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05-18-2012, 05:51 AM
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Aberveen is offline
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Should I buy a dildo?
For a few months now I've fantasized about the idea of sucking a cock, but it's never been to the point of actually wanting to go through with it in a real life situation.
So I figured "well i could get a dildo and see what that's like?"
I am hung up on a few things though.
1 I feel kind "silly" with the idea of shopping for a dildo online
and 2. I'm not the only person in my house, so I'd rather keep things discreet, what with people being excessively judgmental and all...
It may not be the real deal, but i feel like it could be a comfortable way to play around with this fantasy. Just feel kinda hesitant about owning one.
questions, comments, concerns, and of course jokes! feel free!
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James 4
New International Version (NIV)
Submit Yourselves to God
4 What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? 2 You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight. You do not have because you do not ask God. 3 When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives, that you may spend what you get on your pleasures.
4 You adulterous people,[a] don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God. 5 Or do you think Scripture says without reason that he jealously longs for the spirit he has caused to dwell in us[b]? 6 But he gives us more grace. That is why Scripture says:
“God opposes the proud
but shows favor to the humble.”[c]
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05-18-2012, 06:04 AM
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PapaMIdnite is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Aberveen
For a few months now I've fantasized about the idea of sucking a cock, but it's never been to the point of actually wanting to go through with it in a real life situation.
So I figured "well i could get a dildo and see what that's like?"
I am hung up on a few things though.
1 I feel kind "silly" with the idea of shopping for a dildo online
and 2. I'm not the only person in my house, so I'd rather keep things discreet, what with people being excessively judgmental and all...
It may not be the real deal, but i feel like it could be a comfortable way to play around with this fantasy. Just feel kinda hesitant about owning one.
questions, comments, concerns, and of course jokes! feel free!
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Stupid question, but.. are you a guy or a girl?  Sorry, I can't find that on your profile..
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"You're such an inspiration for the ways
That I'll never ever choose to be"
And you say this like it's a bad thing..
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05-18-2012, 06:06 AM
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GrrlFriday is offline
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Have you considered getting a cucumber or something of that ilk, washing it and trying that out first? Might be a safer first option - less of an investment, easier to explain, and hopefully you won't feel silly buying a cucumber!
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05-18-2012, 06:16 AM
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photobuff56 is offline
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yes
The veggie idea is good, if no one else goes through your mail online is good and its private. Maybe a medium size to start and not to thick. I've tried them they are fun.
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Hi I'm so glad to meet you, now let's get naked. 
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05-18-2012, 08:17 AM
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janeyruth is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by GrrlFriday
Have you considered getting a cucumber or something of that ilk...
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Originally Posted by photobuff56
The veggie idea is good, if no one else goes through your mail...
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Of course, if someone is keeping an eye on you and notes that you're loading up on veggies but you're still as fat and disgusting-looking as ever, they might put two-and-two together....
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05-18-2012, 08:19 AM
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PapaMIdnite is offline
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Originally Posted by janeyruth
Of course, if someone is keeping an eye on you and notes that you're loading up on veggies but you're still as fat and disgusting-looking as ever, they might put two-and-two together....
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well put. Buy cucumbers and a lot of ice cream, too!
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"You're such an inspiration for the ways
That I'll never ever choose to be"
And you say this like it's a bad thing..
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05-18-2012, 12:28 PM
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I bought one last year
and I have used it nearly daily
love it deep
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05-18-2012, 03:57 PM
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Phydeax69 is offline
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Are there any adult stores in your area? Go there, browse, and buy something... I have a nice tapered one with a suction cup end that is good for sucking and fucking! In fact, I think I'm going to stuff myself with it shortly!
As far as keeping it hidden, do you have a basement? Hide it in a "junk" box, or if you have a drop ceiling, find a discreet place and hide it there.
Good luck!
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05-18-2012, 04:07 PM
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kinkydreams is offline
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Hehe love you advising on hiding it! Once found a neighbours stash of vibrators, cock lick etc whilst rumaging through her pantie drawer! :P
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05-18-2012, 10:38 PM
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FloridaCouple is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Aberveen
For a few months now I've fantasized about the idea of sucking a cock, but it's never been to the point of actually wanting to go through with it in a real life situation.
So I figured "well i could get a dildo and see what that's like?"
I am hung up on a few things though.
1 I feel kind "silly" with the idea of shopping for a dildo online
and 2. I'm not the only person in my house, so I'd rather keep things discreet, what with people being excessively judgmental and all...
It may not be the real deal, but i feel like it could be a comfortable way to play around with this fantasy. Just feel kinda hesitant about owning one.
questions, comments, concerns, and of course jokes! feel free!
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I assume you're guy. Buy one. My roommate and his GF walked in on me while I was riding my dildo (I am a guy). Things happen. Still friends although it was weird for 1 to 2 days.
