siobhansmut
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well im a tranny so maybe you dont count my opinion. But i love it, and know several genetic females who do to.
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Honestly I will say I love it when my S/O takes control! It's so incredibly hot when uses that control to push me and I ended up with some insane orgasms as a result.I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!
"When she's abandoned her moral center and teachings...when she's cast aside her facade of propriety and lady-like demeanor...when I have so corrupted this fragile thing and brought out a writhing, mewling, bucking, wanton whore for my enjoyment and pleasure.....enticing from within this feral lioness...growling and scratching and biting...taking everything I dish out to her.....at that moment she is never more beautiful to me. ” Marquis de Sade
I LOVE this quote. I found it on another site and it really applies well here!
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This. As a submissive, just reading this sent a wave of pleasure through my body. It encapsulates the trust that goes into a BDSM relationship coupled with the deep desire to dominate/submit.
I have often wondered how many women really like to be taken forcefully with the man in control.
My wife is not normally into S/M or anything like it, but sometimes I take her quite forcefully holding her hands over her head while fucking her and sucking and biting her tits and when she sits on top of me I grab her hips and ass very hard and force her down on my cock - and when we have done this she says afterwards that it was really good to be taken like that and to be without control.
Ihave had a similar experience with an earlier girlfriend, who normally liked it very gentle and soft, but sometimes got off really hard when I took command.
I would like to hear from both men and women your experiences and whether or not this would be an indication of her wanting more in that direction - and how I go about it - your help will be appreciated.
You can either send me a private message or give your opinion here - Thanks!
so the, just go for it.For me, I love it, it's a rare occasion, but it makes me feel super sexy that he cant wait to get inside of me. Very empowering. She enjoyed it then, she likes it. She may be too nervous to actually tell you. I'm just now getting the courage to tell hubby that I am curious about some aspects of BDSM. He was really shocked. So ask her. I find communication is soooo key to mutual sexual expression.
Wrapping my hand around her throat just tightly enough and as I move deeply into her, "whose are you?"...hearing the gasped reply, "yours"...so erotic every time...
I will give my opinion, though, about WHY many women like to be taken forcefully. Wanting, craving, needing to be taken forcefully by a man who is physically stronger and/or bigger and/or meaner than we are... is something that's hard wired into our female primitive brain.
Because that's the way early man mated with us since man and woman began. We had to be chased down and taken forcefully, because perhaps we had seen what the males did to other females while mating with them and didn't want any part of it. We had probably seen other females die in childbirth and we probably knew by early childhood that pregnancy would slow a female down when she had to get away fast from predators.
But the main reason was that we wanted to mate with the strongest, the fastest and the most forceful dominant male, was to insure that we would bear strong children that might have a better chance to survive.
Males that couldn't catch us when we ran away, couldn't find us when we were hiding, those who were not strong enough to overpower us and fuck us whether we liked it or not, were obviously going to be poor mates who's offspring would be weak. Because we invested so very much in a pregnancy, it could be life threatening to allow such a male to mate with us.
And so that instinct is still hard wired into our primitive brain. Though we may think we just like it for no reason, there is an underlying reason, instinct.
Wrapping my hand around her throat just tightly enough and as I move deeply into her, "whose are you?"...hearing the gasped reply, "yours"...so erotic every time...
But I have generally been of the opinion that experience with simulated violence in sex brings out physiological responses that likely have a biological and instinctual origin. Men and women both I suspect have a primitive programming where violence and sex intersect.
I'm not sure I have much unique to add to this discussion, but, personally, I favor strong, aggressive men who know what they want and go for it. Like another poster here said, most of my male partners have taken me forcefully to a greater or lesser degree and it seems normal to me. Whether it's residual in our characters from mating practices of millions of years ago I don't know, but I would guess it is. In any case, it does demonstrate the kind of mate I prefer. Also, I have always gotten a great deal of pleasure from providing pleasure, and that has a very wide range of possibilities.
I'm not sure I have much unique to add to this discussion, but, personally, I favor strong, aggressive men who know what they want and go for it. Like another poster here said, most of my male partners have taken me forcefully to a greater or lesser degree and it seems normal to me. Whether it's residual in our characters from mating practices of millions of years ago I don't know, but I would guess it is. In any case, it does demonstrate the kind of mate I prefer. Also, I have always gotten a great deal of pleasure from providing pleasure, and that has a very wide range of possibilities.
I agree! Nothing hotter than my man letting go of his inhibitions and taking what he wants just the way he wants it.
I agree! Nothing hotter than my man letting go of his inhibitions and taking what he wants just the way he wants it.
Ultimately, it depends on the person. With submissive personalities you will get certain people who will bite their lips and feel their knees tremble at the thought of being taken forcefully, while others may prefer to be doing the taking or those that won't stand for it at all. In the case of a submissive, and to be honest a majority of women, I have yet to meet one who hasn't had one fantasy in which their partner is in complete control and their body is used and just ohh, it's quite wonderful if it is for you