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RacyWilde said:
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Guess how we keep our hands warm in Norway...haha! (If you have a weak stomach look away, look away!!)

@newengland07 - how many fingers, you asked? Count them...lol.


https://i.imgur.com/CfjnvDS.png

:kiss:

Disclaimer: But seriously, I'm a safety girl. The only reason I feel confident and comfortable doing this with this particular sub is because he has been a good boy in training his body well. The process we take is gentle and careful, our communication is fluid and we trust each other. As a Domme, I actually let him guide me as he knows what his body can handle, and of course, each time it is different depending on various factors such as stress, comfort, warmth, and frequency, etc. So what I'm saying is: Don't try this at home kids unless you have done all the prep and training and taken all the necessary precautions for safety and care. Play safe. :rose:
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Wow I want to help keep your hands warm!!!
 
Been curious...

... but I was going to PM you, then I thought... well if I get ridiculed, so what. I have been curious about being a sub to a domme... BUT... I am not really into anal or into pain. Then I read this:
RacyWilde said:
For the chickens who have PMed me...lol:

“It’s not my thing…” I find vanilla men say. It’s either because they have watched too much Femdom porn (which is the complete opposite of real Femdom) or they don’t like women leading sex and taking control to fulfil their desires. If you think slavery, pegging and corporal punishment are Femdom, then you are dead wrong – they are fetishes. Female Domination is a relationship dynamic where the female is dominant. That in no way means she is aggressive, bossy or demanding, but it does mean she takes responsibility, she leads and guides, nurtures and protects. If that is ‘not a man’s thing’, he is not worthy of her.

:kiss:
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With that said, is there a way to be a sub to a domme female without pain? (and when I say pain, I am not saying light spanking is out, but perhaps caning), obviously you say pegging is just a fetish of the D/s relationship, but it does seem to be a big part of the ones you have shared thus far. You may say I am vanilla, but I just haven't found anyone to explore anything within set limits before. So as the title says... I've been curious.
 
_Munster_ said:
He must have gotten a fright when he seen that picture! Im afraid to ask but still intrigued to know is that the most hardcore thing youve done to this sub? I take it that this guy is in the premier league of subs when it comes to thresholds?
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Well, that's all relative really. It depends on an individuals meaning of 'hardcore' - is it pain, humiliation, or anal?

The sub in question is hardcore for anal... but not for pain or humiliation.


ncfreak269 said:
Wow I want to help keep your hands warm!!!
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You got a place for them? lol.

bone251 said:
Curious how much abuse you have given the balls?
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Hmm... I do do CBT but it is mainly just bondage and flogging, etc.

crashD said:
looks around...

RUNS FOR MY FUCKING LIFE>>>>!!!

;)
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lol. :cool:

Shyguy1369 said:
... but I was going to PM you, then I thought... well if I get ridiculed, so what. I have been curious about being a sub to a domme... BUT... I am not really into anal or into pain. Then I read this:

With that said, is there a way to be a sub to a domme female without pain? (and when I say pain, I am not saying light spanking is out, but perhaps caning), obviously you say pegging is just a fetish of the D/s relationship, but it does seem to be a big part of the ones you have shared thus far. You may say I am vanilla, but I just haven't found anyone to explore anything within set limits before. So as the title says... I've been curious.
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Yeah, I peg all my subs, but then again, I only choose subs who are into pegging. Pegging gives me a deep emotional satisfaction and makes me become hyper close to my subs.

You might be more interested in a Sensual Domme. They tend to use gentle sensory techniques. But really, every Domme is different, there is no standard. You just need to find a person you like first then the Domme second. ;)
 
RacyWilde said:
Yeah, I peg all my subs, but then again, I only choose subs who are into pegging. Pegging gives me a deep emotional satisfaction and makes me become hyper close to my subs.

You might be more interested in a Sensual Domme. They tend to use gentle sensory techniques. But really, every Domme is different, there is no standard. You just need to find a person you like first then the Domme second. ;)
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Thanks for answering my question, it is greatly appreciated.:rose:
 
RacyWilde said:
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Guess how we keep our hands warm in Norway...haha! (If you have a weak stomach look away, look away!!)

@newengland07 - how many fingers, you asked? Count them...lol.


https://i.imgur.com/CfjnvDS.png

:kiss:

Disclaimer: But seriously, I'm a safety girl. The only reason I feel confident and comfortable doing this with this particular sub is because he has been a good boy in training his body well. The process we take is gentle and careful, our communication is fluid and we trust each other. As a Domme, I actually let him guide me as he knows what his body can handle, and of course, each time it is different depending on various factors such as stress, comfort, warmth, and frequency, etc. So what I'm saying is: Don't try this at home kids unless you have done all the prep and training and taken all the necessary precautions for safety and care. Play safe. :rose:
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"Got your whole fist up there Doc?"
 
