Do women like Porn?

Patchouli said:

something i've never understood about porn...why all the focus on men ejaculating? and why do they rarely show women climaxing? i think if they showed men ejaculating less and women cumming more, it would be way hotter and a lot less misogynistic. i mean, shouldn't it be hotter for men to see women cumming (faked most of the time, i'm sure-but better than nothing) than to watch some hairy guy rubbing himself off on her tits?

to me, this is the most degrading aspect of porn.

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Showing a woman orgasming on camera is kind of hard. There isn't really any giant, flashing sign you can film well. Besides, I get cum on all the time and I certainly don't find it degrading. It's just so wasteful. If STD screening were quick and easy, I'd much rather swallow. Sexual juices are more nutritious than half the things the average person eats in a day.

Patchouli said:

something i've never understood about porn...why all the focus on men ejaculating? and why do they rarely show women climaxing? i think if they showed men ejaculating less and women cumming more, it would be way hotter and a lot less misogynistic. i mean, shouldn't it be hotter for men to see women cumming (faked most of the time, i'm sure-but better than nothing) than to watch some hairy guy rubbing himself off on her tits?

to me, this is the most degrading aspect of porn.

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It's quite simple, really. Most porn is created by men for men, and whether they're willing to admit it or not, many men--even if they identify as straight--are all about the cock.

Eilan said:

It's quite simple, really. Most porn is created by men for men, and whether they're willing to admit it or not, many men--even if they identify as straight--are all about the cock.

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lol.

i didn't mean to imply that being cum on is degrading per se, i just meant the sheer quantity of cum shots in porn, coupled with the lack of attention to the equivalent experience for women is kinda degrading. i see it as being kinda like being in a relationship with a guy who always cums, but doesn't care if you do.

i've just never understood why there wasn't more of a focus on it in porn. i mean, you would think that would be an enormous turn on for a guy, seeing a woman cum. it wouldn't be that difficult to have the actress fake it, after all.

i don't know, just a thought i have...

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? Alone, sometimes watch it while talking to a special someone over voice chat.
Online or rent DVDs? Mostly online but I do have a few select DVD's in my collection.
How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? Pretty comfortable
What genres of porn do you find appealing? Mainly the more kinky stuff. The more vanilla porn is just boring and seems very very fake.
What genres do you hate? Any watersports or scat and Im not a huge fan of straight fucking, gotta have some spice. Oh also I hate blowjob vids where the girl actually gags, ick.
What directors, stars do you like? Dont really have favourites, whatever catches my mood at the time
Do you think porn is misogynous? What about women-made porn? Not hatred (as I understand the term misogynous) but definitely some of it isnt respectful. But those are the ones I like best
Can porn be called sex-positive? I guess it can be, but not the stuff I watch.
Can porn teach use anything? I have learnt a few techniques I didnt know, and things I hadnt tried.
Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? Oh its most definitaly this as well
Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? I have one porn guide DVD 'Penny Flame's guide to Rough Sex' and I love it.
Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? No.
What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? I havent but I probably would

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? It's a pleasure either way.

Online or rent DVDs? Um.. yes. Why is "purchase DVD's" not an option?

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? As comfortable as they are with watching it with me.

What genres of porn do you find appealing? M/F and F/F... mostly what passes as "vanilla" although if kidnapping and tying up are in the storyline, I don't usually complain

What genres do you hate? No matter how many time's I've tried... I cannot say that m/m is as hot as f/f.

What directors, stars do you like? My favorite is Sasha Grey - although not necessarily her roles in porn. I appreciate that as a young woman she has embraced her industry and pushed her way into the limelight through active and selective campaigns and appearances.

Do you think porn is misogynous? What about women-made porn? I think porn is as degrading to men as it is to women. It tends to depict all women as ready-made beauties, and all men as overweight, out of work truck drivers.

Can porn be called sex-positive? I would say yes, because no matter what you're into... there is porn of it. Just goes to show you're not the only sick fucker out there, you're part of a whole group!

Can porn teach use anything? Nothing is sacred, not even politics or religion.

Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? I've never heard the term "jill-off". Huh. I'll have to give that one a try. In answer to the question... Yes.

Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? No. To quote a great man... "Eets Juss Fo Fun."

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? It has been considered, and may or may not have already been done.

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? Batman XXX is AWESOME!

