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Married but bi curious. Am I alone?

Hitchiker69 said:
I'm of the opinion that we are all naturally bisexual. If we free ourselves of society's rules and limitations we could have sex with any willing partner, regardless of gender. I also think you haven't fully experienced masculinity until you've sex with a man; sucking, fucking, getting fucked...all of it with no limits.
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I agree totally. In my youth, I attended a single sex school with night boarding and my friends and I would frequently engage in some form of group masturbation, sucking, fucking and getting fucked. It didn't do me any harm. My wife enjoys great sex with me and I have never told her that I've had more cock than her.
 
docisin said:
I agree with the basic premise of what you say; but, 'haven't fully experienced masculinity...'? Meh...some people think masculinity is growing a beard and chopping wood, not getting fucked in the ass...
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True, but he may have been referring to experiencing masculinity as a woman would experience it, as a receiver of it and it's desires.

In a way that would be knowing yourself, right? How you act and appear to others, at least in a sexual sense.

Getting ass fucked is a different thing, since only some desire it, and woman have a preferred means of fucking.
 
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CuriousTxGuy said:
True, but he may have been referring to experiencing masculinity as a woman would experience it, as a receiver of it and it's desires.

In a way that would be knowing yourself, right? How you act and appear to others, at least in a sexual sense.

Getting ass fucked is a different thing, since only some desire it, and woman have a preferred means of fucking.
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This post makes me want to experience your masculinity
 
As a gay man i have met several curious men over the years, more in recent years. This and other threads are very interesting. The experiences have varied with some pretty bad and others quite exciting and sensual. One man even went gay although still married to his wife for family reasons. The amount of guilt varies, with some consumed by it once they start and others gradually losing their guilt as they found that their feelings were genuine and satisfying, both sexually and emotionally. Every person that comes out comes out differently, and please keep in mind that coming out is a lifetime experience. Don't be afraid to take the plunge (sic) but don't be afraid if everyting doesn't come together all at once.
 
Jerseyshore said:
As a gay man i have met several curious men over the years, more in recent years. This and other threads are very interesting. The experiences have varied with some pretty bad and others quite exciting and sensual. One man even went gay although still married to his wife for family reasons. The amount of guilt varies, with some consumed by it once they start and others gradually losing their guilt as they found that their feelings were genuine and satisfying, both sexually and emotionally. Every person that comes out comes out differently, and please keep in mind that coming out is a lifetime experience. Don't be afraid to take the plunge (sic) but don't be afraid if everyting doesn't come together all at once.
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So, as guy man, I have a question (Str8M, bi-curious). Would you let a guy like me suck your cock, just because I want to? The reason I ask is because I meet a lot of gay men, their "gaydar" tells them I'm str8, and so there really isn't even a conversation (I live in NYC, so maybe it's different). And if there ever was, and if I was attracted to one, I think it would be difficult to say, "hey, I really want to try this, would you let me suck you?" I think they might feel offended. I posted elsewhere, that I was at a New Year's party, there was a tranny, and at one point I was LITERALLY begged to suck her cock. She was, like, "why would you want to suck my cock?" etc.etc. I really wanted to, but I sensed it was kind of offensive to her, that I just wanted the experience. She sucked my cock for a bit, but would not let me reciprocate. Anyway, just thought I'd ask.... thanks.
 
docisin said:
So, as guy man, I have a question (Str8M, bi-curious). Would you let a guy like me suck your cock, just because I want to? The reason I ask is because I meet a lot of gay men, their "gaydar" tells them I'm str8, and so there really isn't even a conversation (I live in NYC, so maybe it's different). And if there ever was, and if I was attracted to one, I think it would be difficult to say, "hey, I really want to try this, would you let me suck you?" I think they might feel offended. I posted elsewhere, that I was at a New Year's party, there was a tranny, and at one point I was LITERALLY begged to suck her cock. She was, like, "why would you want to suck my cock?" etc.etc. I really wanted to, but I sensed it was kind of offensive to her, that I just wanted the experience. She sucked my cock for a bit, but would not let me reciprocate. Anyway, just thought I'd ask.... thanks.
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Well, think about it for a minute. You concerned about offendng people? How about if you asked the same thing to women? Bi guys? Straight guys?

Anything sexual is going to offend someone. It's an emotionally charged subject. But if you don't ask,they won't tell, will they?
 
CuriousTxGuy said:
Well, think about it for a minute. You concerned about offendng people? How about if you asked the same thing to women? Bi guys? Straight guys?

