Finally, a Strap-on Harness that works

After quite a few disappointments, we finally found a harness that works well. It is the Kinklab low rise. We bought the full curves size, as my SO is a bit curvy. We've had several harnesses before that just weren't secure enough, but this one is solid and allows spirited play. It allows for a lot of adjustment, and she is able to position the dildo exactly where she wants it.

http://www.kinklab.com/products/low_rise_strapon.php

It is pricey, but if you look on Amazon, you can find it for under $50.

We paired it with a Mistress dildo that was suggested by another poster here (thanks oldkinky). It is just about perfect. I found it at a decent price on shevibe.com.

Our favorite

For my girlfriend and I, the best one is the Joque from SpareParts. It's stay well in place during our play.

http://www.amazon.com/SpareParts-Joque-double-strap-Harness/dp/B002ZOMW28

I've been doing this;


it's the best way to harness an insertable, like a Feeldoe, or the Fun Factory Share. And the scarves just go into the wash...

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I note that the website for strapless dildoes simply uses a pair of panty hose, with a hole in the crotch. The panty hose can also be net stockings. The Realdoe looks incredibly hot without all of the climbing belt hardware!