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Is it wrong to want to rufie you, fist you, and then post your fisted ass as my avatar? I have no sense of right and wrong, and thought I'd ask.
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05-18-2012, 10:53 PM
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sunandshadow is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Phydeax69
Are there any adult stores in your area? Go there, browse, and buy something... I have a nice tapered one with a suction cup end that is good for sucking and fucking! In fact, I think I'm going to stuff myself with it shortly!
As far as keeping it hidden, do you have a basement? Hide it in a "junk" box, or if you have a drop ceiling, find a discreet place and hide it there.
Good luck!
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A toolbox which has a loop to fasten a lock on is a nice easy solution.
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I was wondering why I was having trouble getting inspired to continue an erotic story I've been working on. Then I noticed my shampoo bottle said: "Herbal Essences Drama Clean: I'm so good I'll put clean thoughts in your head!" And I thought well, clearly I need to get some new shampoo if this one's washing away all my nice dirty thoughts!
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05-22-2012, 04:05 AM
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I love sucking my didlos |
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05-22-2012, 09:19 AM
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BuckyDuckman is offline
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the short answer: yes, you should.
You could buy it "for her" and then use it when she's not looking.
You could buy it and hide it, of course.
Local sex store is a good choice if you don't want to buy online.
Still, the answer is "yes!"
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05-22-2012, 09:32 AM
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StarrOftheNite is offline
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Try it, you'll like it! A lot!
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05-25-2012, 04:15 AM
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Niko408 is offline
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I have a nice big suction one that sits next to my computer in case I get an urge. I just lean over and take a couple nice deep strides.
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05-25-2012, 12:03 PM
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dluvstoread is offline
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My wife and I.....
My wife and I have many...and we use them often. We purchased them all online...they come discretely packaged typically. I have sucked them all and love it now ready for the real thing.....just keep them locked up.
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05-26-2012, 08:42 PM
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StacyTG is offline
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You absolutely should! Just be very careful, and do your research. There are some that are a bit cheaper, and made with chemicals that can irritate some. I learned the hard way. The first one I bought I did so on the cheap (even though it was the highest-rated on this particular website), used it once and thew it right in the trash. Irritated by throat, like the chemicals it was made from were somehow bothering me.
Long story short, you get what you pay for.
Be safe and have fun!
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05-27-2012, 03:49 AM
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luv2lik123 is offline
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Of course you should buy one! No person should be without a dildo!!!!!!!
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05-27-2012, 04:52 AM
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james2346 is offline
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just go for the real thing. The warmth of your partner's cock will make it an amazing experience.
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05-27-2012, 11:25 AM
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StacyTG is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by james2346
just go for the real thing. The warmth of your partner's cock will make it an amazing experience.
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Some of us aren't blessed with having a special someone to share ourselves with in such loving and beautiful ways. That's why we have to use dildos.
You, know, I just realized, I really fucking hate my dildo.
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05-29-2012, 01:13 AM
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Niko408 is offline
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My dildo now makes me sad. I think it's time for it to cheer me up. |
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06-18-2012, 10:38 PM
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bps is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Aberveen
For a few months now I've fantasized about the idea of sucking a cock, but it's never been to the point of actually wanting to go through with it in a real life situation.
So I figured "well i could get a dildo and see what that's like?"
I am hung up on a few things though.
1 I feel kind "silly" with the idea of shopping for a dildo online
and 2. I'm not the only person in my house, so I'd rather keep things discreet, what with people being excessively judgmental and all...
It may not be the real deal, but i feel like it could be a comfortable way to play around with this fantasy. Just feel kinda hesitant about owning one.
questions, comments, concerns, and of course jokes! feel free!
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there are other interesting things you can do w/ a dildo, you know? |
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06-18-2012, 10:49 PM
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Trimjob69 is offline
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Aberveen
For a few months now I've fantasized about the idea of sucking a cock, but it's never been to the point of actually wanting to go through with it in a real life situation.
So I figured "well i could get a dildo and see what that's like?"
I am hung up on a few things though.
1 I feel kind "silly" with the idea of shopping for a dildo online
and 2. I'm not the only person in my house, so I'd rather keep things discreet, what with people being excessively judgmental and all...
It may not be the real deal, but i feel like it could be a comfortable way to play around with this fantasy. Just feel kinda hesitant about owning one.
questions, comments, concerns, and of course jokes! feel free!
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I'd recommend buying a dildo as opposed to renting one. |
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01-22-2013, 01:43 AM
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shelbakk is offline
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Dildo
Have you purchased one yet. You can try and send it to a po box?
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01-22-2013, 03:25 AM
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priapusone is offline
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should i buy
You might try Aneros for prostate health too!
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