Anything sexual is going to offend someone. It's an emotionally charged subject. But if you don't ask,they won't tell, will they?
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good point; I'm not really concerned about offending people, I guess the deal is that I'm always surprised when they ARE offended....like the tranny; we were at a swing party, literally hundreds of people there doing everything; you'd think I asked her to loan me some money or something...
 
docisin said:
good point; I'm not really concerned about offending people, I guess the deal is that I'm always surprised when they ARE offended....like the tranny; we were at a swing party, literally hundreds of people there doing everything; you'd think I asked her to loan me some money or something...
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I have to admit I can see a tranny wanting to be treated like a lady. So what.
 
docisin said:
So, as guy man, I have a question (Str8M, bi-curious). Would you let a guy like me suck your cock, just because I want to? The reason I ask is because I meet a lot of gay men, their "gaydar" tells them I'm str8, and so there really isn't even a conversation (I live in NYC, so maybe it's different). And if there ever was, and if I was attracted to one, I think it would be difficult to say, "hey, I really want to try this, would you let me suck you?" I think they might feel offended. I posted elsewhere, that I was at a New Year's party, there was a tranny, and at one point I was LITERALLY begged to suck her cock. She was, like, "why would you want to suck my cock?" etc.etc. I really wanted to, but I sensed it was kind of offensive to her, that I just wanted the experience. She sucked my cock for a bit, but would not let me reciprocate. Anyway, just thought I'd ask.... thanks.
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not straigh, wl jump at the chance, can we kiss b4:kiss:
 
Hitchiker69 said:
I'm of the opinion that we are all naturally bisexual. If we free ourselves of society's rules and limitations we could have sex with any willing partner, regardless of gender. I also think you haven't fully experienced masculinity until you've sex with a man; sucking, fucking, getting fucked...all of it with no limits.
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I have always said I think every one is bisexual. I think its natural. I had an exgf that has had sex with other women in the past and we just got around to talking. She asked if I have ever thought about something / anything with another man and I told her yes but she was the first person I've ever told. Then came the internet and found out I was far from being alone.

Most guys think if you do something with his ass that must make him gay. If guys get that out of their stupid minds (long ago I was that guy too) I think they would see sex differently.
 
Married and bi curious. Been looking up guys dressed in lingerie, or crossdressers, or the ones who look like girls and have boobs and cock. Sorry, new to this. But really has me wanting to try.
 
Me too

So here's my story about being interested in another guys dick. I won't say bi-sexual because I hate the labels society has to give everyone, sexuality is fluid. HA! No pun intended! Giggity!

A year ago or so, I too found myself being drawn to shemale porn, as a curiosity at first. However I quickly realized that I really liked the idea of a big dick with matching big tits! This started a process of dealing with old hurts from past sexual abuse when I was a kid, to feeling that I was robbed of a natural coming of age. Never got to have that experience with a friend while camping, or at a friends pool, etc. Organically occurring experiences.

I started looking for a j/o buddy, but never went through with anything at all. I would love to meet another guy who is looking to sexually explore with another man, but I am married with a kid, so I have to be very cautious. I would like to know if I get any pleasure from being with another man. Because of the abuse, I wanted nothing to do with men in general, but now I have greater perspective about sexuality. There is no gay/straight sex. Sex is about pleasure, that's it. There is nothing wrong with same sex pleasure.

It would be great to get to know some other like mined men (and women too :rose::rose:) and maybe even have a little cyber fun!
 
I've been curious for years. Not a day goes by that I don't dream of wanting to know the feeling of a beautiful hard cock in my hand, wanting to know what it feels like to kiss it and lick it all over. I want to know the feeling of it sliding in and out of my hungry mouth until it fills me with delicious cum. I want to suck balls and have cum flavored lipstick.
I'm 61 mwm in 513. I love panties, hose, and slips. And cocks. xoxo
 
southfl_bicur said:
Most guys think if you do something with his ass that must make him gay. If guys get that out of their stupid minds (long ago I was that guy too) I think they would see sex differently.
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Not just guys. A lot of women have the same attitude. It's like they think we're a threat to them.

Newsflash: Yes, I like both pussy and cock. But that doesn't mean I want to fuck everyone. I do have standards and if I'm already in a committed relationship, just because I'm looking at the menu, doesn't mean I'm going to order anything.
 
Mqoi said:
Not just guys. A lot of women have the same attitude. It's like they think we're a threat to them.

Newsflash: Yes, I like both pussy and cock. But that doesn't mean I want to fuck everyone. I do have standards and if I'm already in a committed relationship, just because I'm looking at the menu, doesn't mean I'm going to order anything.
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But if you don't get an appetizer you will still be hungry.
 
Mqoi said:
Not just guys. A lot of women have the same attitude. It's like they think we're a threat to them.

Newsflash: Yes, I like both pussy and cock. But that doesn't mean I want to fuck everyone. I do have standards and if I'm already in a committed relationship, just because I'm looking at the menu, doesn't mean I'm going to order anything.
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If you are saying "a lot of women have the same attitude" about playing with a guys ass I totally agree. Ive only had 1 gf (actually the one that got me into it) that played with my ass. Some I never ever brought up the subject because I knew how they felt beforehand. I've had a few they might be into it but when we started they stopped IMMEDIATELY and realized it was not their thing. Funny because most of them liked me licking or fucking their asses.

Why? Threat? Maybe...or maybe its cleanliness because when I fuck their ass they are on the receiving end and dont see anything.

or maybe its just not their thing.
 
jp8155 said:
I've been curious for years. Not a day goes by that I don't dream of wanting to know the feeling of a beautiful hard cock in my hand, wanting to know what it feels like to kiss it and lick it all over. I want to know the feeling of it sliding in and out of my hungry mouth until it fills me with delicious cum. I want to suck balls and have cum flavored lipstick.
I'm 61 mwm in 513. I love panties, hose, and slips. And cocks. xoxo
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i know the feeling
 
UnderMyKilt said:
I suppose we all have to live within our own heads. If you're comfortable with it that's fine but I suspect there are many herein who aren't really entirely comfortable with the difference between who they appear to be on the outside, who they are on the inside, and who they really want to be.