RacyWilde said:
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Love it when a sub knows how to be a good little anal slut. I remember this moment so clearly. When they lose themselves in ecstasy their hands just have to touch me as if to check if I'm real, if what just happened happened. You can see his hand on my thigh as he comes back to earth.


https://i.imgur.com/lv3gY6S.png

:kiss:
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Would be fun there.
 
RacyWilde said:
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Love it when a sub knows how to be a good little anal slut. I remember this moment so clearly. When they lose themselves in ecstasy their hands just have to touch me as if to check if I'm real, if what just happened happened. You can see his hand on my thigh as he comes back to earth.


https://i.imgur.com/lv3gY6S.png

:kiss:
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Wow, coming back down to earth would take some time after such exquisite pleasure being administered so expertly by yourself, wonderful :cattail:
 
I’m not sure I’m down for going wrist deep, but being submissive, yeah i could go that way if necessary.
 
Edgeofreason said:
Wow, coming back down to earth would take some time after such exquisite pleasure being administered so expertly by yourself, wonderful :cattail:
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Sometimes it does... but sometimes I don't allow them to leave so we can start again the next second...lol.

Edgeofreason said:
And you certainly treat them so well :rose:
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I do... I really value my subs.

Feelfreetotouch said:
No wool socks please.
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lol... You know, I have never done footing... yet. :p

newengland07 said:
Wow!!! I honestly am speechless....
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Um... so am I...lol.

LitMasterJ said:
I’m not sure I’m down for going wrist deep, but being submissive, yeah i could go that way if necessary.
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Yeah, well, wrist deep is not every sub's desire and I'm ok with that (though, yeah, pegging for me is a need). Some are more into pain, some into humiliation... As a Domme who enjoys many connections at the same time, I've grown to be versatile. What I desire most is that 'wow' moment when you connect with someone on that deeper level, an experience you can't explain but feel.

:kiss:
 
I find this thread very interesting—it’s...sweet? It has that feel to me which seems surprising because of (my) misconceptions about what being a Domme really means. It is less about the actual sex acts, although I like hearing about and seeing them. It’s more about the bond and trust you have with another person. I’m surprised it can be so strong so soon after you’ve met them. It takes trust on your part too.

Do you mind talking about how you decide upon a sub? I’m sure you have messages overflowing your mailbox. How do you pick? What’s the process?

Thank you for sharing your experiences and I look forward to hearing more.
 
RacyWilde said:
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I know the picture quality isn't very good, but this is one of my favourites. My sub is clinging to me, exhausted. I commanded him to come after six hours of edging and play... Like a good sub, he had asked me where. I knelt down before him and offered my breasts... He nearly passed out. But, he came in seconds all over me and then crumbled to the floor in an orgasmic stupor. All he could do was breathe and hold on to me. I don't normally take pictures when things are so vulnerable... when he is... I want such moments to be all mine, him to be all mine... But I did take a snap this time, for I admit, the moment was a little too intense for me – I needed a break from it, to step out and collect myself again. Yes, I was caught up in him... a person I had only just met six hours prior. But it meant I now have a lovely memento of an incredible moment between a sub and his Mistress. Femdom is also gentle, intimate and passionate. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise. x


https://i.imgur.com/yjPcNid.png

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This is beautiful.
 
RacyWilde said:
Yeah, well, wrist deep is not every sub's desire and I'm ok with that (though, yeah, pegging for me is a need). Some are more into pain, some into humiliation... As a Domme who enjoys many connections at the same time, I've grown to be versatile. What I desire most is that 'wow' moment when you connect with someone on that deeper level, an experience you can't explain but feel.

:kiss:
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Pegging I can get behind (or in front of, maybe?).
 
Sexybritches69 said:
I find this thread very interesting—it’s...sweet? It has that feel to me which seems surprising because of (my) misconceptions about what being a Domme really means. It is less about the actual sex acts, although I like hearing about and seeing them. It’s more about the bond and trust you have with another person. I’m surprised it can be so strong so soon after you’ve met them. It takes trust on your part too.

Do you mind talking about how you decide upon a sub? I’m sure you have messages overflowing your mailbox. How do you pick? What’s the process?

Thank you for sharing your experiences and I look forward to hearing more.
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Haha! Sure, I thought I'd answer you the looooooooog way..lol :kiss: .
 
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