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? - both
Online or rent DVDs? - online mostly (why pay for it when it's free)
How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? - very comfortable
What genres of porn do you find appealing? - couples and comedys
What genres do you hate? - mother-child incest
What directors, stars do you like? - Kayden Kross is my favorite actress. I really like Stormy Daniels as a Director.
Do you think porn is misogynous? What about women-made porn?
Can porn be called sex-positive? - I think it's good because it offers visualizations of fantasies and creative ideas for people.
Can porn teach use anything? - I've learned much from what I've seen. Just pay attention to the way they do things that you like.
Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? - I've used it that way too.
Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? - yes
Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? - have done a few but I don't share them!
What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? - I do like these. I like the Scooby Doo one (Fred finally fucks Daphne!!!)

I have known

I have known many women who love porn.
And who enjoy porn, sharing watching with guys

Porn...not so much. Erotica yes. If I have to explain the difference it prolly wouldn't matter IF I explained the difference.

DominaDoll said:

I am writing an article on women and their enjoyment (or not) of porn. I watch a lot of porn for review and basically find that mainstream porn for the most part is pretty lame. But, just my opinion. I tend to watch a lot of Altporn, kinky porn and woman's made porn and enjoy those very much. Most of this is independent and not mainstream fare.

Feminists at one time thought porn was misogynous, and that "pornography is violence against women." Some can be crude but a lot are ok.

I am wondering if women watch porn what do they like and why? If you don't watch porn why? I would love to hear both sides of the story. Hmmm good question... Hard to say what I like... I like talking about sex in general and seeing what other people/partner think about things and what everyones different ideas/fantasies are about.

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? I can watch it with anyone... but I enjoy it which my lover... or my best friend (non-sexual... we discuss it hahaha)
Online or rent DVDs? Whatever...
How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? Hehe again I just don't get fazed by anything really...
What genres of porn do you find appealing? Depends on the purpose... if it has a storyline it had better be a decent one... Either the storyline has to follow a particular interest of mine, or it has something worth talking about, or something worth trying... so IDK about genre per se
What genres do you hate? Uhm the only thing I don't like are spoofs which answer the later question
What directors, stars do you like? Sorry no clue... I don't watch it that much... only when it comes up...
Do you think porn is misogynous? What about women-made porn? No, and yes it's good... sometimes.
Can porn be called sex-positive? Definately
Can porn teach use anything? Definitely.. thats my main use
Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? Nope... and I don't ever really remember ever watching it alone.
Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? I just watch anything for ideas... I'm creative enough when I chillax hehe
Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? Yep
What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? Nope

All comments & genders welcome!

Thanks,
Domina Doll

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Yep that's all I got.

Fmature2play said:

Porn...not so much. Erotica yes. If I have to explain the difference it prolly wouldn't matter IF I explained the difference.

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Just caught this comment... totally agree to this to.

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Do you watch it alone of with a lover? Yes

Online or rent DVDs? Online only

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? Depends on who it is.

What genres of porn do you find appealing? I like stuff that seems realistic. I don't like women with fake, big boobs. I don't like it when the girl seems to only want to give the guy a BJ, and don't want themselves taken care of. I like a story behind it, especially if the acting is decent. I like hetero, lesbian, threesomes. I especially like older couples seducing "teens".

What genres do you hate? Contrived, fake scenarios. Don't really like guy/guy.

What directors, stars do you like? Don't really know many names very well.

Do you think porn is misogynous? No

What about women-made porn? I usually don't know who made it.

Can porn be called sex-positive? yes

Can porn teach us anything? Absolutely.

Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? It's both.

Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? Nope

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? I don't think so. I don't want my image out there for others to see.

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? They generally seem pretty badly made. They are good for a laugh, but I don't find myself getting turned on by them.

I've had a few girlfriends in the past that enjoyed porn - unfortunately I never really got around to watching any with them

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? Alone
Online or rent DVDs? Online
How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? Somewhat
What genres of porn do you find appealing? Lesbian, homemade, cpls, threesomes, age difference.
What genres do you hate? Extremes like bathroom or likewise
What directors, stars do you like? Dont know any
Do you think porn is misogynous? What about women-made porn? idk
Can porn be called sex-positive? Maybe
Can porn teach use anything? Society is messed up
Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? No
Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? No
Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? Maybe
What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? No

I am wondering if women watch porn what do they like and why?
I personally love it. I like to watch it every time I masturbate. And I like all types, depends on my mood. I hate soft core though....

Do you watch it alone of with a lover?
Both

Online or rent DVDs?
Never rent. Only online or own some, but rarely watch. Rather watch online.

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover?
Very. Some things I still keep to myself cause I don't know what he'd think about it.

What genres of porn do you find appealing?
Anal, oral, DP, Lesbian, and more.

