Women's fantasies

Prof_Emma said:

I imagine the answer to that question is as diverse as the women who might reply. It is true that some of my fantasies -- especially the ones that, ah, inspire me when I have the time and privacy to self-pleasure -- are more extreme than what I think I would find pleasurable/enjoyable in real life. On the other hand, I would really, really like to experience some of my heretofore-unrealized fantasies. A girl can dream….

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birdy_sw said:

To answer your question. Yes, some of my masturbation fantasy goes beyond what i would do in real life but it might have already been done by somebody else. I hope they enjoy it.

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jodylee said:

For the longest time, I didn't really have fantasies. Interestingly enough, I often cheated on my boyfriends that I had when I didn't fantasize. It wasn't until I met my now-husband, that I feel I have been able to "open up" to myself and my mind, and not feel guilty. I would say yes, I do fantasize about activities way beyond what would be realistic, and perhaps (well, I think the reality is incredibly slim - he's the right person for me, really!) this mental "release" keeps me enjoying and fulfilled in my real relationship. We do a fair bit of mutual masturbation too, so verbalizing the fantasies adds to both of our experiences.

I don't think my fantasies are off-the-wall, but they do include sharing my partner with other women, him inviting a friend (or stranger) over for fun, us seducing someone (a willing participant, nothing horrible) together, and some public fun fantasies too.

I think our favorite "theme" is treating hubby to a sexy friend with me, in which we really draw out the teasing and foreplay, and he coaches me (with lots of him "modelling" the behaviour on her) on how to give her fantastic pleasure. He had at least one threesome with two women before meeting me, and I remember being almost explosive with lust when he told me about it. Hot!

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lvs2lck said:

This is to the women please...

Are your masturbation fantasies way beyond what you would do in real life, because it is safe, you can maintain control?

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amberlove said:

I've had fantasies of myself sleeping alone in cabin, when a hot stranger sneaks into my room and starts undressing me. He sees my big tits and starts to suck on nipples. He unzips his pants and gently rubs his big dick on my clit. He gets turned on, starts jacking off and cums all over my tits. I suddenly wake up with my vagina so wet. I see his big dick dripping with cum and I suck and swallow what's left of it.

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alexx_is said:

I don't think I can answer to that with yes or no. Like a lot of other women, I often fantasize about multiple guys and given the "right" circumstances I'd love to do it in real life too... That being said, in real life I've never felt like 1 guy is not enough, I've never found myself wishing there were more guys around while having sex, so I'm not sure how I'd handle it (that's the good thing about liking being controlled though - I wouldn't have to handle anything because I'd be the one handled, right? )
I also sometimes fantasize about meeting some guy from here, going to a fancy hotel for a night of wild sex we'd been discussing - also, under the right circumstances, I'd totally do it.
And another fantasy that's sometimes popping up is being with a girl, which, again, I'm more than willing to explore someday...

To summarize - knowing myself, I always find a way to get what I want/wish for/fantasize about, which probably makes me fantasize only about things I'd be happy to actually do, which probably means the answer to your question is, after all, no, my fantasies are not way beyond what I'd do.

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SandraMustard said:

This has been a game we have both played on each other: being tied up in bed, naked, and blindfolded. The other claims to have several people waiting to have their way with the helpless one. Opening doors, speaking in altered voices, and directing the 'stranger' to do things, all create the suggestive situation that drives the helpless spouse delirious.

Just a few weeks ago, my husband told me that since we now have an open marriage, he was going to surprise me some day with real multiple partners. The idea has been driving me crazy.

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gabriel16 said:

And enjoying what is here.

And wondering why it is not more populated!

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SandraMustard said:

Just a few weeks ago, my husband told me that since we now have an open marriage, he was going to surprise me some day with real multiple partners. The idea has been driving me crazy.

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CeasarBoobage said:

I've thought of playing with this idea, but slightly different. While there is no 'open' stuff going on, I think having an MP3 recording of multiple men talking while the wifey is blindfolded would be fun for her. Maybe this could be a new thread idea for someone wanting to safely tweak their partner's mind. A SRP script to follow could be entertaining!

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twister947 said:

Either women do not fantasize as actively as men, or they are not willing to talk about it. After a lifetime of trying to draw them out, I have yet to get any play on the topic.

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