The Power Of Blow Jobs

TwoShades said:

Return the favor? You mean there are some out there who don't FUCKING LOVE licking pussy??

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Marci_M said:

I sure hope you return the favor. If I suck a lover and he won't return the favor, I won't suck him again. Fair is fair.

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ChelleD1 said:

For me giving head is my chance to show my man how much I adore him. In that moment it is all about him and what he loves. It may be a quick one after I tease him for a bit and pull him into a secluded spot when we're out, or a long intense edging one if we're able to take our time. Knowing that I have this big, beautiful, Alpha male begging and moaning, that the immense pleasure he's feeling is all due to my tender or aggressive ministrations is a very powerful feeling.

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JoeyKicks said:

I would say I eat her pussy 10 times for each blowjob I get.

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Marci_M said:

Joey, will you marry me for just a few months?

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sterculius said:

I love sucking cock and I LOVE "being" a cocksucker!!! I feel extremely empowered whenever I'm on my knees with a thick cock fucking my throat!!! It's kind of like in "Star Wars" when Darth Vader is light saber dueling and is feeding off his opponents anger. That's how I feel about giving blowjobs. I'm able to absorb the sexual energy of the guy whose cock I'm sucking! I'm able to suppress my gag reflex so that I can allow the guy to very aggressively fuck my throat! The harder he does it the better I like it! And when he finally cums in my mouth, by swallowing his cum I ingest and assimilate the power of his orgasm!! Afterward they feel drained but I feel victorious!!

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freckledvixen said:

I do it quite often, and I always get what I want You're so right! It is very empowering, because once you have a man in that state, as Artfan said, he will do anything you ask him to do.

Great thread!

My man and I haven't been out on a real date in a long time, and I am getting bored! So last night I spontaneously got on my knees, pulled him out and began my work. All the while I got him to agree to take me out to this new expensive Italian restaurant that just opened up near us tonight! I love Italian food! And sucking his dick

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eroticspank said:

My ex wife was that way and really hated giving blowjobs on her knees because she felt it was subservient.

Years after my divorce I met this girl in Hawaii. We met right outside a bar and after an hour or so of talking I felt very comfortable around her. We really hit it off so we went to my hotel room.

It did not take long and soon she was giving me a blowjob. I had never had a REALLY good blowjob my entire life up until that night. I came very hard into her mouth and we went out for about a year whenever I was in town.

Now here is the part most people find unbelievable. We never had sex. She just gave me blowjobs the entire time. We kissed, made out, and I even was over at her apartment, laying around naked together. But she never let me fuck her or go down on her.

Your typical guys' wet dream right? No. It was frustrating for me because I wanted more. I tried to talk her about it and she just told me it was not going to happen. Somehow, every time she gave me a blowjob, I felt like she was controlling me, using her skills to control me. If I complained about something, pouted, etc, she would give me a BJ and I would fall in line like a Steppford Husband, my head down and "Yes Dear..." came from my lips. I did whatever she said, and it took me a while to realize I was not happy and get out of the relationship.

Now, 30 years later I am not led around by my dick, but I can clearly see how it happened and how easily I was controlled. You would think my experience turned me off to that kind of play. But today I am a Switch and I find the concept HOT both as a sub and Dom in the bedroom, and it is part of my fantasy life.

ES

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CitriusMonkey said:

Hate to burst your bubble, but you were getting sucked off my a chick with dick.

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eroticspank said:

I am not surprised. There is always someone who says this above. Perhaps the analogy is that IF a guy just likes giving a woman oral sex and nothing else, there is something wrong with him too? Maybe a woman trapped in a man's body?

"We never had sex. She just gave me blowjobs the entire time. We kissed, made out, and I even was over at her apartment, laying around naked together. But she never let me fuck her or go down on her."

Anyway, as you can see from my original comments above, we did lay around naked together and when we first met I did put my finger in her pussy, but that is as far as I ever got. But I know there are still people who refuse to believe me and don't believe this person was a woman, saying maybe she just had an operation etc. I know what happened, since I was there. But I do understand there are those who will never believe me. The main point, is about the power of blowjobs and she was very good at them and had that power.



ES

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joan_the_bone said:

I really enjoy giving head. I love the feeling of power I get when I make a man come with my mouth. I know some other women find it distasteful and even subservient. I am just the opposite. I know many of us have used that power over men to persuade them to do things that WE want. When I was in college I was in a healthcare related program and 5 of us were failing our chemistry class. One of my friends cut a deal to blow the teacher in exchange for all 5 of us getting an A. One blow job 5 A's. Sounds like a powerful gift of persuasion to me. So girls (or guys ?) tell me your stories of oral empowerment.I do have a few more great stories I can relate.
Joan

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thewill said:

To make my man hard then work him. Slowly suck him deep and using my tongue on his shaft then suddenly stop. He will always beg me to continue, that is when I know I am in charge

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kaitlyn_sun said:

I... how do I put this...

I got my first car this way.

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Redrosewitch said:

I love the power of giving a bj too. I'm generally submissive but hubby loves me taking charge in bed sometimes.

I've had him tied to the bed and teased him, watching his cock harden and leak precum. I stroke him for a while then stop, to play with myself. Then I fuck him, but don't let him come. Finally when he's begging I take him in my mouth and suck and lick him until he comes down my throat.

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_HockeyDude_ said:

Hey, car salesmen are vicious. You have to use whatever tools are available to you!

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joan_the_bone said:

I really enjoy giving head. I love the feeling of power I get when I make a man come with my mouth. I know some other women find it distasteful and even subservient. I am just the opposite. I know many of us have used that power over men to persuade them to do things that WE want. When I was in college I was in a healthcare related program and 5 of us were failing our chemistry class. One of my friends cut a deal to blow the teacher in exchange for all 5 of us getting an A. One blow job 5 A's. Sounds like a powerful gift of persuasion to me. So girls (or guys ?) tell me your stories of oral empowerment.I do have a few more great stories I can relate.
Joan

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ILoveSquatsGirl said:

I love being in charge. I love taking my tiny little hands and squeezing a tight grip on my man's cock and being in complete control of him and then making him do whatever I please because he knows he'll gets the best blowjobs from me.

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