistake of surfing lit for a little bit while I wasnt busy, and now I cant open my top desk drawer because my erection is in the way haha.

That sauna idea is fan freaking tastic! Ive been thinking about hitting a gym and de-stressing in a sauna anyway...so maybe this will be perfect. Only problem will be finding just the right person that way. Like I said...I have this very specific situation in my head haha. Which might be most of my problem. Im too picky.

If I end up doing the sauna bit...Ill report back. Be awesome it worked out!

J.
 
Sauna or the change cubicle - take your pick

If not in the sauna try talking to a couple of guys in the change area. A good place to see the merchandise on show. Some eye contact can lead to a lot of fun and you might get exactly what you want.
 
I used to jack off with a friend looking at his dad's mags when a teen. We never touched. Just did our thing...and I admit I struggled with the taboo of wanting to watch him and not wanting to get caught, called out, or whatever.

When in my early 20s, I had a couple exploratory encounters with a gay guy, but wasn't really open or confident enough to really get into them.

Over the years, I've passed on a couple possible opportunities to play with a cock...and often wonder what I missed out on.

And so I find myself here, happily married, but wanting to feel a hard cock pulse and shoot a hot stream of cum onto my own cock and balls, then slide my fingers around in the jizz, rubbing it on my cock, wondering if someone will clean me up...

...sigh... ;)

Nicely said. I can almost feel the hot stream from here.
 
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