Marathons & Gutter Burns.

So I'm mining material for my writing. The Naturalist in me spends hours observing homo sapiens copulate, to discover unknown traits and processes, and then compare my notes with what I know fer sure from experience.

And what I observe doesnt match my experience. In fact I wonder how much of the adult entertainment industry is mythology and Disney grade bullshit.

To be fair I have had marathon sex that lasted most of a day. In my youth I could keep an erection for hours. But no female can profit from marathons, becuz her flesh is weak. Fuck too long and she gets gutter burns in her whoopee wazoo. A thick bush does the same to the male.

You're not alone. There's a lot of talk about how men expect crazy impossible shit from sex because of what they see in porn films. And some guys do-- but most guys know that a fantasy is a fantasy no matter how much they might wish it were true.

In the same vein, people worry about how women might want crazy impossible shit from reading romance novels. Most women, however, know that men do not read minds.

I don't think that you can learn much from porn videos, about human mating habits. Porn is designed to show the camera, what's happening, but most of erotica is what is happening in the mind.

Now go wash you hands and start writing about the Gated Ladies. Of the three projects you proposed the other day, the Gated Ladies sounded like your best bet, rather than the sluts in Tampa's strip.

Stella_Omega said:

Most women, however, know that men do not read minds.

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Holy shit. I think we missed the memo...

Stella_Omega said:

You're not alone. There's a lot of talk about how men expect crazy impossible shit from sex because of what they see in porn films. And some guys do-- but most guys know that a fantasy is a fantasy no matter how much they might wish it were true.

In the same vein, people worry about how women might want crazy impossible shit from reading romance novels. Most women, however, know that men do not read minds.

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All of us expect crazzee impossible shit, be it jobs with MLB or the NFL, or a dozen bestseller novels, or winning the lottery.

Guys approach everything the same way they approach fishing: check the weather, and the tides, and the lunar cycle, use the right bait, and wait patiently.

JackLuis said:

I don't think that you can learn much from porn videos, about human mating habits. Porn is designed to show the camera, what's happening, but most of erotica is what is happening in the mind.

Now go wash you hands and start writing about the Gated Ladies. Of the three projects you proposed the other day, the Gated Ladies sounded like your best bet, rather than the sluts in Tampa's strip.

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Youre right about the gated ladies, theres gold in it I'm thinkin. In fact just the other day I helped a golden girl load her car with bagged topsoil. Then she baits her hook with, MEN ARE USEFUL MEBBE I OUGHTA GET ME ONE. In one of my stories a knight in shining armor hands his pistol to the damsel in distress, and says, YOU CAN SHOOT ME IF I GET TO BE A PROBLEM. Her car was kaput, and he was offering a ride back to town.

Porn vids are useful if you wanna note physiology and costume and such things. Like, I notice that black men almost always play in their cum, white men almost never do it. Black men bring a lot of aggression to sex, white men not so much.

That's because white cum is photogenic against black skin, so the directors ask them to do that. It sells the film.

Stella_Omega said:

That's because white cum is photogenic against black skin, so the directors ask them to do that. It sells the film.

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What a fascinating insight. (Seriously.)

Richard Dyer's White is an excellent account of the ways in which black people are misrepresented in visual arts, from the lighting in films being set up to flatter the tones of white skin, to the way in which black female figures in art are used just to provide background which offsets luminescently painted tones of white skin, a casual example I picked quickly off the net here:



Do black male studs get used in this way in porn?

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That's because white cum is photogenic against black skin, so the directors ask them to do that. It sells the film.

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But white guys rarely do it. White guys aim for the mouth, back, or tummy, and the ladies play in it.

You never see cum-snot dripping from noses, either.

JackLuis said:

I don't think that you can learn much from porn videos, about human mating habits. Porn is designed to show the camera, what's happening, but most of erotica is what is happening in the mind.

Now go wash you hands and start writing about the Gated Ladies. Of the three projects you proposed the other day, the Gated Ladies sounded like your best bet, rather than the sluts in Tampa's strip.

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Write what you know! I know gated ladies. I know project ladies, I know the galz in the trailer courts. And I know the ladies who live in ACLF dorms.

The ACLF girls would be interesting, too. They dial 911 and threaten suicide to get some action with cops, firemen, and ward orderlies. A trip to the crisis hospital almost always gets a man.

I submitted a Mature story, and have since composed anuther one. A matron-widow loses her money when the housing market crashes, and she eventually opts to sell her wares via an outcall website. Plenty of guys like older galz. But on one of her liaisons she collides with the young vicar from her church, and the rectors wife. Sallys a member of the church vestry, and hates the wife and vicar. But the cat is now outta the bag.
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