What genres do you hate?
Dunno, I'm not racist, I have tons of friends of all races, but I don't like black women in porn. Black men are fine. But not women. I don't know why, I just don't find it attractive. Same with Chinese...I don't like excessive gagging and stuff like that either

What directors, stars do you like?
Not sure off the top of my head.

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn?
Yeah, without my face in it lol

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these?
I would love to watch spoofs, they'd be hilarious. I've seen some that are spoofs of little red riding hood and Snow White...those are hilarious, I don't get off on them though. Just to see and laugh at.

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? Mostly alone

Online or rent DVDs? Both

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? We've tried it, but felt silly doing it

What genres of porn do you find appealing? I like lesbian porn mostly, sometimes BDSM or fetish videos are interesting, like creampie porn. LOL!

What genres do you hate? Point-of-View and amateur.

What directors, stars do you like? No preference

Do you think porn is misogynous? No

What about women-made porn? I'm not prejudice.

Can porn be called sex-positive? Absolutely, as long as your sexual relationships are positive. Communication is important and communicating about sex is HUGE.

Can porn teach us anything? Porn is all about self-discovery. What you want, what feels good, etc.

Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? Both

Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? No

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? Been there, done that

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? I own one *not one listed* and it is hilarious.

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Do you watch it alone of with a lover?
I watch porn alone. For some reason I feel shy watching it with a lover.

Online or rent DVDs?
I watch free porn online. I can't imagine spending money on porn.

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover?
I get really shy when watching with my lover. But I will send him porn clips and we will comment on it. But we are never in the same room watching and enjoying porn.

What genres of porn do you find appealing?
I like Lesbian and porn that reminds me of my lover

What genres do you hate?
I don't like watching gay porn or anything that looks like violence.

What directors, stars do you like?
I like BellaDonna.

Do you think porn is misogynous? What about women-made porn?
No, I think the industry has come a long way over the years.

Can porn be called sex-positive?
It can be sex positive once you have a clear understanding beforehand that porn is not reality. Its all fantasy.

Can porn teach use anything?
I've learned a great deal. I've learned aout oral sex and not being ashamed of my body.

Or is it merely jill/jack-off material?
No, it can be used to educate some people on what to do in the bedroom.

Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides?
yes I have...

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn?
Sure..why not

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these?
No, I really have never watched an entire movie...so cares about the plot or the basis for the movie. I watch for the sex.

This thread is awesome. The answers seem to be more open and honest than I would have expected. !GREAT idea! THANKS Domina Doll!

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? Both

Online or rent DVDs? I've never paid money for it

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? It can be really hot

What genres of porn do you find appealing? Lots of stuff - homemade is hot, all kinds of amateur stuff, rough stuff, blowjobs, anal (only when it's done well and not pornstar anal). Some more kinky stuff that I won't mention.

What genres do you hate? Generally any pornstar stuff.

What directors, stars do you like? No idea

Do you think porn is misogynous? No

What about women-made porn? Doesn't make a great deal of difference to me

Can porn be called sex-positive? Wha?

Can porn teach us anything? Well the amateur stuff has shown me what people really do in sex (like rubbing a guy's ass, rimming, playing with his balls)

Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? Not sure what that means

Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? No

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? I have done in the past, but my former partners have those. I hope they're being responsible.

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? I haven't seen any, but they sound dull

Ex Princess said:

Do you watch it alone of with a lover? Mostly alone

Online or rent DVDs? Both

How comfortable are you watching porn with your lover? We've tried it, but felt silly doing it

What genres of porn do you find appealing? I like lesbian porn mostly, sometimes BDSM or fetish videos are interesting, like creampie porn. LOL!

What genres do you hate? Point-of-View and amateur.

What directors, stars do you like? No preference

Do you think porn is misogynous? No

What about women-made porn? I'm not prejudice.

Can porn be called sex-positive? Absolutely, as long as your sexual relationships are positive. Communication is important and communicating about sex is HUGE.

Can porn teach us anything? Porn is all about self-discovery. What you want, what feels good, etc.

Or is it merely jill/jack-off material? Both

Do you ever watch educational porn to learn a new technique, like Nina Hartley's Guides? No

Would you ever consider making your own DIY porn? Been there, done that

What about porn spoofs (Star Trek, the Bradys, Twilight) have you or would you watch these? I own one *not one listed* and it is hilarious.

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Very similar, but I also enjoy simple erotic, the written word, slow seduction with men although a preference for lesbian relationships. There is something highly erotic when two women make love/sex.