Warning: intense and "not for the faint of heart" I think part of what I really like about BDSM is the ability to conquer my fears in a sexual way, and I've always had a fear of being burned. I remember the pain being so incredible when accidentally touching the stove as a child, and it's always the most intense sensation of pain that I want to chase in my BDSM play.
It seems that there's relatively little pornography and discussion out there that involves erotic burning, with the exception of wax play. The BDSM artwork of the artist "Damian" depicts women being tortured with hot irons, and I find it incredibly erotic, but the scenes depicted are entirely non-consensual and too extreme to practice... on the other hand, the wax and fire play I have seen in bdsm films never seems to go far enough to be profoundly exciting to me, whereas there's plenty of whipping, piercing and breast bondage that goes too far in my opinion.
Perhaps to find out for myself, or perhaps just because I was drunk and wanted to feel anything to continue my "buzz" I decided to burn my right nipple with a lighter about a week ago. I clipped it in a type of hair clip that allowed me to tug it away from my body but keep the tip of the nipple exposed, and I tortured it with the flame until part of it turned bright pink and a tiny layer of skin sloughed off... As disgusting and horrifying as that sounds, I have been shocked by the amount of pleasure this burn has brought me. My right nipple is incredibly sensitive and brings me some of the most intense pleasure I'm capable of feeling. I had a fear that I would lose sensation and sensitivity there as a result of the burn, but I have been pleasantly surprised (and confused) by the discovery that my nipple seems to be becoming an even more sensitive pleasure-giver as a result of the burn. The constant pain it produces feels like a constant pleasure for some reason, and as the scab has formed and begun to come off, the healed nipple underneath the scab feels even more precious, even more sensitive when I touch it. You'll catch me with my hand under my shirt now and it's hard to regret this act of self-destruction, even though I'm fighting hard to stay sober these days and probably would not have done it sober...
Has anyone else burned themselves or someone else badly enough to form a scab or blister and found that the victim took great pleasure from the burn, as I have? Is this normal? Clearly not, but I'm curious to hear whether it makes sense to others in the BDSM community, or if I'm just a freak.
It seems that there's relatively little pornography and discussion out there that involves erotic burning, with the exception of wax play. The BDSM artwork of the artist "Damian" depicts women being tortured with hot irons, and I find it incredibly erotic, but the scenes depicted are entirely non-consensual and too extreme to practice... on the other hand, the wax and fire play I have seen in bdsm films never seems to go far enough to be profoundly exciting to me, whereas there's plenty of whipping, piercing and breast bondage that goes too far in my opinion.
Perhaps to find out for myself, or perhaps just because I was drunk and wanted to feel anything to continue my "buzz" I decided to burn my right nipple with a lighter about a week ago. I clipped it in a type of hair clip that allowed me to tug it away from my body but keep the tip of the nipple exposed, and I tortured it with the flame until part of it turned bright pink and a tiny layer of skin sloughed off... As disgusting and horrifying as that sounds, I have been shocked by the amount of pleasure this burn has brought me. My right nipple is incredibly sensitive and brings me some of the most intense pleasure I'm capable of feeling. I had a fear that I would lose sensation and sensitivity there as a result of the burn, but I have been pleasantly surprised (and confused) by the discovery that my nipple seems to be becoming an even more sensitive pleasure-giver as a result of the burn. The constant pain it produces feels like a constant pleasure for some reason, and as the scab has formed and begun to come off, the healed nipple underneath the scab feels even more precious, even more sensitive when I touch it. You'll catch me with my hand under my shirt now and it's hard to regret this act of self-destruction, even though I'm fighting hard to stay sober these days and probably would not have done it sober...
Has anyone else burned themselves or someone else badly enough to form a scab or blister and found that the victim took great pleasure from the burn, as I have? Is this normal? Clearly not, but I'm curious to hear whether it makes sense to others in the BDSM community, or if I'm just a freak.
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