Online-Things Doms Have Subs Do To Keep Them Occupied?

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I have a online Dom and I want him to have more control in my daily things like what to clean each day like house chores I know I should do them anyway but him saying to do it he's with me more and I don't lie if I don't do it I will tell him.

So I am asking
What are Things Doms have Subs Do To Keep Them Occupied?
Housework wise
Online wise .

Any Advice Thank You !
 
I have a online Dom and I want him to have more control in my daily things like what to clean each day like house chores I know I should do them anyway but him saying to do it he's with me more and I don't lie if I don't do it I will tell him.

So I am asking
What are Things Doms have Subs Do To Keep Them Occupied?
Housework wise
Online wise .

Any Advice Thank You !


Unfortunately it really all depends on your dominant and yourself. You must get a feel for each other in order to understand what each of you wants and needs. My suggestion would be to talk to him about your question and your goals. If he is a good dominant then he'll listen to you and your needs and he will be able to come up with a good answer that will work for both of you. It's our responsibility as submissives to be open and honest, so that they can take care of us better!

:) Everyone is a little different and every relationship is different.

Now if you still want some specific advice, I recommend making a list of chores you need to do and giving it to your dominant. Be specific and tell him how often something needs to get done or how long you can spend on it. He can review it and then decide what your chores can be for the day or even the week. If you're good then you can have a reward, if your bad then discipline can come into play. Again it's really all very personal, and depends on what's best for the both of you.

This is just my humble opinion, Im no expert. And sorry for the long ramble. :)I'm done now.
 
Unfortunately it really all depends on your dominant and yourself. You must get a feel for each other in order to understand what each of you wants and needs. My suggestion would be to talk to him about your question and your goals. If he is a good dominant then he'll listen to you and your needs and he will be able to come up with a good answer that will work for both of you. It's our responsibility as submissives to be open and honest, so that they can take care of us better!

:) Everyone is a little different and every relationship is different.

Now if you still want some specific advice, I recommend making a list of chores you need to do and giving it to your dominant. Be specific and tell him how often something needs to get done or how long you can spend on it. He can review it and then decide what your chores can be for the day or even the week. If you're good then you can have a reward, if your bad then discipline can come into play. Again it's really all very personal, and depends on what's best for the both of you.

This is just my humble opinion, Im no expert. And sorry for the long ramble. :)I'm done now.
Agree with what is said here, most depends on your relationship and how well each of you know each other.
Sometimes it helps to discuss things to be done not just general but details. If a sub wants more control a Dom should recognize this but you can always go into details. If you clean discuss with what example- if you clean the bathroom floor with a brush then use a toothbrush instead, do not clean dishes in a dishwasher do them by hand.
This may or may not help you.
 
I require my partners to check in each day and wish me a good morning. I sometimes make clothing or meal choices for them. I sometimes set them homework assignments or passages to memorise. All of these things are a hell of a lot of fun.
 
I require my partners to check in each day and wish me a good morning. I sometimes make clothing or meal choices for them. I sometimes set them homework assignments or passages to memorise. All of these things are a hell of a lot of fun.

passages? like what
 
My mistress tells me what to wear and sometimes she makes me search out videos to send her.
 
I require my partners to check in each day and wish me a good morning. I sometimes make clothing or meal choices for them. I sometimes set them homework assignments or passages to memorise. All of these things are a hell of a lot of fun.

These are such cute ideas! I would request my old sub to write poetry for me. Or read certain books, or watch a certain film... When she had time. It fit the theme of our relationship.
 
I've often thought about being assigned a specific exercise routine that I had to do each day. I don't like working out at all so it would be benefiting me by forcing me to exercise for my own health, but also pushing me psychologically to please my master. I think it could also be sort of a punishment if he pushed me too hard at times and my muscles got too sore.
Although, since I'm not fond of working out, I've even entertained the idea of trying to find a somewhat sadistic personal trainer at the local gym.
 
Actually I have assigned a workout routine, articles to read then write a report discussing that topic to develop themselves personally or to broaden their knowledge of an new area of play, defining their strengths and weaknesses, greet me in the morning and goodnight, etc.
 
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