masterbation

so this is going to sound super lame but i have no problem getting off when having sex with my partner , but when doing solo play it is more difficult to get myself off ?
does anyone have any suggestions of toys or anything that may help in this situation ? I can come when stimulating my clit, have much better orgasm when some thing ( a sex toy, or cock )

Since you do not have a problem when you are with someone, the issue might be psychological. Do you feel guilty masturbating? Were you brought up in a strict religious environment? What do you think about when you are solo?

There are a variety of masturbation aids out there. You might just experiment with some. Bullets and butterflies are popular. So it the Hitachi wand. If you like penetration, you might look at the Evo brand of toys.

geeky1017924 said:

so this is going to sound super lame but i have no problem getting off when having sex with my partner , but when doing solo play it is more difficult to get myself off ?
does anyone have any suggestions of toys or anything that may help in this situation ? I can come when stimulating my clit, have much better orgasm when some thing ( a sex toy, or cock )

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Sounds like your body responds better to internal stimulation. G-spot rather than clitoral stimulation. Read Mr.Gs thread "Try this and report back" in the How To "Cafe" that you reach at the top of the How To forum.

Click for that thread.http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=70892

Isn't it just more fun with a partner?

Try stepping up the stimulation.
Watch porn, read erotica, (try looking into subjects a bit more extreme than what you do in real life) do some edging or stay aroused for a longer time before being "allowed" to cum.

geeky1017924 said:

so this is going to sound super lame but i have no problem getting off when having sex with my partner , but when doing solo play it is more difficult to get myself off ?
does anyone have any suggestions of toys or anything that may help in this situation ? I can come when stimulating my clit, have much better orgasm when some thing ( a sex toy, or cock )

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Have you considered masturbating in front of an audience? Perhaps finding a chat site with webcams so you can have others watch and comment? Most people I know find that having others watch adds a tremendous amout of stimulation.