Dragonteeth
Ask me, I just MIGHT...
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nymphee said:Sorry, my original post probably sounded really unpleasant- I wasn't meaning to imply that i don't want to mix with older people or that it's worse when you're younger, I'm more worried about people's reactions. I've known I've been this way since I was old enough to understand what it was, even when I was little I knew there was something different about me, but the few people "in the scene" that I do know are much older and think it's odd that I am so au fait with it. I don't want people to think I am just playing around, or going along because I want to be different or grown up.
OK, I'm not at all sure how old you are, I could look at your profile but frankly it doesn't make ay difference.
Firstly You are not alone...
I was a lot like you for many years...
I know the sort of things that turned me on and I had been brought up to belive that any relationship required "equality" which was generally understood to mean you didn't tie your girlfriend up and hit her...
I had a REALLY hard time equating my Upbringing with my sexuality.
It was so wonderfull to discover that there were actually other peopl who shared my "kinkiness", not only that but there were girls out there who wanted to be tied up and hit or dominated in other ways...
Secondly, it's a bit like jumping in the swimming pool.
You wait and wait watching everyone else having fun. Sooner or later you have to get into the water. You screw up your courage and jump in...
A few minutes later you're just having fun and you wonder what the problem was...
It looks like a big step but it's not so bad after you take it.