LucyCanyon
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For me, the build up is the best. The actual sex. The orgasm is great, don't get me wrong, but it's the rush of emotions, passion, lust, while in the midst of sex that is the best. The head of my cock gets so sensitive, coming inside a woman is almost too much and takes away from it all. A hand job or blow job on the other hand-- fantastic. But it's a bummer when the ride is over.
Agree, though so many men and much erotic fiction maintains the idea that as soon as we cum it's time to start getting ready again and my cock is usually way too sensitive to be touched, and my mind is already wondering why I'm so weirdly dressed (which was all sensual and feminine only Lomé ta before)
In my, albeit not vast, experience the female takes longer to reach the plateau that the orgasm seems to be and that orgasm last longer and is described differently to the short staccato pulses that I experience, pleasurable though that release is. Edging is great for me... but means I cum even quicker when it gets serious and penetratitive!