Why do the men on this site (or any similar site for that matter) who have an unfulfilled desire to have sex with other men say they are "bi curious"? Why isn't it "gay curious"?

You may be bisexual, I'm bisexual, but you aren't looking to have "bi sex" (unless throwing a woman into the mix for say an MMF). You're looking to have sex with another man, to engage in same sex sexual acts, and that by definition is engaging in gay sexual practices (aka homosexual acts) and there's nothing wrong with that.

Why can't "bi curious" men get over the fact that what they are seeking is not "bi sex" but rather "gay sex"? Sure, I may be quibbling over words but so are you.

So many say something akin to, " I've had these bi curiosities."....as do I though they're not really "curiosities" since I've done it and they aren't "bi" they're gay. I had a long term relationship with a male friend which started early and continued through several years of college. I used to say, think, or at least justify it in my head as a "bisexual relationship" (since we also had girlfriends) but as I grew older I came to grips with the fact that it was a gay relationship.

Those who haven't really experienced it can say, all they want, that they don't want any kind of relationship or personal connection, just sex, and they may get that, but they also may find out they have feelings, and shall we say latent tendencies and orientation, they've suppressed for decades. There's nothing wrong with that, introspection is healthy and self discovery can be wonderful. That said, be willing to be honest with yourself.

I too live a straight life. I too am attracted to women, preferably with big breasts, and I'm married to one I love and with whom I enjoy sex very much. Fortunately, we've always been open with each other, she knows my past and I hers, and she's more than willing to do things to fulfill some of my "less vanilla" (anal) sexual proclivities. I raised four great, now grown, kids and I wouldn't trade that for the world. They probably wouldn't exist if, and at least in part due to my conservative Christian guilt and familial attitudes, I had taken "the path less traveled".

I still have desires. I was probably a hair's breadth away from being exclusively gay at one point in my life. My former friend and lover eventually took that path though he had a sham straight marriage that everyone, including his wife, knew was such. Though I've no complaints about the life I've lead I still get wistful sometimes and wonder, "What if...?"

Which brings me to another brain bender which is the old "nature vs nurture" argument. My first sexual activity (other than just kissing) with another person was literally at the hands of my best male friend and developed into much more. Had it been the other way around, and had my first orgasm with another person been with a woman, would I still have developed these feelings for men?

Was there a chemistry, an aura, a vibe that led my friend to believe I'd be receptive to his advances or was it just by chance? Was that the kind of relationship I really wanted? Did I always have a desire for men (I certainly always had a thing for anal stimulation), or did it become the norm just because once the ice was broken it was convenient and easier than courting women? (Though I've never been without a woman in my life...for long.)

I've been haunted by these doubts and thoughts for decades and thank God I've had an understanding, and kinky, wife to help me through it.

Don't get me wrong, please, I'm not being judgmental I just want people to look inside and be honest with themselves.
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Well, obviously a married guy having cock sucking fantasies is imaging gay sex. But the difference is that married guys who have gay sex fantasies are not necessarily gay in the sense that they are not the full monty gay. They often still want and need to retain heterosexual relationship(s). This is where the bisexual tag comes into play.

Strictly speaking to be bisexual means to be able to be sexually aroused by either men or women, but the circumstances under which such arousal can occur may vary dramatically.

For instance, I am often aroused when I see a hot babe at the grocery store. As a man, I naturally want to look her up and down. (I usually refrain from it out of fear of being offensive, of course.) However, I almost never look at guys while in the mall shopping. I don't "see" guys like that. I can attend a poker game with my buddies from work and never once think, hey, wouldn't it be fun if we all ditched the card game, got naked and fuck?

But put me in at the right bar after a few drinks on the right night and I might well find myself making out with a guy and later going down on him big time. I've been sucking cock all my life.

I am not going to fall in love with a guy and want to marry him. I love my wife and am happily married. Fortunately, she knows I am bisexual and it turns her on, so we share the totality of our sexual lives together.

Bisexuals are capable of having both gay and straight sex, no matter what the identity they present at work or school or to their families.

As for nature versus nurture: For me it is both. By nature I was a super horny kid who was always jacking off and starting circle jerks when I could. So later when someone much more experience taught me about cock sucking, I was OK with it, even though I wasn't really attracted to the male body and worried about being beat up or worse if caught out as queer. I always loved girls. But I was so horny that male to male sex aroused me too. Later, as I became more experienced I began to really appreciate the special kind of feeling only another guy can give. It's a very different sort of love than what a woman can provide.

I remember being in college trying to pick up girls at the local nightclubs. If that failed, and it did more often than not, then there were late late night scenes where I could always get gay sex.

Being bisexual is the best of both worlds. I can't imagine being exclusive gay or straight.
 
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