All_4_Love
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Yes to each their own, although when a couple of submissives on the threads were talking about the fun to be had by willfully disobeying their Sirs and I was taken aback. I was all aghast and thinking why would you have a Sir to disobey him? Horrors!
I mean I am not a door mat by any means, I am an alpha sub. I am independent and take charge type of person in every day life. I naturally step up to the plate, I defend those weaker and have no issues with being assertive in many situations, even at times being aggressive.
However, when it comes to my Sir, I can be exquisitely submissive. *Cheshire grin* I know this because he told me so. Other times he says I am so alpha though, so I need to work on that. I don't mean to, it just comes out.
Back to the topic at hand, I do often wonder what gratification a Dom/Domme gets from the dynamic, it seems like so much work on their end. But then my Dom is a pleasure Dom and I feel very spoiled.
Serene One,
I am starting to feel a bit self conscious, as I have contributed my fair share to the thread jacking.
Before I back out, I just want to say thank you for embracing your vulnerability as well as my own and sharing your thoughts and feelings with me...
and for making me feel welcome, not like a stranger. *big hug*